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Christmas is simply an event to celebrate the birth of Jesus. Yes, its not the exact date but it doesnt matter. What matters is the purpose behind the celebration. To be grateful and joyous for the birth of Jesus.
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I never once preached about religion. I simply told you my experience. If i told you that my sex addiction was cured by therapy and counselling, would you still be as triggered?
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Yes, we all know that prostitution is the oldest profession. One does not need to refer to the bible to know that. So what is your point exactly? War, rape and famine have also been around for many millennia. So do we have to celebrate them as well?
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The pope said that homosexuality is not a crime, but still a sin. Thats a factual inaccuracy. The pope has also never absolved any priests for child molestation. If he did, it would be in the front page news. Not quite sure if you know what the term “absolve” means. But yes, there have been many instances of sexual abuse in the catholic church. That is a fact.
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I dont have a wife. Im a single 24 yr old.
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I have never once told anyone to confess their chionging ways to their wife. That is up to them- I personally couldnt give a shit.
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Originally Posted by
Penguin23
He’s some kind of evangelist, hiding behind an anonymous nick and trying his best to convert as many sinners as possible to see the light.
I zapped him in another forum, I think Boss Sam or abother Mod should either do something about this idiotic behavior or we just take enough points off this nick to zap him back to moderation hell.
Lol why so triggered? Did i don robes of white and condemn you guys? Took the moral high ground and exhorted you fellow sinners to turn back? This is just me sharing my experience.
I simply suffered from a sex addiction and X helped me recover. X could be anything, be it therapy, counselling or meditation, etc. In this case it was religion. If i said therapy helped cure my addiction would you still be so triggered?
Seems like you have an unconscious bias towards religion that you are projecting towards me. Maybe a priest molested you when you were a boy perhaps.
Feel free to zap me bro. I dont really give a shit about “points” in a sex forum. Get a life loser.
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Originally Posted by
curious11
since u want to leave the scene, by staying here is definitely very risky bro.
i’ve left once before, but sooner or later also found my way back to this forum. not that i’m addicted as i manage to control how much i spend (financial literacy does wonders lol), nowadays the excuse i use, if i do visit ML, is for self caring lol. other people drink, gamble, padi mani for ladies, clean massage etc, mine is this.
Just wondering, if you have decided to justify that visiting MLs is ok, then what made you want to leave in the first place?
No offence, but it seems like you wanted to quit, failed, and then cognitive dissonance kicked in and you decided that justifying it was much better than quiting lol
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Originally Posted by
sexbuzz
so when will be ur last day here
Hopefully it will come to a point where visiting MLs/FLs become a distant memory, and the urge to visit becomes non-existent. When that happens, this chapter of my life will become inconsequential and ill move on.
For now though, the urge to go back is fucking strong, and the addiction withdrawals are quite bad. I feel that writing here has been very helpful in my healing journey. In a way this has become sort of a journaling practice, where I am able to pen down my emotions and self-internalize them, instead of keeping it within me(like in the past where nobody knew of my lifestyle). Also helps that I am now accountable to you guys which makes me even more determined to quit.
Long story short, replying in this thread has been very therapeutic for me. Kind of like pouring out my life story to a therapist, only that its anonymous and free.
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Originally Posted by
faketobey
A fake story like all the many stories on here. Society’s norm in this generation is make up stories, this is an after effect from watching too much western propaganda politics and religious belief on television. If you are a Christian then you should know Christmas is a made up holiday created by a jewish guy. Yes created by someone of another religion. Stop preaching you BS to everyone about church and morality then say you are not taking a moral high ground or being religious, which you are. Did you know prostitution is one of the oldest proffesion and its even mention in the Bible a book written by a non Christian? Additionally, the pope just said homosexuality is not a sin. Talk about the leader of the one of the biggest religion in the world absolving its members of child molestation as not a sin so they believe they will all go to heaven. Many people here have been in the hobby over 20 years. Just because you feel guilty dont have to spew shit in a forum , you got balls and be all high and mighty tell you wife of your past trangressions. I dare you. Bo lam pa dont come here and tell people to do stuff you dont dare to do.
Lol what a clown. This is not a fake story. Go search my post history. I have visited multiple FLs/MLs before. Not sure how i can convince you that my desire to quit is real though.
Now,lets unpack the verbal diarrhoea you just wrote.
I hope you were drunk when you were typing. You sound like an uneducated, ignorant clown.
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Originally Posted by
faketobey
The fact you are 24 yrs old and preaching to a bunch of us lau uncles shows how dumb and disrepsectful you are. Not married but preached about feeling of guilt for married people. You should go make a tiktok video to spread your believed than preach in a sex forum.
Never even preached once. Not sure if you can read or comprehend. Please quote my so-called “preaching”.
Im also waiting for you to reply to the pointers above.
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Originally Posted by
xels
this ts has a screw loose somewhere.
you’ve asked for people to share their stories and support you in your journey to quit, but more often than not, you’ve literally dissected their story to scrutinize what doesn’t “logically” fit your narrative and attack them instead.
this is a sex forum. no one is going to be 100% truthful or detailed, or even logical in the first place.
if you want to quit, go ahead. if you need the validation to quit, go ahead and continue posting to share your journey.
if not, suggest you bring your thread over to reddit r/sg where the people of your generation hang out, and only say the nice things you wanna hear. dont stay in this 100% anonymous forum with so many dua pao xian, and post all over the various subforums to seek attention.
typical entitled gen z.
Yes you’re right, i “dissected” the post of a fellow samster who accused me of lying about my story. Thats called logical reasoning.
Yes you’re right, there are definitely siao langs in the forum. Why do you think so many upskirters and sex criminals come from here?
But this is the part where you are wrong. Me replying and rebutting their illogical statements and false lies ensures that fellow lurkers here dont get deceived by what they say.
Therefore it is imperative for me to speak out the truth based on facts and logic, in the court of public opinion, for all to see.
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Originally Posted by
donut88
My advice is to get a real gf.
Your average looks is not an excuse. Many of us are also average or below average looks but still can get gfs. No one looks like Andy Lau.
U shld examine your behavior or EQ. maybe need to recalibrate to fit in better and socialise more with real gals.
Don’t let yourself be in despair. Its not going to improve your life.
Im not in despair bro. I know I can get a gf, just a matter of how low i want to settle for. Theres 6 billion people in the world, cfm can get gf.
The problem is that I lust for hot girls, which is what im trying to fix rn.
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Originally Posted by
danieltay93
TS,
Our sexual urges are biological, similarly to animals/dogs wanking against poles/legs every month or so. Your hormones levels plus taking supplement increase your testosterone.
Reasoning against our biological urges, wanking it out or spiritually talking it won’t help.
Sincerely hoping you prove it wrong in a few months time.
All the best.
Yes bro i workout alot and take high quality supplements like tongkat ali to boost my testosterone. One on hand it gives me more energy and confidence, but makes me more horny.
Guess you cant have your cake and eat it.
Just an update today-
Very bad day today. Addiction withdrawal in full force. Urge to find FL very strong.
Im in alot of pain and cant concentrate, just keep thinking of finding FL.
Not sure how long more I can tahan. But if i relapse i cfm go on another sex rampage. FUCK my life.
This lifestyle really FUCKING hard to quit
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MatthewC
I don’t understand? If you can afford (money is not the only factor) to do it, go ahead with it BUT if it is something you are trying to stop, then your motivation is not strong enough or you do not have a good enough reason, why even bother.
YOU that needs to be convinced, once that has been established, you are in a right mind frame, things gets easier. Be happy bro.
Bro u ever hear of something called addiction? You know how it works? You think all the drug addicts dw to quit/ dont have enough motivation? Theres a reason why 9 out of 10 addicts relapse. Its because addiction is fucking powerful and difficult to break from.
Motivation only goes so far. Once it hits you it goes out of the window. Its like u see the naked FL on the bed and youre horny af, u think ur motivation to not cheat on ur wife/gf will work at that moment?