Hi all Samsters.
I’m 31 this year and the gal is 25. I know everyone has a limited attention span. So I will provide the most pertinent points in my story. She is not a whore but working in a factory in Singapore. The gal and I were very close, very loving, to the extent that we were planning marriage. And yes, we had had sex many times.
Then one day, she deleted her Facebook profile and changed her hp no. I couldn’t reach her. I tried messaging her via QQ but she declined my friend requests countless of times. These signs were the most obvious that she did not love me as much as she claimed to be. I mean, would a gal suddenly cut off all contact with you when she is extremely in love with you? Even if there is any disagreement, a gal who has genuine feelings for you would want to sit down and have a good talk, not go MIA!
She showed me pics of her hometown, her father, herself back in China and told me the things I had to do in order to marry her. She said I need to bring my parents to China to see her parents and hold a banquet there. As you guys, can see we were very serious.
I want to continue writing about other things relating to this con job but I am too depressed to continue. Even though I know she is conning me through careful analysis of the whole saga, I still wish I am wrong. I still wish she is true to me like I am true to her… Will continue soon.
No offense, but pls wake up bro. they are afterall PRC! there are many decent woman out there…
Cheer up dudes
PRC are meant to be fuck-ed only =)
Er.. TS,
If its sex related please acrry on telling us your sexperience with her..
If its just BGR kiond of stuffs… think u post in other section..aka Matters of the Heart..
Anyway, hope you recover fast and move on with your next relationship..
Wierd…Last year in 2010 you started a post on 25/8/2010 where you said you never had a gf…
average looking and never had gfs
http://sbfsg.world/showthr...34#post5150434
And in 14/8/2010 you started another post
My experience with the only PRC FL & female in my life
http://sbfsg.world/showthread.php?t=200648
So basically speaking in the 7 months where you never had a gf before and was 29 years old, you are now 31 and you have a factory worker gf whom you love very much and are already planning to marry.
Somehow I find that hard to believe that you can fall so much in love with any gal and want to marry her after knowing her for less than 7 months.
Also I find it hard to believe that you had never added her QQ number when you were together and ONLY now you are trying to add her as a friend?
Bro, my advice is not to engage with PRC gals that work here, most of them are looking for wealth. Cheated by them is good for you (that where you learn to be smart next time)….
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teebs_darklord
And in 14/8/2010 you started another post
My experience with the only PRC FL & female in my life
http://sbfsg.world/showthread.php?t=200648
Bro, TS is a disaster in the waiting, RTF a FL many times and want to give her 5k loan…
This Factory worker he want to get married with, IMHO at least made off with 50k… … (if TS have the kind of money)
hey guys thanks for replying. No I didn’t hand her any money prior to her disappearing act but she did ask me to buy her a laptop. I did not accede to her request. We knew each other for only 6 months. I guess for these 6 months she was nurturing me, to get me really hooked onto her before asking for $ or material stuff.
to old but horny, i wanted to post in “Matters of the Heart” but i thought that was for commercial bonks gone wrong.
this girl wears glasses and looks decent. It is hard to fathom why she is so deceitful. I really love her, why don’t she get into a love relationship with me? Why resort to cheating me? I learnt from her the tricks gals use to hook men. For example, she took pics of us together with her camera, calling lao gong and pressed her body intimately towards me. During the whole process, she was very joyous and bubbly. Guys, visualise this scene. How many of you can resist this charm offensive?
I learnt that it is very easy for a gal deceive guys through some simple play-acting. When I was ill, she passed to me her China medicines. When I told her I got bullied at work she actually seemed worked up. When she was at my home, she folded my clothes for me without my asking. I loved her so much I did not allow her to do housework chores. I did them on my own.
Then once, after a quarrel, she cried loudly at my doorstep.
I think she does have some genuine feelings for me but these are ranked 2nd. Her 1st priority is to con me. I mean, humans being humans, even if a gal wants to con you, during the process she might develop some real feelings for you. That is only natural. But at the end of the day, her primary motive still comes first.
I want to share my experience with you guys. Hope you all can learn something from my bad experience. If you guys wanna go for PRC gals, I suggest looking for those who have the capability to get citizenship on their own merit. These girls are less unlikely to con you as compared to those who had to get a Singaporean husband to land a Singaporean citizenship.
eh bro.. thanks for reply, she deleted my QQ no from her contact list. And yes within 6-7months I am madly in love with her and want to marry her.
I got to know her soon after posting the “average looking and no gf” thread.
As for the PRC FL, it occurred in 2007.
my birthday is in august, so strictly speaking i am still 30 now
Call me stupid!
Rule Number 1: Dont go for PRC, unless she is well educated here. We are worlds apart, if she comes from PRC, educated there. If you have sex with her, does not mean she loves you only. back there, the relatives see anyone who gone overseas must be rich,when they come back, or at least hook up a rich BF….
Rule number 2: Always go to rule number 1.
TS, i suggest you go give yourself a good treat for not falling victim to her con job.
It’s better now that she gave you up on her own and that you have not wasted any money.
Or you want to grief only after kena conned of money meh?
Console yourself, at least you managed to keep your money.