What a story which touches the deepest corner of my heart. My current gf, older than me, also run down on me for some reasons. Things she said were like, “i usually date older guys, not younger guys; you are not financially strong; u don’t have a car; you can’t even afford to buy me a branded bag; etc…”
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Originally Posted by
GeMiNiZzzzZzz
Sbf don’t need so much sex stories.
It needs more of this type of stories to upgrade its status.
Way to go TS
thanks bro….I enjoyed those stories from sbf all these years be it true or false, friction or not. It doesnt matter. All bros and sisters here simply i must say, SOLID! CREATIVE! use another word in hokkien….bo beh ciao! hahaha
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Originally Posted by
HunterJ
I understand. But to be honest, she has been changing to the better slowly, although recently there were some unhappy incidents that happen between us. Things she said were like a sharp knife piercing thru my feeble heart.
Yet, to leave her is hard, to stay with her is also hard. So, what is the best option? Find one more !!!
wah bro hunterJ, i like your idea man….hahaha
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Originally Posted by
SYTBigBoobLover
Bro, I feel you…
I had quite similar experience in my last r/ship.
Till date, I’m still quite skeptical about r/ship.
I’m almost 40, not married & no gf since that incident.
Pethatic right?
i can feel you bro. I am 34, had a failure in marriage once but i still believe there is love. Have faith, hold a believe u never even wanna dream of. Our mind is the universe, everyone have a share in the universe. When we call, they will answer. Is just when the answer will arrived. Have patience
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Originally Posted by
sagiboar
Man…. that really sucks. Went through something similar before. Then gf planned trip to Australia with me… was looking forward to more hanky panky, but right from the start can feel that something was wrong. Eventually she dumped me on my birthday… after treating me to a nice meal and buying me an expensive (for her then salary) present.
I feel you, bro.
Bro, dump her now. Even if you become rich and she is still with you, when something bad happens, chances she won’t be supportive. Worse, when you become rich, she might just hang to you but play the field.
To me, clear sign of a selfish, un-supportive type.
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Originally Posted by
Reoxy
Ups and Downs of life.
Good story!
bro sagiboar…thanks for supporting my thread. You are the best!
bro reoxy, yes i agree life is full of ups and downs. That’s what makes life complete
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Originally Posted by
Chanelfingers
Support!!!
Continue writing!~
Sis chanel, hope you enjoy!
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Originally Posted by
HunterJ
What a story which touches the deepest corner of my heart. My current gf, older than me, also run down on me for some reasons. Things she said were like, “i usually date older guys, not younger guys; you are not financially strong; u don’t have a car; you can’t even afford to buy me a branded bag; etc…”
Have faith bro Hunter
Few days later…..
i got a watsapp from her and it goes like this:
Janice: Heard from my mum that you seen my phone…..
Well i guess now i am being cornered, no where i can run away from fate. So i decided to face it. and i just replied YES…….
she started with all the explainations blah blah blah….i can only say it makes me more sick as she explained. I am a one man woman and i really really dont enjoy sharing my woman. But it happens to me. I just gotta admit or should i say submit to fate….
After many rounds of debating, arguements, explainations. I am extremely drained out. my iphone batt was flat for dont know how many times and all i can do it hide myself in my car and exchange msgs. What a day to remember, or should i say….forget
I was very frustrated, inside my heart was filled with anger, filled with hatred and of course, lost. I dare not go home early, given the reason i dont wish to worry my parents, especially when my dad is sick. That night i was out till 4am in the morning. Once i got home, i went into my parents’ room and took a look at my dad while he was sleeping. I teared…….. i remember showering my tears while in the bathroom too. Simply cant think of any words to describe that sorrow deep in me. I am always a strong guy in the eyes of my family, but i do drop my tears when i am alone. Nobody knows, only the universe above everyone of us knew…….
That was the night that i am so determine to totally cut my contact with Janice. Anyone around me can betray me, but seriously is not her. For the next couple of days, Every single texts from her, will just get a brushed off from me. Am not giving her any face, am also not going to treat her like how i treated her all this 18yrs….. She is my childhood friend, my best friend, my soul mate, the only woman whom i felt i could put my heart in total trust with besides my dearest mum. In the end she failed me……That feeling was terrible, and i suddenly turned quieter and toned down alot. But life must still goes on and work must still be attended to. And my sick dad was hoping i could spend more time with him…..which is something that truely pierced my heart that all these while i wasn’t spending enough time with him. I Started to feel guilty for not doing that to my dad just becoz of this sickening woman.
That’s when i started to knock off work earlier(since my job is managed by myself and i got total control of my timing). Kept telling myself to spend more time with my precious dad till his very last breathe. Encouraging myself to brave up and walk through this last moments with my dad.
And so i did, for most of the nights, without failed, i would go home early and sit beside my dad and at least hold his hand and talk to him. Sometimes i will do some massage for him and Telling him that the family is in total good hand and i shall stand up for the whole family no matter what happens or what it takes. I enjoyed looking at him when he gave out a small little smile. It just melts my heart And i knew he tried his best to smile. He was disabled, blind and was a kidney patient and was bedridden for the last 3.5 years. Every single day seeing him lying on his bed is a torture to everyone in the family. Is really mental torture
Gosh….writing this episode is literately emotional and heartfelt. Tears were dropping while i am typing. I hope everyone who still have their parents around you now. No matter how bad they treat u, no matter how poor they are and no matter how hard they tried but still cant give you the best in life. Dont blame them. Their present is always a gift from heaven. A gift that no one could replace and no one can give you the same memories ever……..One fine day, the universe up there will ask for this GIFT to be back home…….
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Originally Posted by
RealEstateGuy
Bradddah, you are an outstaning guy. You did the right thing. Your dad comes first no matter what. If his woman loved you truly she would have seen your need and you two would have had quality time in SG not in Europe. She is not worth another minute of your time whereas your family is worth every minute of your time. You are outstanding braddah. Just want to say that to you braddah.
Thank goodness i did it right braddah! hahaha…if not now i will be hell out of a shit and regretting every single bit of my life
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Originally Posted by
big wood
Ts fully agree with u, take care your parents when they are around inorder not to has any regrets in life
cheers bro!
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Originally Posted by
SYTBigBoobLover
Bro, thanks for your encouragement. Probably I have passed a stage whereby my own family members are more important to me, while concentrate on my careers & making more friends.
I’m sorry to hear about your marriage. But look at the bright side, at least you have gone through another different stage of life. You have the experience being a married man, and know your responsibilities.
I feel you too, bro. Our parents are simply NO words can describe! All we need to do is to be very patience with them.
Bro SYTBBL, you are indeed a worthy and humble friend to have.=)
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Originally Posted by
Chanelfingers
Their presence is a gift.
I so agree with u…
you are right Sis, sorry kena spotted of spelling mistakes by you again…hahaha guess i wrote too fast and didnt do typo checks…hahahaaa
alright….my hands are on my laptop now. Let’s continue
Day after day, weeks after weeks, been spending alot more quality time with my dad. I remembered is was during this period in time i had a very good friend who is getting married soon. Just happen that i need to pick up my mum after i had dinner with this good friend of mine. Let’s call her Celine. Celine was happily telling me about how anxious she was during the whole preparations with her dearest hubby to be(who is also a very good friend to me) I can see the radiance in her and joy during this period. Gave her my blessings too.
And so…..after i dropped Celine, was driving slowly back home and had some chats with my mum. Mum was asking me if lately my business is good as i was coming back home earlier most days than before? I said, “yes mum, i worked more during the day time these days and business are as usual”
Mum was glad and suddenly she pop out a golden question…haizzzzzzz
So guys, don’t you think we just gotta believe the world is round? No matter what or how i gonna hide the breaking up with Janice, end of the day my mum still will wanna know how we are progressing. My mum is an amazing woman in my life and i remembered very very clearly that during my birthday this year, she simply just walked into my room and ask if i wanna have my favourite steamboat that she cooked a day before without asking me anything other things. I was very touched…….and i know she can feel it but just kept quiet.
for the past few years, during my birthday i would travel up to meet Janice and spend time with her, cutting cakes year after year, spending quality time her but i will only dinner out after i am back visiting her with my family. I fely total disgrace….I wont mind if any bros or sistas here were to scold me….I accept it.
Just when i cant see myself running away from my mum’s question, I just gotta be frank with her this time. I told her we broke up after the europe trip and it was a betrayal case. I can tell my mum was really sad and i saw her tears in my car, blaming herself why i am always facing obstacles in my love life. It hurts me when i see her like that….felt so unfilial, felt so useless to make my beloved mum tears. I went silence and mum was telling me my success in a marriage is something my dad had always wished for. But cant help right guys? Is just my luck……..
2 days later, i remember i need to finished up some work in office and was staying late. Suddenly a call from my bro came, it was my mum. Her voice was shivering and told me mym dad pulse stopped and was send to hospital immediately during his dialysis session. Without waiting, i rushed to the hospital and all i can do is just wait outside the A&E with my mum and bro while the doctors are rescuing my dad.
after about 40mins fighting for life and death, my dad gave up and decided to leave. He was a devoted buddhism, a medium too and have done many many amazing deeds which had helped countless people around him. He treated them from sufferring of pains and some sufferrings from major illnesses. He is one man in my life that i truely take my hats off. His lose is like the world’s lose. During the wake, many of of good friends, business associates and my clients were there for me, except Janice whom wasn’t informed of my dad’s death. That was when i truely see that over the years in business i made many good people around me. Their heartwarmth condolences is something that in this life i cant do much to repay them, i could only say thank you to them for standing by me.
Days passed, and came the last day of the funeral………..
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Originally Posted by
SYTBigBoobLover
You too bro… A man with hope is a man without fear. You are definitely a great friend with passion and responsibilies.
Probably you may want to consider typing it on a word document, before copy over & post it?
Paiseh… Just kaypo abit if you don’t mind…
hahaha thanks bro SYTBBL, nah i too lazy to do that as i write this story with the immediate thoughts and memories that i had….but hope you guys dont mind my lousy english lor….hahaaaa
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Originally Posted by
unsung80
I feel for TS, you are the man.
thanks bro, i guess i go through things the hard way in life and learn along the way. Even till today, i am still learning. I still do make mistakes but i accept it as a man. No regrets. Having this story pen down in sbf may sounds weird as this place basically is where many of us are here to look for sex, sex escapade. But i hope that special someone in my life could goes on reading while i pen down every thoughts of me till i finish it.
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Originally Posted by
fb0407
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But i hope that special someone in my life could goes on reading while i pen down every thoughts of me till i finish it.
Ohhh??? Your special someone is in SBF?
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Originally Posted by
5ag1_Boar
Ohhh??? Your special someone is in SBF?
No bro, she wasn’t from sbf. But she knew I visit this forum often to read stories and she do read stories here too
learn to treasure those loved ones who are still there around you
learn to treasure what you have
I think all of us should behave this way