Hmm.. a little story of what had happened to me in the past.. actually wasn’t very long ago also.. just from last year September up till now.. and the story goes like this…
It started on 11th September 2005, one of my part-time place colleague ask me over to her house to help her DIY her hair. So being the kind hearted soul, i agreed and went over to her place. This colleague of my is very unique, she has lover and FB. Anyway there’s this guy in her life that she want to get him to settle down with her but she say the guy scared of commitment so now only FB. Usually when i heard that its obvious that the guy doesn’t want her as a gf or don’t want to commit to her, not scare of commitment.
So the day progress until evening time and the guy by the name of eg. James text and ask her eg. Jean want to do dinner? So she replied that her friendis with her and wanted to get him to treat us dinner. James agreed and i was going to beg off the ground and go home. When i suddenly thought, y not? I wanted to see how much charm this guy had to make my friend fall so hard for him. I’m only 19 at the time and just broken off with my second bf for about half year.
So we went to Changi for dinner, throughout the whole dinner. I’m damn uncomfortable, as the guy was staring at me eating. But still we manage to got past the dinner till its time to go off. Jean didn’t want to stay out late and she got the guy to send me home. Turn out that James was just living across the street from me. Anyway after 2 days we start chatting on msn, he’s very sweet in the first place and was online to keep me accompany and chatted with me. On the 3rd day, he gave me a pooh bear that he say nobody want and on the 5th day he bring me into his room and ask me to stay for awhile before leaving as he wanted to watch the news. Being naive, i stay and waited for him on the adjoining single bed. (his room has no couch/chair).
I was watching the tv when he move closer and closer to me and touch me on my hand and than legs adn hug me. Than slowly James lean over and kiss me, i didn’t know what overcome me at the point of time to let him continue. Maybe i wanted him to erase the marks that my ex-bf leave as my ex is the first guy i make-out with. So slowly he took off my clothes and everything else i was so so so nervous but i let him continue. Soon, am naked on the bed and he finger me, i got wet in a instant. And nonetheless damn horny too.
At the same point I’m worried about my imperfection figure too. But still everything goes on until he’s in me. His first words when he’s in me is “Gosh, you are so tight.” I kept quiet not knowing whether that’s a compliment or… I dare not to make any noise for fear that his parents will hear us. But I’m in ninth heaven, i just want him to fuck me harder and harder without stopping. After 15 mins or so of banging i came… And soon after he did too.. This relationship continue for a month or so..
Until one day after one month, he told me.. He has a GF.
Being a typical conservative chinese girl, am at a loss. He told me if we are to continue, he will not leave his gf and i’m only the lover. I’m at a loss i refuse to be the 3rd party in the relationship but after one month of being with him. I realised the hard fact that i had fall for him. He told me the reason why he had so much time for me is that his gf is always busy with other lover.
I’m at a loss and my mind is no longer capable of telling me what to do. Should i fight for him, stop seeing him or to continue? That night i cried until i fall asleep but i know what my decision is going to be.
Hope this is not too boring, guess the best bits is at the next few part that an going to write.
guy is not married..u are not as well… if u like him..fight for him..but question is..does he like u?
Seems like he just used you for it. just treat is as casual sex. maybe when u are horny, you can go look for him? he can be yr fuck buddy!
BaoBei512,
Warm welcome. Hope you are a genuine. Nevertheless, you will get many people who doubt you are real babe here in SBF. Just ignore them.
My advise to you is to just dump this James and move on. Learn the lesson.
If you want or need a FB, make sure it’s under your terms. ie. you are in charge and not in love. You choose the time and place for fun. This way, you can control your own destiny and emotions.
Good luck.
sounds like a ‘hit n run’ case to me..
forget abt that guy.. move on..
there r better guys out there..
just MHO…
Welcome BaoBei512 to this forum.
Sad to say that “James” played his moves perfectly and reached his goals and that you are/were but a chesspiece in his game. Truth be told many guys (cannot speak for all) would congratulate him on his conquest. Honestly, I cetainly would.
If you are looking for ture love, “James” is not the one. Stop wasting your time on him. There are many others who would be good for you. Certainly hope you find the right guy. On the lighter side, it seems, from your post, you had a good fuck..at least you came before he did!
Well.. believe it anot but this is my life story ba.. From the start till now, i never say i was a babe. To me i think am average ba. Back to the story..
Being the naive girl at 19 (am going to be 20 this year) i agreed to do that. Thinking that since he at my side most of the time i should be able to win him over. I started to shower him with my time and my love. I started to inch towards the type of girl that he like or will fall in love with. Those that will dress well, speak well and with good working attitude and the strive to work higher up, to achieve better.
Being the time with him, sexual relationship continue and it’s getting better and better thanks to the magazine that he had at his place. FHM and Maxim doesn’t interest me much after i read Penthouse story. Yup, i wasn’t afraid to say that i read porn and watch porn with James. Anyway from Penthouse, i learn how to give a guy bj with mint. This send James to heaven, he like it alot.
Just to cut a long story short, after lots of tears, fight, quarrels i finally won him. Though his gf still exist but i can finally feel that am a part of him. Nowadays he might only meet his gf for lunch occasionally the rest of the time for the rest of the week is with me. I emerge victorious from this game that we both played after 3 months of the date we started.
Till now i have not regret what i chose in the first place and finally even though his gf held the term of gf. Am better cause i held the term of fiancee, grin.. being a Leo myself i refused to eat my own pride. That’s my entitlement and my reward for working for what i want. Now, i’m happy to say in terms of love and career, am doing it better than before.
BUT.. wait this is not the end of this story. The sexual stories which is to follow will be what i tried on him. Which is alot since we practically had sex 6 nights a week from septembe till now.
Reason on why am i so brave to set up a thread here to talk about it was cause i dare him that i will do it. He told me go ahead if you dare, so here am i. He’s a regular reader of SBF, so sooner or later he will pass by it.. Let’s hope the day he found this. I’m still alive and kicking.
Guesses are he will be more happy to see this to create a quarrel.
More to come.. if anyone is interested.
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JPimp
Welcome BaoBei512 to this forum.
Sad to say that “James” played his moves perfectly and reached his goals and that you are/were but a chesspiece in his game. Truth be told many guys (cannot speak for all) would congratulate him on his conquest. Honestly, I cetainly would.
If you are looking for ture love, “James” is not the one. Stop wasting your time on him. There are many others who would be good for you. Certainly hope you find the right guy. On the lighter side, it seems, from your post, you had a good fuck..at least you came before he did!
*Grins its wrong, despite from the bad beginning. We are happy now if you read my second post.
We are engaged and getting married once i reach 21. I’m not that niave as the past. And i had to admit, i always enjoyed a good fuck. *grins
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techienator
Wow… r u a lady samster? great courage to share ur experiences with us… kudos…
Am a female samster. Thanks but as i explain its not courage but to fulfill a dare.. Set by my stupid fiance…
Well, seems like u have been taken for ride. it is obvious that he is just looking for a sex partner, unless u too are looking for one and he is able to fulfill your needs. Otherwise, move on, look for someone who is also looking into serious relation.