TS, what you gone thru i can understand how painful it will be. You are a great guy, 1 day you will find a woman that will cherish you in her life. Time will heal all these painful memories, once you recover, you will feel you are a stronger person and will succeed even further in your life.
Family is always our pillar. No matter how bad you had fall, they will always be with you.
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HunterJ
What a story which touches the deepest corner of my heart. My current gf, older than me, also run down on me for some reasons. Things she said were like, “i usually date older guys, not younger guys; you are not financially strong; u don’t have a car; you can’t even afford to buy me a branded bag; etc…”
I don’t know your situation but my experience is that when a woman starts talking that way… it means she has doubts.
When she has doubts it can also mean she is eyeing another man. My 2 c is that she is already comparing you with another man who is older, financially stronger, got car and can buy her a bag.
It can also mean she IS GOING out with that other man.
You can hold on, but from my own experience and others, 99% chance what I said is happening. I’m not sure if any sister would agree, but its true.
Cheer Up, you can always SAF : SEX And Fuck off!
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GeMiNiZzzzZzz
Sbf don’t need so much sex stories.
It needs more of this type of stories to upgrade its status.
Way to go TS
This I TOTALLY AGREE!
Tho a few more steamy hot stories won’t hurt either..
a great but sad story. touched me as I was betrayed too.
glad you did make the effort to be with yr dad more. sorry for the loss of a great man in your life bro. but i believe that the greatness you see in him is in you too. its up to you to show it to yourself.
keep yr head up and be strong bro. keep moving forward and don stop to look back.
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kra77
a great but sad story. touched me as I was betrayed too.
glad you did make the effort to be with yr dad more. sorry for the loss of a great man in your life bro. but i believe that the greatness you see in him is in you too. its up to you to show it to yourself.
keep yr head up and be strong bro. keep moving forward and don stop to look back.
thanks bro kra77, i am back on track now. Just embracing myself for the finale which i cant do much now. Hey! are we of the same age? haahaha
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mrham
This I TOTALLY AGREE!
Tho a few more steamy hot stories won’t hurt either..
bro mrham, i try my best ya…hahaha…i know we guys here do want some steamy stories….will have abit later part of the story.
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mrham
I don’t know your situation but my experience is that when a woman starts talking that way… it means she has doubts.
When she has doubts it can also mean she is eyeing another man. My 2 c is that she is already comparing you with another man who is older, financially stronger, got car and can buy her a bag.
It can also mean she IS GOING out with that other man.
You can hold on, but from my own experience and others, 99% chance what I said is happening. I’m not sure if any sister would agree, but its true.
Cheer Up, you can always SAF : SEX And Fuck off!
I raise my hand and agree with you bro. Should consider SAF as an option.
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balloon69
TS, what you gone thru i can understand how painful it will be. You are a great guy, 1 day you will find a woman that will cherish you in her life. Time will heal all these painful memories, once you recover, you will feel you are a stronger person and will succeed even further in your life.
Family is always our pillar. No matter how bad you had fall, they will always be with you.
Thanks bro balloon69, i am a man that i have totally no fear in facing obstacles. However, we are human afterall. Will be pinned down emotionally at times and once things are back on track i am fine. I love my family alot and i will protect them always
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callmebad
learn to treasure those loved ones who are still there around you
learn to treasure what you have
I think all of us should behave this way
Bro callmebad, you dont sounds that bad afterall ….hehehee
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Originally Posted by
mrham
I don’t know your situation but my experience is that when a woman starts talking that way… it means she has doubts.
When she has doubts it can also mean she is eyeing another man. My 2 c is that she is already comparing you with another man who is older, financially stronger, got car and can buy her a bag.
It can also mean she IS GOING out with that other man.
You can hold on, but from my own experience and others, 99% chance what I said is happening. I’m not sure if any sister would agree, but its true.
Cheer Up, you can always SAF : SEX And Fuck off!
Agree completely.
Betrayal is always very hurting and painful when you had given all your trust, effort and time. Anger and revenge to many is the main outlet to dissipate this, but hows does it help when things are already passed and done?
I too had being BETRAYED or PLAYED or CONNED of my feelings before too. Nobody is infallible no matter how intelligent or how experienced you are. Well, take all things in your own stride because what goes around comes around. Scarred inside but not outside, we will be smarter with every other relationship.
Good Luck TS.
The day have come and is time my dad bid us farewell, couldn’t sleep the whole night and was walking around my dad’s coffin. Having some small chats with him while dripping tears. I truely cant bear to let him go, on the other hand, i knew he will be going to a supremacy world. I gotta let him go…….
As i was in the car which my dad’s coffin was, halfway the journey to bright hill. I sudden heard my dad talking to me. I thought i was really hearing things and somehow that familiar voices repeated again when we almost arrived. It’s my dad, i am very sure he knew everything and he wants me to just anchored. Stop that hatred with Janice, put down that burden that has been always weighing on my shoulders for the past couple of months. Forgive…..he wants me to just forgive her. I always respect my dad becoz i know we are the same kind, he did everything for me for a reason. At that point, i dont understand why my dad wants me to forgive. I cant figure out and i thought that he wants us to meet again. So i agreed my dad, promised him i will forgive her but i will only look her up after i have settled my mum. As my dad’s departure is truely a deep hurt to my mum, they spent everyday together. The most loving couple i ever seen in my life. They walked through thick and thin in life together till that very last day my dad departs. They are amazing! and that’s why i need to spend more time with mummy…………
I was in JB one of the days and after i crossed the SG custom, heading back to SG. My phone suddenly have a couple of missed calls and watsapp. It’s Janice. Her msg goes like that,
Janice: Had tried to call you but wasn’t able to get you
Janice: Even if we have to end, why can’t you inform me of your dad’s departure and i would like to pay my last respect to him
Janice: why cant we even stay as friends?
Janice: can you pls call me when you are available?
I was puzzled how she came to know until after i spoke to her over the phone. It was one of my friends who visited her and told her about me. We had a 15mins conversation that night and i allowed her to come back SG to pay a respect to my dad. That night didn’t end after that phone conversation, we actually watsapp till late night. I just felt like i am a piece of pre made cake hahaha…..mixing all the eggs la, flour la, fruits etc….. My feelings were as messy that night. Somehow she reminds me about those great time that we had spent together, especially during a trip to Hokkaido in feb 2011. Great weather back then, snowing everywhere and of coz a superb marathon sex trip hahahaha
Anyway, all good things have to come to an end. Life just goes on till she is back in SG. I wasn’t seeing her for like 3 months and totally didnt bother to contact her. So today is the 1st time of so many months that i am seeing her. My heart felt heavy while waiting for her arrival, don’t even know how i should react to her. Soon after, she arrives and hugged me the moment she saw me. Gosh! i wasn’t having sex with anyone for awhile, that moment her nicely tits just came pressing against me suddenly gave me a hardon…. Had a sudden urge to bed her that day, but my conscious mind dont allow. Her trip back was just a simple one. Brought her to pay respect to my dad, had dinner with her and she flew off the next day. Was comfortable with her as usual, but somehow that hatred towards her wasnt gone at all. Thereon, she will make effort to text me or call me often, shower me with lotsa care and concern. At times she will ask why i am not responding fast these days, and i told her i was really busy. In fact, i totally bo hiew her! hahaha cant be bother that much actually, just treat her like a toy at my disposal. Slowly, i felt the tensions, the tensions that she might wanna get back together again. And i started to be defensive. Thats when i came to know this lovely gal. Let’s call her Sweetie=)
Sweetie is a tall gal, a little chubby and a natural beauty in fact. Our first date was like in the middle of a night and i brought her to Jalan Kayu for prata. We had a very long chat over some food and drinks. The chemistry is just right i guess, was chatting till we almost forgot what time it was. Didnt know where this will bring us, but i am very clear at this point in time i wasn’t ready for a relationship. A companion or maybe an FB suits me most………………
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jasdude
Betrayal is always very hurting and painful when you had given all your trust, effort and time. Anger and revenge to many is the main outlet to dissipate this, but hows does it help when things are already passed and done?
I too had being BETRAYED or PLAYED or CONNED of my feelings before too. Nobody is infallible no matter how intelligent or how experienced you are. Well, take all things in your own stride because what goes around comes around. Scarred inside but not outside, we will be smarter with every other relationship.
Good Luck TS.
I agree with you bro Jdude, hope that things have got the better for you=)
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fb0407
I agree with you bro Jdude, hope that things have got the better for you=)
Life goes on, time and distractions diminishes pain and fades memories. Jasdude today is the result of my past.