I have a few questions for girls.
I don’t have time to type everything so Ill get straight to the point. I started working part time at a club in Clarke Quay about six months ago.
Was approached to be a dancer with my girlfriend when we were just dancing our night away back when Zirca was still around but declined.
Needed quick cash and I started my night life as a part time dancer six months back.
The money is easy and the job is simple - dress sexy, dance the night away, and enjoy free alcohol.
However, overtime, your appetite increases and the money does not seem enough anymore.
I’ve had a few proposals so far. I’ve had men from the club asking me for one night stands, paid sex. I’ve refused them because it just seem so dirty at that point.
But I’m just curious now.. How much can you earn a month as an FL? Where do you get clients n how do you live with that guilt? Are you ever afraid of the diseases that you may bring to yourself?
If there is any female reading this, please pm me.
Thank you for even spending time to read this.
Thank you for all the PMs so far. I can only store 10 so there’s a limit to how much I can receive.
I am just at a crossroad where I’m really confused. Take the quick way round and earn as much cash as possible now and then stop or….
This is a road where only the desperate few will take.
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Originally Posted by
clapton
Among all the reply, I feel this is the best one. We all know it’s a road of no return, but we have to see the reason behind.
Like we saw a lot girl sell pussy bcz of low education. That’s no choice. They need money to finish the study, and then be employed.
If TS is having similar thing, then this is not that bad. Try to find a better way of doing this, e.g. choose the client carefully, try to be a sugarbady instead of FL.
Good luck girl
Spent the entire night reading the story of Crystabel/Sandy. Pity her and it’s her situation that made her go through all that abuse. On the contrary, I am tempted by the quick cash but I am not in a desperate state nor do I have to pay off any loans or debts.
I would say it’s the combination of money and the thrill.
I don’t want to do with it just anyone too. If it has to be someone, please bestow me with a guy like Eric but there isn’t really a way to choose your client I reckon? I don’t want to take any Tom Dick or Harry from my night life job as news will def spread like wildfire.
Haha. Thanks guys for the replies. So far yet to hear from any FL personally, or from any girls.
Thx for all the pms - some offering me advices, some offering me paid sex because I haven’t been mass fucked yet and so you wanna be the first. I have yet to accept anyone from sbf as of now.. I’m apprehensive…
But… I have had my first experience with one of the regular at the place I work at.. It wasn’t planned but the opportunity arose and I took it… It happened when I went for supper last Saturday with two of the regulars - they’re around their twenties abt 27, 28 so we click easily from the start.. Know them for about 4 months alrdy.. We had supper at Jalan Besar area and then drove down to Changi Beach to chill.. Car was driven by his friend who didn’t drink much btw..
So we were just sitting on one of the benches by the beach and talking.. Me and him had alcohol before that so I think we were a little high.. He was getting kinda touchy and started licking my ear though his friend was just on my left.. It was awkward and embarrasing for me though it kind of turned me on a little. Alcohol I believe? Nevertheless I nudged him away and told him not to because we are not alone.. He told me his friend won’t mind. I said I don’t want to (because I am not interested in him) but this was when he brought up the subject…
$800 to let him do me at the beach there and then.. I wasn’t thinking straight but the money somehow tempted me..
We started kissing and he frenched me.. Didnt quite like it because he was using lots of tongue action with lots of saliva.. But I felt myself getting hotter and wet below.. Was wearing a very short tube dress which somehow meant easy access for him.. He groped my boobs and removed my bra and took off my undies, and rolled down my tube revealing my breasts…. I was aware of what was going on but again i think i was too intoxicated by the alcohol that i didnt resist him, nor did i bother abt the friend who was just next to us.. he didn’t bother to really have much foreplay too.. was really just aggressive in getting what he want..
It was uncomfortable because i was constantly on the lookout for passerbys and police patrols (saw some policemen walking around once and we pretended to be chitchatting)…
So what actually happened…..
We ddint have condoms as it was really unplanned and i didnt want him to do me raw…. but he was so erected then he couldnt stop. Took off his jeans and underwear…
I was so scared.. I didnt know what to do.. I allowed him to rub me with his dick around my vagina.. I told him since there was no condom there was no way we could do it so he can only rub me from the outside. He promised… All that rubbing around my vagina and outside my vagina only made me wetter. I didnt even notice that with every rub he had advanced a little deeper into my vagina.. I was enjoying it but when i did noticed something wasnt right and wanted to stop him, he simply slammed it in and fully inserted it in.. ..
To be cont..
Cant stop him.. he managed to penetrate me raw a couple of seconds before i actually started tearing and pleaded for him to stop.. he did stop.. at this point his friend tried to lick my exposed nipples but he stopped his friend..
So.. this was my first paid sex experience.. i chickened out halfway but he still paid me the full amount.. i wasnt prepared for it mentally.. i wasnt ready to give myself away to someone i am not emotionally attached to.. but at the same time i felt disgusted that i actually enjoyed him touching me,the rubbing and the penetration..
I stopped him because i felt morally wrong. And because it was too public.. i was afraid of being caught..
To fill u guys up a little.. i am already attached.. but havent had sex with my bf for quite a long time.. maybe he lost interest in me or his sex drive isnt high.. sometimes i wish we could do it but he doesnt.. even when i sleep beside him.. started to even wonder is it because im not attractive to him anymore?
It felt so good having “it” inside me again.. dont use to masturbate but now ive started doing it.. this makes me feel dirty and slutty.
I dont know if ill do it again but I’ve been feeling naughty.. sometimes when my brother’s friends come up to my place to game in the living room.. ill wear a spag top without bra.. and with shorts..
Im a messed up person as it turns out.. im not here to share a story.. just my feelings… im sorry for being me.. and sorry to those who told me not to sink in…
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Originally Posted by
Beachsea
just fucked and get paid if u want. thats your choice.
Guys no need to act holy here…. u are in a sex forum .
Thank you for your alternate view. (:
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Originally Posted by
Rain-Men
End of the day it’s your choice sister. It is the forever battle between your heart and your head. Eventually the intention will bring you to the result you wanted. You are old enough to make decision. I think it’s now for you to get comfortable to the idea of “you are responsible for what you do”. So if you can comprehend that……you will be more at ease to do what you want to do.
I am all aware that my actions will bring repercussions to the pple around me..
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Originally Posted by
Rickey
This is a classic example of the danger many women faces when engaging in sex w/o a condom around wif male strangers or guys whom they hv just met or who they dun really know well or trust
…unlike their own bfs or husbands
..even tis, there are some who are oso not tat trustworthy…usually for a variety of reasons mainly safety ones like against unwanted pregnancies or STDs…So for those reasons, most women do not want to do it raw & stipulate putting on a condom as a
“MUST”
condition before having sex wif the men..
But the reality of the matter is tat once high on alcohol & intoxication which weakens the normal senses & renders the person unable to rationalise properly & esp when in tat state of high sexual arousement…watever prohibitions, restrictions, terms & conditions tat were said & agreed earlier between or among themselves before the action actually started, simply goes down the drain….
they matter NO MORE !
…so just about anything goes !
..by the time it is realised & they come to their senses, it is usually too late for them to do anything to reverse the situation backward !..sigh…tis scenario is esp true in a one-to-one situation between the guy & the gal where there is no 3rd party to help out…
So TS, do be very careful if there is a next time & not fall into the same mistake..if there is no condom around for the guy to use
, dun even start at all…quickly leave & go far far away !…All best wishes to you for yr physical & sexual safety..since you appear so keen on trying & experimenting with this FL thingy
Understood. It’s hard to stop once u are aroused.. that was my mistake.. thx..
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Originally Posted by
wondergal
It is a good thing that you were still aware of what was going on and managed to stop him before anything more happened.
Since some years ago when I was younger, I have come to realize that many men, boyfriends or not, want to do it raw if they can or if they dare, and some have even used tricks to do it raw. Just like you have read the Crystabel story. Sometimes they succeeded. When I was younger, I was less aware and more naive, but now older, I usually can feel the difference with a condom and without a condom, but a cunning ex bf got cleverer doing it. I don’t want to give details how. Just make sure you look and see that a full condom is on during the act, after the act, and also check whatever drips out of yourself. I know this sounds yucky, but if you are doing it with unfamiliar men whom you don’t know through sex work or one-night-stand, they probably won’t tell you if they secretly succeeded cumming inside you. Some months later, you could have a baby without knowing whose it is.
I agree with you feeling so good having “it” inside you (and me). I often got carried away enjoying the heat of arousal. I have taken emergency contraception several times especially when the cunning ex bf succeeded cumming inside me.
I have put the morally issue behind me, learned to enjoy it, and this is why I have difficulty committing to relationships. As I said before, especially with the woman I knew who sold sex, it changes the way you view love and sex.
Take care of yourself. The price of sex is heaviest to us women.
Hi there. Actually to be honest I love doing it raw too because the feeling is way better than with a condom.. with my ex boyfriends, we’ve always done it raw.. I dont like the taste of cum or the smell of it so they always pull it out of me before cumming.. never once have they shot inside me..
Im quite heng to be honest so far..
Theres not many girls who openly admit that they love having sex so thank you for speaking up.. its good knowing im not the only girl that loves sex.
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Originally Posted by
Rickey
You’re welcome, sis
..Thanks for admitting & agreeing..by the statement you made above !..many others your kind don’t believe it is so.. & tat they will be able to be still in full control & charge of themselves in situations such as yours…danger there !!
Yes. Some guys are also able to coax you into giving in.. like saying, i wont put it in.. I’ll just rub from the outside. Or, I’ll put a little in only etc.. before you know it, they’ll start banging you and you will find it so hard to stop because it feels so good..