Sorry to all if this has been discussed b4.. but I’m feeling very lost and helpless.
MY gf of 6 years broke up wif me on the 25th May, saying she wanted to be alone. I was living in hell for 3 weeks before she agreed to patch up wif me on the 10th Apr. I was so happy I could jump and pluck the moon down for her if she asked.
But ALAS, she broke off wif me again on the 14th Apr, she even wrote down her feelings on a piece of paper. I’ll take a few extracts from the letter:
- during these few days that we’re together, I feel that I really can’t bring myself to love you, there’s no feeling towards you at all.
- I am not ready to settle down at 23, and you are not the guy now to consider settling down wif. You are no longer the guy I love.
- I’m still young and there’s a long way ahead of me to walk. I can’t bring myself to plan my future wif you.
- I wish that you’ll stop sms me, call me or look me up. I need a peace of mind, a clear mind.
- I wanna say sorry for the past few days that I’ve given you flase hope, for holding on and thinking far with me.
We had an hour long talk last night, she sounded happy, relaxed, excited at the new found single-dom. Though she admitted she loved me alot alot, but it was the past, the feeling has faded. I almost cried out, but I told myself not to cry infront of her. She assured me and my uncle that there’s no 3rd party. She just want to be alone. Why the sudden change? I don’t understand.
She let our r/s of 6 years go so easily! I really love her very much and I really feel like it’s end of world now. I want to die, but I can’t. I haf no mood for anything now. No one has ever made me so miserable b4, the 3 weeks of tears I’ve shed are more than wat I’ve cried when I was still young. This fall is so great, I don’t think I’ll be able to get up. The scar is so deep, I won’t accept another.
I don’t her to be owned by other ppl, other guys. I want her to be mine alone only. I even joked to her that if ever she’s married to another guy and she invites me to her wedding, I’ll sing Eason Chan’s Hun Li De Zhu Fu. I can’t imagine other guys, holding her hand, kiss her cheeks, etc. I’ll go MAD. I think I’ll kill the guy, kill her then kill myself. I’m serious..
There’s this girl I’m very close to all along, during the 3weeks, I confided in her most of the time. She had hinted that she’ll be wif me if I asked. I feel she just wanted to help me forget her. All the more I can’t accept her, I can’t bear to let my ex go, I don’t want to hurt this good friend of mine. I’ve become self protected, I’m afraid I’ll be hurt a 2nd time.
She flew off to China this morning 10am for a week long holiday wif her sister. Women can be so heartless ya? After hurting someone she’s loved so long, still can go enjoy…
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MY gf of 6 years broke up wif me on the
25th May
, saying she wanted to be alone. I was living in hell for 3 weeks before she agreed to patch up wif me on the
10th Apr
.
OMG! U travel in time backward?
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biker
Sorry to all if this has been discussed b4.. but I’m feeling very lost and helpless.
MY gf of 6 years broke up wif me on the 25th May, saying she wanted to be alone. I was living in hell for 3 weeks before she agreed to patch up wif me on the 10th Apr. I was so happy I could jump and pluck the moon down for her if she asked.
But ALAS, she broke off wif me again on the 14th Apr, she even wrote down her feelings on a piece of paper. I’ll take a few extracts from the letter:
- during these few days that we’re together, I feel that I really can’t bring myself to love you, there’s no feeling towards you at all.
- I am not ready to settle down at 23, and you are not the guy now to consider settling down wif. You are no longer the guy I love.
- I’m still young and there’s a long way ahead of me to walk. I can’t bring myself to plan my future wif you.
- I wish that you’ll stop sms me, call me or look me up. I need a peace of mind, a clear mind.
- I wanna say sorry for the past few days that I’ve given you flase hope, for holding on and thinking far with me.
We had an hour long talk last night, she sounded happy, relaxed, excited at the new found single-dom. Though she admitted she loved me alot alot, but it was the past, the feeling has faded. I almost cried out, but I told myself not to cry infront of her. She assured me and my uncle that there’s no 3rd party. She just want to be alone. Why the sudden change? I don’t understand.
She let our r/s of 6 years go so easily! I really love her very much and I really feel like it’s end of world now. I want to die, but I can’t. I haf no mood for anything now. No one has ever made me so miserable b4, the 3 weeks of tears I’ve shed are more than wat I’ve cried when I was still young. This fall is so great, I don’t think I’ll be able to get up. The scar is so deep, I won’t accept another.
I don’t her to be owned by other ppl, other guys. I want her to be mine alone only. I even joked to her that if ever she’s married to another guy and she invites me to her wedding, I’ll sing Eason Chan’s Hun Li De Zhu Fu. I can’t imagine other guys, holding her hand, kiss her cheeks, etc. I’ll go MAD. I think I’ll kill the guy, kill her then kill myself. I’m serious..
There’s this girl I’m very close to all along, during the 3weeks, I confided in her most of the time. She had hinted that she’ll be wif me if I asked. I feel she just wanted to help me forget her. All the more I can’t accept her, I can’t bear to let my ex go, I don’t want to hurt this good friend of mine. I’ve become self protected, I’m afraid I’ll be hurt a 2nd time.
She flew off to China this morning 10am for a week long holiday wif her sister. Women can be so heartless ya? After hurting someone she’s loved so long, still can go enjoy…
This is wat I want to tell……..
I STRONGLY SUPPORT U GO AND DIE…..COZ SHE WONT BE BOTHERED……
NO FEELINGS MEAN NO FEELINGS….WOMEN WOULD NEVER GIVE U THE REAL ANSWER EVEN IF GOT A 3RD PARTY……EVEN IF YOU SEE HER FAMILY WILL GET THE SAME RESULT…..COZ THEY WILL TELL YOU TO RESPECT HER DECISION AND DONT BOTHER HER.
HAPPY DYING DUDE
AGREED with all my heart……sometimes ladies can switch so fast at a speed before u can say i love u
My fault.. It should be 25th Mar, not May. I’m asking for help here, not asking for anymore hurtful words. I’m sad enuff. thank you. I won’t bring myself to hate her. I’ve got myself to hate only, cos I din realize the changes in her earlier.
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biker
Sorry to all if this has been discussed b4.. but I’m feeling very lost and helpless.
MY gf of 6 years broke up wif me on the 25th May, saying she wanted to be alone. I was living in hell for 3 weeks
knn like that living hell, go and ask all older folks above 65 years old what is living hell when Jap visit Singapore to pay the Brits a friendly visit 60 over years ago.
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But ALAS, she broke off wif me again on the 14th Apr, she even wrote down her feelings on a piece of paper. I’ll take a few extracts from the letter:
maybe she cannot tahan your face so she write in paper.
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- during these few days that we’re together, I feel that I really can’t bring myself to love you, there’s no feeling towards you at all.
meaning she find you to be a loser, most probably you are not from a rich family and maybe you are still serving NS or just ORD
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- I am not ready to settle down at 23, and you are not the guy now to consider settling down wif. You are no longer the guy I love.
meaning she is young and there are better options out there, smart ger knows that a ger valuation goes down when her age goes up just like the scrap value of a car
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biker
- I’m still young and there’s a long way ahead of me to walk. I can’t bring myself to plan my future wif you.
meaning she dun find your future bright
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- I wish that you’ll stop sms me, call me or look me up. I need a peace of mind, a clear mind.
meaning leave her alone you are getting on her nerve
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- I wanna say sorry for the past few days that I’ve given you flase hope, for holding on and thinking far with me.
meaning she just just reconfirm all her above suspicion again
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We had an hour long talk last night, she sounded happy, relaxed, excited at the new found single-dom.
obviously
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Though she admitted she loved me alot alot, but it was the past, the feeling has faded.
wah like that you also believe, I take my hat off to you
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She assured me and my uncle that there’s no 3rd party. She just want to be alone. Why the sudden change? I don’t understand.
why does the matter has to do with your uncle? are you a kid or a man? knn dun say you uncle is involve he pull your hind leg is it?
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She let our r/s of 6 years go so easily! I really love her very much and I really feel like it’s end of world now.
oh you love her very much huh, tell us what have you done for her?
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I don’t her to be owned by other ppl, other guys. I want her to be mine alone only.
knn talk until like you carry her in your belly for 10 month and give birth to her.
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I even joked to her that if ever she’s married to another guy and she invites me to her wedding, I’ll sing Eason Chan’s Hun Li De Zhu Fu. I can’t imagine other guys, holding her hand, kiss her cheeks, etc. I’ll go MAD. I think I’ll kill the guy, kill her then kill myself. I’m serious..
boy is she right to leave you not only are you a loser you have a few nuts missing up there
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There’s this girl I’m very close to all along, during the 3weeks, I confided in her most of the time. She had hinted that she’ll be wif me if I asked.
your imaginery friend is it?
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biker
I feel she just wanted to help me forget her. All the more I can’t accept her, I can’t bear to let my ex go, I don’t want to hurt this good friend of mine.
she must be urgy and fat or is it your uncle dun approve.
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She flew off to China this morning 10am for a week long holiday wif her sister. Women can be so heartless ya? After hurting someone she’s loved so long, still can go enjoy…
wah lan eh she do until so ming xian, sure got kantao
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biker
My fault.. It should be 25th Mar, not May. I’m asking for help here, not asking for anymore hurtful words. I’m sad enuff. thank you. I won’t bring myself to hate her. I’ve got myself to hate only, cos I din realize the changes in her earlier.
How how u suppose we gonna help u? U had to fuck it n look for another. frm her words, she no longer had any feeling towards u anymore. Wasn’t tat very direct?
U may choose 2 feel miserable or kill urself if u 1. tat jus wasn’t gonna change anything at all.
Maybe after these yrs being together, she had finally realise u not her type. I m not saying there’s something wrong with u…. but perhaps your character n her’s jus doesn’t click. If tat the case i think it will b gd 2 break up. I assure u will hav more problem if u married a girl lidat.
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My fault.. It should be 25th Mar, not May. I’m asking for help here, not asking for anymore hurtful words. I’m sad enuff. thank you. I won’t bring myself to hate her. I’ve got myself to hate only, cos I din realize the changes in her earlier.
When I broke up with 1 first gf of 3 years, the first words my dad said to me : Aiya, women only wat. There are so many in the world.
After tat, I changed my mentality and I become 1st mover always to zap the gal, not vice versa.
If u need to talk to someone, pm me.
guys, give him a break. if u r not gonna help, at least dun make him feel worse. u guys seem to be gd at handling breakup, i salute u. but not everyone is as brave as u guys.
Dont be silly to die as your other related kin will be very sad like your father and mother.
Life is so precious, don’t die because of a girl! Everyone has to go through some happy and sad moment.
You must be happy at least the feeling from her to u has gone before any serious commitment like marriage or family started.
Try to look at the bright side and think that she has missed you the nice and lovely guy, can she find a better one than u? It may not right.
Take some time to rest and free yourself, sometime it is good to have freedom. U can visit any cheong place u like, call any pros or visit GL as u like. No need to report to any girl friend, find a few samters and join the fun at the pub or KTV.
How nice that I am your age, young and free to do anything. No commitment.
So, treasure what u have and what u are now. People trying to live and u want to die.
Bare in mind, your mind belong to u, u are the one to think what u want to think, everything got at least 2 faces - good and bad.
Think good GOOD READLLY GOOD ONLY GOOD and u will be GOOD.
Live long and good. u will find a better one. Set her free and if she is back and u are not attached then she will be your.
Thanks for reading!!!!!