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Are there anyone out there or any suggestions on what i can do to “teach” him…? I was hoping I could engage someone to come and do a practical on me and at the same time, be able to guide him and all on the hot spots and how to properly do it.
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Anyone tried tantric massage? Would it be good for my bf? as well as me..in terms of sexual side.
- Are there anyone out there or any suggestions on what i can do to “teach” him…? I was hoping I could engage someone to come and do a practical on me and at the same time, be able to guide him and all on the hot spots and how to properly do it.
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Not sure how many ladies in this forum but I knew sammy existed since donkey years back thanks to an ex bf.
In any case, not here to discuss him. I just need practical advice and your take on this.
Kinda happily attached. There’s only one problem. My bf comes too fast and is to a large extent unable to please me in bed. Initially thought I could get over this minor hiccup.
I don’t wish to embarass him by asking my female frens for their take or advice, neither wish to visit female forums cos I seriously do not see what info they can offer that I don’t know..
Background:
Before me, he had only had 2 girlfrens, less than a handful of sexual intercourse experience (making out less than 15times a year) and mostly do-it-himself mode. Not fantastically high sex drive but not a dead rat either.
I’m the exact opposite. I do believe myself to a high sex drive and appetite.
And therein lies the problem.
He has tried to delay coming but in my context I stil do find it fast. To be fair, there is an improvement but 30secs more…. Banging me wise, his style is routine and I am really jaded with it. Have encouraged him to try other styles but…he tries it only once and then reverts to his favourite missionary.
Getting increasingly unfulfiled, increasingly I am beginning to search online for tantric, sensual or even escort services for women..which is bad. All in all, I am still trying to preserve this relationship; but i do not know how long i can endure this.
I just have 2 questions.
Thks loads.
You mean you want somebody to do you in front of him so he can learn. If so have you ask him if he is agreeable …. me think not many people will agree to something like this, a big blow to their ego.
I think the best way is to buy him the kamasutra book and also to watch porn together with him so he can learn all the tricks.
If all fail, I think you had better dump him
am sure quite a number here willing to be your partner ….
hmm… think u are not alone.
i have hear of many having such issues similar to urs.
good thing abt u is that both u and ur bf is open to treatment and ideas to help each other unlike most couples who rather be quiet abt it…
since u are familiar with ur bf and roughly know how long he takes to cum, i would suggest to you everytime he is abt to cum, stop whatever you are doing…let him rest for a while… then resume in teasing him again…
when he is abt to cum, stop and hold his dickhead for a couple of secs… rinse and repeat this action for abt 8-10 times… when he finally release, u will find him loading off a huge amt of cum… (u can tell him u are doing this to let him enjoy and oso kinda of teasing him so u wont hurt his ego by telling him u are training him as he cums too fast)
practise with him once a week… u will see the result in time to come.
(when u help him initially, u will not really enjoy the sex part as u probably get bored… as u will lose the interest after being wet and dry up while waiting for him again)
U mentioned fast……but how fast? Time duration?
To stop all activity and rest, might be a good suggestion.
Maybe you can have second or more round after that.
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wooshiedot
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I was hoping I could engage someone to come and
do a practical on me
and at the same time, be able to guide him and all on the hot spots and how to properly do it.
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ok ok i can consider that but do i get paid or not?
on a more serious note, yr bf has premature ejaculation which is veri common. u can find lots of books at the bookshops or libraries on this topic.
Dear miss,
I think you may be pressurising your bf by the timing. Is he concious of it? My advice is, do alot of foreplay with him! I assume you are quite readily turn on. For guys, you need to desensitize him little brother by giving him a blow, touching and rubbing the bird etc. See how long he can tahan!
Or you can try making love in the morning when both of you had woke up (if you are staying together).
Maybe ask him watch more porn? To delay his fast cumming problems, maybe you want to prolong the foreplay?
Sis wooshiedot
I think he may be worried about his performance that’s why so fast. Not sure about other bros, but I have ranged from 30 mins non-stop session to ultra fast release within 3 or 4 strokes (15 sec)
Sometimes, when i kan cheong… can even cum in BJ.. Longest I have had was close to 40 mins without cumming and tt time I know that I will take very long so I told the FL to forget it and let’s juz rest
Anyway, why dun you consider doing a second shot with him? HJ or BJ him for his 1st then when he is hard again, he should last longer… the time taken is mostly psychological (Or due to training) so using performa CD or taking Magix, Tongkat Ali etc will have limited effect unless his mind is primed.
For your suggestion 1, I will suggest 2 alternative
a. Get someone to do on another girl in front of you (with or without him) then observe and learn
b. Get someone to do prac on you without him and you learn.
Dun let anyone do prac on you when he is there as I think he will not be able to take it.. Not everybody can stand seeing another man bonking his girl
If you are keen, I think a lot of bros here will help u … u only have to screen
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Would suggest this:-
(1) Use Durex Extra Safe
(2) Do it in the morning
(3) Get him to drink Red Bull first before sex
Why?
Durex Extra Safe is so damn thick that he won’t feel a thing. Doing it in the morning means he’s well-rested and ready to roll. Drinking Red Bull before sex enables him to revv into over drive
Combine all these 3 together, you will have one hell of a sex machine that will beat the Duracell Bunny any time!
SERIOUS !
To Thread Starter, I have a question,
while yours involves unfulfillment
becos your guy cums too fast and affect your enjoyment
in my case, I tend to screw hard and probably too long
and although my gal always cums as often as 4-5 times during our bonk
she has asked me to cum faster especially if our session lasts an hour long
I dun know why having sex with her I could “tahan” and prolong
maybe I love seeing her facial expressions, her cums as she enjoys my dong
she says that while cumming too many times is shiok and song
but her neck aches bad (as she reaches to deep french me) as if it’s torn
she says it’s better to cum twice than more but the climaxes must be strong
and that it’s best when I could also cum along
is there a compromise where we could both enjoy our bonk
not too short and not too long?