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havana
i hv try all means,even waited her at the carpack.last wed nite i saw a guy send her hm but she got tell me tat she went drinking with a colleague and the female colleague
Time heal all wounds bro… SHe’s angry now so your persistnce may even backfire. Suggest you send her a flower evry other day wif a note…“I Love You Dearly”…“Always thinking of you” …‘You’re my one true love" ..“I’m so sorry”..etc.
Like flying kite…in a relationship… dun always pull…sometimes must release a bit. She’s a tough cookie (according to you) so playing soft may work better.
Just my thoughts, hope it helps. Best of luck bro.
Hai…GOD BLESS U…….this have show both are at wrong…….1st it u neglected her love to u…….once it gone, u wan her back….u are to blame too….. secondly it her fault that she did not give u chance to patch back….haha….anyway she also testing wonder u r true to her…..all I can say u just carry on to make her happy, she will be back at yr side…..
thanks bro there who respond to tis thread.she indeed ask me 2 move out after my marriage.i told her ok.my mom and i sell the house,my mom moved 2 1rm flat and we buy our flat.the spare $ can go 4 our wedding.she also unmoved.wat should i do.should i go 2 her OFFICE and declare tat in front of her colleague tat i going 2 marry her but she dun answer my call and mesg.she want 2 lead her own life.tell me bro ,is it i LOVE HER OR BECAME A HABIT WITH HER cos she cohabit with me these 5 year.i felt someting missing in my bed.
Ask urself This Ques 1st…
Are You Taking Her For Granted?
Do You Really Love Her?
Or It Has Become A Habit Since U R With her for 5 Years?
And u can say she heartless?
Think For a Moment My Friend Wat have u give her during this 5 years? or should i ask again if give u another 5 years… wat can u promise her again?
Remember she has broken up with u already and in fact she dun own u any ans or anything!
Human always Dun treasure the things or ppl ard them! once they have lost it,then they regret!
she say i unromatic,go out with her,never held her hand,never buy her flowers,never carry her handbag.she say i no car at all.maybe it my character tat do not know how 2 express.i gave her alot of freedom.never accompany her 2 shopping.
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Originally Posted by
havana
LOVE HER OR BECAME A HABIT WITH HER cos she cohabit with me these 5 year.i felt someting missing in my bed.
She’s just a habit. Go forth and fuck some beautiful gals and within a week, you’ll have forgotten all about her and moved on to a better and brighter future.
Gals are two a penny in this world. Don’t sweat the small stuff.
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havana
thanks bro there who respond to tis thread.she indeed ask me 2 move out after my marriage.i told her ok.my mom and i sell the house,my mom moved 2 1rm flat and we buy our flat.the spare $ can go 4 our wedding.she also unmoved.wat should i do.should i go 2 her OFFICE and declare tat in front of her colleague tat i going 2 marry her but she dun answer my call and mesg.she want 2 lead her own life.tell me bro ,is it i LOVE HER OR BECAME A HABIT WITH HER cos she cohabit with me these 5 year.i felt someting missing in my bed.
If you really just want to settle down, then please leave your mom’s flat untouched. Why must your mom moved to 1-rm flat unaccompanied? Not very good idea I will say even if she suggested it. If you yearn a better lifesytle better, work for it, fight for it. I do not know whether is “Love” or “Inter-dependent” at fault here. Eventually it’s your call now.
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havana
i hv try all means,even waited her at the carpack.last wed nite i saw a guy send her hm but she got tell me tat she went drinking with a colleague and the female colleague not free 2 send her hm so ask the guy 2 do itwjhen i approach them in the car .the guy flash the headlight on me and grive off with her.i even chase them but cant catch up.the next day,i call her office and ask who the guy is.she say her female friend not free 2 send her hm so ask the guy 2 do it.i just listen.i call her y she want 2 break off,she say it not 3party .it simply me cos she cant trust me anymore,cos i promise many times say i will marry her but did not do it at all.she say her heart in me is dead liao.i ask her are u sure,she reply yes,i told her impossible cos i still love her very much.just 2week ago of augment,and she say say her heart in me die liao.no longer love me anymore.y gal so HEARTLESS nowsaday.
Bro havana…it is difficult to mend a broken glass, if she was really hurt by you many times, i believe many chances have been given to you fairly but you did not really appreciated it…..
so what lost is lost…why cry over spill milk??? learn from your failures and move on….let it go, my friend, let it go if you really love her…maybe by letting her go, she will find the happiness she wants….
and you will be even happier……
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Originally Posted by
havana
she say i unromatic,go out with her,never held her hand,never buy her flowers,never carry her handbag.she say i no car at all.maybe it my character tat do not know how 2 express.i gave her alot of freedom.never accompany her 2 shopping.
If u were that bad,would she wan to stay with u for 5 years? my friend u r talking abt 5 years here! not 5 months leh!
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Originally Posted by
havana
she say i unromatic,go out with her,never held her hand,never buy her flowers,never carry her handbag.she say i no car at all.maybe it my character tat do not know how 2 express.i gave her alot of freedom.never accompany her 2 shopping.
Aiya.. abit too much lahz.. go out with her dun hold her hand. She sure no confidence lehz..
Then will all these actions n bonking, when go out like normal friend… how to tahan…
Freedom is a must but not too much…. if not she will feel tat u r not bothered to accompany her at all n only wan to bonk bonk n bonk..
sorry if my post is too much but still….. my 2 cents worth..