A mother allegedly had her son beside her while having a mid-air SEX ROMP
April 14, 2009
A MOTHER accused of having a mid-air sex romp with another woman’s boyfriend reportedly had her young son beside her at the time.
Clare Irby, 29, allegedly pleasured Daniel Melia, 36, under a blanket as his drunken model girlfriend lay passed out next to them
, The Sun reported.
Clare’s son James, two, was said to be curled up alongside on the Bangalore-Heathrow flight. It is believed he was asleep
.
Model Sarah Hannon, 35, screamed as she woke up and found the pair being stopped in the act by hostesses
.
The trio were arrested at Heathrow and child care was found for James.
Ms Irby and
student
Mr Melia, 36 were arrested for gross indecency, while Ms Hannon was held for being drunk on an aircraft.
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Man jailed for sexually abusing daughter
A 48-year-old US man who sexually assaulted his daughter for nearly two decades and fathered her three children was sentenced to 109 years to life in prison.
“I hope he suffers,” his 29-year-old daughter told the Los Angeles Times after Friday’s sentencing in California’s largest city. “I want him to die in there in jail because that’s what he did to me. He confined me.”
She told authorities that her father began sexually assaulting her at the age of 6, beat her and kept her a prisoner in their home. He installed security cameras to monitor her and told her he would kill her if she tried to escape, she said.
The defendant, who represented himself at the trial, made charges of falsified evidence and perjured testimony, but DNA tests proved he was the father and grandfather of the victim’s daughters, ages 4, 7 and 11.
Man jailed for sexually abusing daughter
Love or fun on the side?
I AM a
married woman with four kids
. I have been married for 11 years to a man who doesn’t show any responsibility.
I am 30 years old now and have fallen in love with another guy
. He is from Penang and is
also a married man with five kids
.
We both know that our relationship cannot continue long term since both of us have our own families, but at the same time, we can’t ignore the deep love we have for each other.
We have met three times and I can’t break it up
just like that because our feelings will kill us. Please advise.
An Affair
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REPLY:-
IF you want to continue with the affair, be prepared to lose your husband, children and suffer the consequences of your behaviour.
You have four children and your life might have been full of drudgery and boredom when you could have enjoyed your youth and beauty. Things were normal, unexciting and filled with chores and regularities until you met your lover.
This man probably provoked your latent feelings of sexuality and adventure. It must feel so exciting, exhilarating and thrilling to enjoy a relationship on the sly. Perhaps this guy is also suffering marriage fatigue. Sharing a romantic interlude, without commitment or obligation, must feel wonderfully liberating.
During these stolen moments, you could both feel young, free and unfettered by the reality of bringing up a family, working and coping with the daily grind.
However, there is too much hurt and pain involved if you both selfishly decide to carry on. Do not be seduced and fooled by your feelings now. If you marry your lover, life will probably go the same way. There will be the children to care for, the house to clean, as you continue to be wife and mother.
An affair is never a solution. If your marriage is the problem, then think of ways to improve your relationship with your husband. Enjoy your children and do not see them as responsibilities and liabilities.
It should not be difficult to forget
a man you have met only three times
. Be sensible, rational and remember that your family needs you more. Do not fall into a trap of guilt and regrets because it is more difficult to salvage love betrayed.
From Malaysia Newspapers
The better man will win
I AM a 30-year-old man who broke up with my first and only girlfriend nine years ago.
Six months ago, I met a girl, C, at a friend’s party. She did not really talk to me at first as she found me stand-offish. Over the following months, we met mostly through group outings and somehow my feelings for her grew. Recently, we had a chance to be alone and I confessed my feelings to her.
I did this despite knowing that she already has a boyfriend, whom she has been going out since her college days. Their relationship is mature, they have even bought a house together, although she has turned down his offer of marriage, claiming she’s not ready for it
Surprisingly, after I expressed my feelings, she did not reject me outright. She told me that she too had grown to be fond of me. Happily, we decided to give things a try and she alternates between seeing me and her boyfriend.
During times of guilt, she’s asked to break our relationship but I have told her that she should not rush this matter.
She’s in a dilemma and doesn’t know who to choose – someone who’s she known for many years or a new love. I’ve tried to assure her that her feelings for me are genuine else she would not have reciprocated my love.
I only worry that she will end up choosing her current boyfriend only for the sake of convenience. How do I convince her that she has to trust her heart and put faith in my ability to be the right life partner for her?
I have no feelings for anyone but her and the thought of losing my fated love now haunts me. Do you see a happy ending in this for both of us? Please advice………..
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REPLY:-
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YOUR girlfriend will have to make the ultimate decision. She knows very well that
she can’t have both men
.
Her mind probably tells her to stick with her guy. After so many years together, sharing house and home, she almost has a marriage. But then you came into her life and you brought excitement, attention, love and thrill.
You understand her well and do not want to pressure her into a decision. Yet, you seem to have accepted the inevitable, that she will leave you eventually. With this attitude, you will surely lose your gal. Think before you give up.
If she has been truly happy with her guy, would she have allowed herself into this situation?
Two timing is very stressful because it involves lies, deceit, manipulation and deviousness.
If this woman is of such character, then you should be the first to leave.
But if you believe that she is with you because she is having doubts about her relationship, then you have hope.
If your love is so strong after knowing her for only six months, then go on fighting. Ask for time, create opportunities for this relationship to develop and strengthen. Persuade her with love, sincerity and persistence. Do not allow fear, doubts and placid acceptance to rule your mind.
Love has no enemy. When she has to decide, the better man should win.[/
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Wrecked by anger
I’M a 22-year-old local university undergraduate in my third year of study. It has been almost two months now since I broke up with my girlfriend.
We were together for more than a year before our relationship ended. We were both so unhappy at that time and we hada lot of arguments over petty matters.
We tried to sort out our differences many times before but the problem would always end up resurfacing because of me.
I was so stubborn and unwilling to change my ways. I am the cause of so much hurt to her. Every time we argued, I would always let my emotions and rage get the better of me. It would be like a debate, and I was never willing to give in, even when I knew I was wrong.
More often than not, I would raise my voice and utter words so sharp that it could have shattered her heart into pieces. Sometimes, I would run away and leave her alone in tears after an argument.
However, as I calmed down, I would realise how horrible my actions were and would try to patch things up. She would forgive me, because she loved me, and believed that I would eventually change.
I only realised how much I loved her after we broke up. She was such a wonderful, tolerant and understanding girlfriend and I don’t know how I could have pushed her out of my life.
I really regret all of the heartache I brought her. Although we decided to remain friends, at times, she treats me coldly and my heart aches with pain.
I have tried to let go but thoughts of her still keep coming back. I know I don’t deserve a second chance but I just can’t stop loving her. I’m so miserable and lonely now.
Silly Hamster
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Reply:-
IF you are still friends, then perhaps she is cold due to disappointment and anger. Sure, you have hurt her but have you tried harder to make amends?
This girl must care a lot to have forgiven you so many times. While you have accepted all the blame, where is your sincerity? Time and again, you allowed your temper to control you. Regrets make feeble apologies if you never tried to be a better person.
Emotional abuse often leads to physical assault. The feeling of power and control can be heady and addictive. If you truly love her, wouldn’t you be able to hold your emotion and temper in check?
You are a bully and a coward. You love this woman but you never tried to stop the abuse. You claim misery and loneliness now but you do not have the courage to change and beg for another chance.
If you cannot help yourself, you do not deserve love and forgiveness.
Thai sex workers were slaves
Five
Thai women
brought to Australia under a sex slave scheme were told they had to work off debts of up to $90,000, a Melbourne court has heard. Kam Tin Ho, his brother Ho Kam Ho, Chee Fui Hoo and Slamet Edy Rahardjo are accused of being involved in the well planned and sophisticated scheme, the Victorian Supreme Court has heard.
Opening the trial, crown prosecutor Daniel Gurvich told the jury the scheme involved bringing the women to Australia and profiting from their willingness to work for minimum reward in the local sex industry.The five women came to Australia in 2003 and 2004 knowing they would work in the sex industry. Many had previously worked as prostitutes, he said.
Mr Gurvich said one of the women never actually worked in Australia but conditions endured by the other four while working as sex workers in Melbourne amounted to slavery.“They had to pay a price to secure their journey to Australia and the opportunity to earn money to assist their families back in Thailand,” he said. “That price was a contract, a contract to incur a debt that meant that before they could earn money of their own to keep, they would be required to service a specified number of clients.”
Mr Gurvich said that under “highly exploitative” contracts,
some of the women had to service between 650 and 750 clients to pay a debt of $80,000 to $90,000 each
, which would typically take three or four months to pay.
While under contract, the women got to keep $5 from the $125 clients paid for sex. Another $50 would go towards their debt.
They worked six days and if they worked a seventh, they could keep $50 from each job. Once they paid their debt they could keep $50 a job. The women sent the money they earned back to their families in Thailand.
Mr Gurvich said the women mainly worked at two South Melbourne brothels and lived in houses in Melbourne’s CBD and suburban Mt Waverley and Ashburton. While under contract, they were generally not allowed to go out without company, their passports were withheld, they were transported between brothels and home and did not have a key to their house.
Even after they had paid their debt, the women were still under strict control, he said.
The court heard the accused were concerned with preventing Australian immigration authorities from deporting the women, because this would reduce the scheme’s profits. It heard the women were brought into Australia on business or tourist visas based on false stories and tried to extend their stay by falsely claiming they were fleeing persecution.
Thai sex workers were slaves: court