I paid for her meals, taxi fares, and other stuff. I also bought her a bag. I am not being stingy, i am being cautious because I want a genuine relationship when money comes into the picture the relationship is screwed.
don’t talk about free fucks. I am not after these. Don’t talk about this from a commercial sex angle ok bro. What i want is a true and honest romance and marriage. I want to marry her. I really do.
also she sent me 2 smses that hint at her hidden agenda. She said," since you already know my motive why did you pretend to be silly and continued dating me"…
another sms said,“all these while i accompanied you (socially) and 陪睡, for free, you obtained quite a bit of advantage.”
I thought we were in love.. how come she sounds like shes in it for money, for materials returns? She sounds like a social escort. Maybe I should pay her by the hour the moment we meet up? The words 陪睡 sound so inappropriate. I mean, when a girl has sex with a guy she loves, she surely would not use such terms. Only gals who sleep with men for money and other benefits would use such words. I am really very hurt and down.
hi noobcomer. Thanks for yr reply.
We didn’t have any quarrel. And in my case, she actually changed her hp no. This means she wanted to sever all ties with me. I feel so depressed and puzzled. I have actually thought of suicide. I kept begging her via QQ… but she just kept rejecting my “add her” requests. I am willing to forgive whatever wrongs she has done. Even if i had hurt her unknowingly, which i had not, why must she be so heartless?
Once again thanks for yr reply noobcomer.
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I must really hand it to you.
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Hi bro, I really appreciate yr replies. But I think you have grossly misunderstood the situation. My situation is not that of a cheongster trying to KC a girl and compare who has gotten more from who. You keep reading my case through that perspective and that’s why you misunderstand. I am looking for true love with intent to get marry and enjoy the simple life.
Thank you anyway. Let God judge me. My conscience is clear.
I didn’t treat her on the premise that she might be trying to fleece me. It was after I was dumped I started thinking about being fleeced. If anyone thinks handing a gal big money and expensive gifts is the way to get true love, then we are on a different wavelength.
Thanks for yr reply.
bro darklord, i find yr posts very extreme to the point of being unreasonable. For e.g. u said i want to be as stingy as possible to my ex… that is so absurd. I don’t know how u got that idea.
e.g.2 you said" how you expect a gal to like a pauper"? That is never my position. I am unable to provide a jetset lifestyle but a decent HDB lifestyle with 3 square meals is within my means. I am not expecting a gal to accept a beggar bf.
I sincerely thank you for yr contribution. I am too depressed to correct yr several strange messages. Again I thank you for replying. Wish you all the best in every area of yr life.
guys.. the lady just added me on QQ and asked me to transfer 5k to her bank account… My heart is being killed by her. knowing her real motive, now I can really move on thanks to her.
bro darklord, i know you like prc gals. but you shouldn’t be biased against me. You mentioned no one complained their gfs were trying to fleece them and left when they couldn’t succeed. this is just so untrue. U mean in this world there is no scheming gals out there meh? I am not saying all prc gals are bad. There are good ones. so u shouldn’t be so defensive.
U just looking for Opinion, no need to refute any opinion given
Unless the TS is just trying to find a topic to looking for someone to chit chat here only
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hey guys thanks for replying. No I didn’t hand her any money prior to her disappearing act but she did ask me to buy her a laptop. I did not accede to her request. We knew each other for only 6 months. I guess for these 6 months she was nurturing me, to get me really hooked onto her before asking for $ or material stuff.
to old but horny, i wanted to post in “Matters of the Heart” but i thought that was for commercial bonks gone wrong.
this girl wears glasses and looks decent. It is hard to fathom why she is so deceitful. I really love her, why don’t she get into a love relationship with me? Why resort to cheating me? I learnt from her the tricks gals use to hook men. For example, she took pics of us together with her camera, calling lao gong and pressed her body intimately towards me. During the whole process, she was very joyous and bubbly. Guys, visualise this scene. How many of you can resist this charm offensive?
I learnt that it is very easy for a gal deceive guys through some simple play-acting. When I was ill, she passed to me her China medicines. When I told her I got bullied at work she actually seemed worked up. When she was at my home, she folded my clothes for me without my asking. I loved her so much I did not allow her to do housework chores. I did them on my own.
Then once, after a quarrel, she cried loudly at my doorstep.
I think she does have some genuine feelings for me but these are ranked 2nd. Her 1st priority is to con me. I mean, humans being humans, even if a gal wants to con you, during the process she might develop some real feelings for you. That is only natural. But at the end of the day, her primary motive still comes first.
I want to share my experience with you guys. Hope you all can learn something from my bad experience. If you guys wanna go for PRC gals, I suggest looking for those who have the capability to get citizenship on their own merit. These girls are less unlikely to con you as compared to those who had to get a Singaporean husband to land a Singaporean citizenship.
You didn’t even get her a laptop? I would also dump you.