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nightqueen
i dont know where is he now…
Still u must report to the police, let them carry out the investigation. And quickly get over this nightmare and start afresh, u are still young.
Hi Vi, after reading part of your life experience, I do empathize u.
Do not give up on life as there are still many good things around u.
I don’t know how to offer advise but hoping to read some good news in your follow up posting
pls dont do anything on impulse…u have hurt urself before so pls dont do it again…if there’s really rape pls report to police..dont let the bastard get away scot free…
not worth to die over some assholes..
i logged on, saw some messages den i realised my friend created this thread.
thanks all bros for the concern.
vivien had been warded to the hospital yesterday, guess she was too stress and she was having some bleeding.
the depression got to her and last night she attempted suicide. now still in hospital critical condition and they are unwilling to do blood transfer for her.
i cant locate her sis either.
maybe its not so right to speak like this in a sex forum.
but this feels so devastating. its like someone you knew so well is dying right in front of you but theres nothing you can do cause everyone has a limit and you already reached yours..
all the doctor could do is tell you she only has till tonight is nothing is done but here you are sulking and doing nothing.. only thing you can do is leave her to wait for her time to be up…
felt helpless totally.
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Originally Posted by
nightqueen
but this feels so devastating. its like someone you knew so well is dying right in front of you but theres nothing you can do cause everyone has a limit and you already reached yours..
It’s important for the care-giver to take good care of herself as well. Your friend has collapsed. But you can’t collapse as well as you will need to be there for her. Be brave sister.
She has made her choice on whether she wishes to live or not. It’s her choice and there’s nothing you can do about it. Let fate decide if she will be better off without the worries of the world or if she will be better off giving life another chance.
Are you and and your friend in SG or JP now ?
If in JP, try phoning the radio stations to get help in locating her sis. They are the only medium I can think of that can get a message across in the fastest time with no questions asked. Do not disclose location, ask her sis to call a known number, yours or your friend.
If you are in SG, then seriously nothing can be done at this point to arrange a final meeting. And if SG docs say nothing can be done, then it is going to be bad, unless you are in a public hospital. I don’t know how the system works but maybe can try getting in another doctor from the private sector to look at her without having your friend needing to do a transfer ?
I hope your friend pulls through against all odds.
I hope your friend pulls thro. It sucks to have to go on this last journey with her but she only has you now. Put on a strong front for her.
appreciate bros help here.. (even though some bro actually pm-ed and scolded me for posting such stupid stuff in a sex forum)
because i am on a short work trip away from tokyo for an interview.. (cant decline cause its pretty important assignment for me), i can only be back to tokyo tomorrow..
the current situation i am not very sure as im not in the hospital with her, my friend is in the hospital with her and if anyone wants to know the situation maybe can pm me for my friend’s contact.
its really a sucky feeling, knowing i cant be there and her time is running out yet nothing can be done. and i contacted her sis but all she said was its not her business and she doesnt wanna care. its just hurting to know she came dis far for her sis yet all this have to happen.
Sis nightqueen, I have just contacted the Ministry of Foreign Affairs and they have given a numer to contact their staff at the SG Embassy in Japan
Ctc Person : Evadne Chan
Ctc : 81335869111
Kindly contact them as they will offer all assistance that is required. An unpaid bill of $2000+ will not be a problem if the person concerned is a SG citizen.