Was quite tired, wanted to call it a day early already, but …
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Made up some lame excuse to leave early, paid up the ERP and went to park at Ngeeann City. Crossed over to paragon and found Milly in a black loose spaghetti dress with sufficient make up that gives you the vibe, she’s a stewardess. Hair is properly combed and tidy, no frills and loose ends. Just in a different dress than from when she’s in the plane.
Her leg were crossed, her skirting barely covered her knees and she was in a pair of grey/silver heels. Classy. She didn’t slouch, and sat there leaning against the arm of her chair holding her phone and sipping tea. Who goes to Coffee Bean (& Tea Leaf) and drinks tea?!?!?
Something I appreciate is her wearing a black bra, because her bra straps are showing. Well, there are 2 straps on each shoulder, 1 from the dress, the other is more lacy and “patterened”.
gog: Excuse me, but is this seat taken?
Milly just glanced and replied very defensively.
M(illy): Yes, I’m waiting for a friend, and I’m taken already, not available.
She looked really irritated like this often happens to her. I stood there a bit speechless and blinked at her while she looked down at her phone and continued sipping her tea.
gog: Erm. It’s me.
Milly looked up. Paused. Covered her mouth and started to giggle after realising what just transpired.
Good morning all!!!
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gog: Very funny huh?
M(illy): No, I… just… hahaha… I thought you were another guy trying to talk to me and pick me up. There were one or two just now tried to sit down and talk to me. Haahaa… sorry.
gog: Wow, so should I walk off, or sit down?
M: Aiyoh, I already apologized, sit down, please?
Milly reached out her hand and tugged at my wrist. Woah… I’m the sort of guy who feels good when a girl makes any form of physical contact, it’s flirting (refer to my thread with Janice & her saliva).
gog: You said you are taken, not available for pick up.
Milly pouted her lips and did a sorry sign with her hand.
M: Don’t like that la… I’m not available for others ma, I waiting for my hot date.
gog: Wah!! Then I’m spare tyre?
M: You’re my hot date, ok? Sit la… aiyoh, don’t tease me liao la!
‘Begrudingly’, I sat down.
gog: You so free today? What did you do the whole day?
M: Bored lor, went shopping, didn’t see anything I like, and wait for you to bring me go dinner.
gog: Thought I was going to meet you tomorrow for movie or dinner. So anxious to see me today ah?
M: My friends are all flying ma.
Here comes the test every guy would do, I’m no exception.
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Originally Posted by
timeliness
Is it asking what about her boyfriend, never bring her out on her day off 🤣
Smart boy!!!
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Originally Posted by
178noobnoob
Friends all flying. So Milly also can start flying to Bro Gog. When can fly to me? Hahahahaha
Honestly, I just have the perception, these girls looking for a cheap guy to spend on them, then leave them high and dry or make themselves look unattainable, so the guy will keep trying to get them.
I think I might have misjudged air stewardess… especially Milly.
Good day! Finally got some time to breathe, hope my updating will be more regular.
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gog: Your husband?
M(illy): What husband?
I glanced at her hand and finger, no ring.
gog: Your WA profile…
M: You no wife, I cannot no husband?
Milly smiled a bit while shooting me back. Sometimes a guy might think he has the upper hand when things happen, but if you’re not careful, you’ll actually be twirled around the lady’s finger and whims instead. I don’t think Milly is the simple sort. Just feel that I need to be careful where I tread.
gog: It’s just that you’re so pretty, well you probably know you are pretty and many guys have told you the same, so …
Milly cut me off.
M: I’m pretty meh?
WHY… WHY DO GIRLS LIKE TO ASK THIS QUESTION!?
gog: I’ll say probably 8 on a scale of 1 to 10, 1 being ugly.
Why do I say 8 and not 10? 10 is an outright lie. 9 is being too flirty, and 8 gives me a sort of truthful outlook and also not being too hurry to win her favor. 7 and below will be offensive. I usually do not grade ladies too high or low, must give them some space to ‘improve’.
M: Wah only 8 ah? So sad… I thought I’ll be a 10.
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Originally Posted by
timeliness
Cannot give a perfect 10 coz not everyone is 十全十美 😆
Hahaha… got!!! Me lor!!!
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Originally Posted by
justin69
So when someone talks to you and keep touching or got body contact especially from girl is sort of flirting?
Which girl will keep touching you when talking to you?
Even ML will maintain some body contact with you to make you feel good and get flirty, no?
Especially ladies, are not like bros, we can put our hands on each other when asking how you are, or hitting each other with fists and all.
A lady slapping my arm gently, or placing it on my thigh like a form of assurance or wrapping, is all flirting to me. Ladies know better than to throw such signs to avoid misunderstanding. Do you see ladies you just met like throw their touches at you, or simply have skin contact for no apparent reason?
That’s flirting, even if subtle. YMMV.
Goooooooooooooooooooooood morning all!!!
A bit tad late but here I am!
Still wordy…
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gog: You should be happy, not many get a rating of 8 from me, you’re one of them. Even my ‘wife’ is only about 6.
I air-quoted wife, while saying it. Fuck off guys. Fuck off… yes I have a glib tongue. Hahahahahah. It really sent Milly smiling and rolling her eyes away in exasperation that she actually fell for my flirty-yet-not-flirty move.
gog: Thought you say will treat me to a drink?
M(illy): What do you want, I’ll go get it.
Kind of rare for a pretty girl to be offering her assistance to get food and drinks for a Singapore guy. I mean I have seen SG ladies buy food, Q for AMDKs and get scolded or abused, but a pure-blooded Singaporean girl was actually humble enough to offer. Wow. I’m really honoured.
gog: What options are there?
M: Mmm there’s coffee or tea or…
Then Milly stopped. I think she caught on when my mouth was trying to hold back my laughter.
M: You’re sickening you know.
gog: Haha… go on… I prefer the last available option.
M: You always like this flirt with girls one issit?
gog: Girls are for flirting, ladies like yourself is for teasing.
Milly gave a ‘roll eyes’, got up and went to the counter, bought the same tea she was drinking and came back. Maybe it’s her job hazard to serve?
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Originally Posted by
timeliness
Hahaha she served you out of 职业病.
Ya, I think she can’t get enough of serving. LOL… but nice gesture. Hardly you will see Singapore ladies want to assist Singapore men.
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Originally Posted by
178noobnoob
Wah bro, last warning.
You need to teach us ‘pick up or flirting skills’
LOL I dunno how to teach, I tend to focus on minor details and actions by the ladies, remember their little bits and take care of those details as ladies are more meticulous, when you do such minor things, it pleases them, that’s all.
Honestly, I’m not that good a conversationalist or able to walk up to a girl and get her interested in me. But over time, ladies feel comfy with me and open up, I’ll listen, and be a listening ear, or like Penny, help them where they need without much thought.
The little acts add up and before I know it, well, something sure happens…
Gooooooooooooooooooooooood Friday!!!!
How’s everybody?
Still wordy…. VERY wordy..
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gog: Thank you, appreciate it.
M(illy): You’re welcome.
Milly gave me a million dollar sincere smile like what I got on the flight.
gog: So why choose to have a me as a friend? I’m fat… ugly and-
M: Looks aren’t everything okay, you were nice to me, polite and your wife so pretty, I jealous want to snatch you away from her, can?
Milly did a ‘hahaha’ to try and brush her ‘joke’ away. I don’t think it was a joke, I think it was really jealousy.
We chatted and our tea cups ended up side by side. A tad engrossed in our chat because without realising, she reached for mine, and I reached for hers.
Only after drinking and moving the cup away from my lips did I notice lipstick marks. Oops. Shit, it’s Milly’s cup.
gog: Sorry, I …
M: It’s alright, not like we’re poisonous or what, unless you very picky la!
With that she just continued sipping from my cup. Again, this sent some eroticness vibes to my groin. I was tempted to drink from the lipstick marked side but that might seem too pervert-ish.
gog: Dinner? It’s almost 7.30pm.
Messages were flowing into my phone from you-know-who. Thankfully, I set it to silent and non-vibrate. Janice must be wondering what I’m doing. Milly gasped and finally realised her stomach is growling.
M: Let’s do dinner, my treat, for you being so nice to accompany me today. Tomorrow you buy me dinner and movie.
gog: Wah dinner and movie, I lugi leh.
Milly covered her mouth and laughed then got up and prepared to return the cups to the return area.
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Originally Posted by
lipe
bros
must remember this aspect.
you will get them hooked onto you when they noticed your attention to details.
for this, they can return favours in many unexpected ways.
Yup.. .girls/ladies like it when you note the minor details, like folding her towel one way, or placing her things in a certain fashion, guiding her to walk on the pavement and looking ahead where there’s those sewer grates to avoid her heels from getting stuck.
Note her walking, if she’s tired, she’ll slow down and feel uncomfy in heels for long time, take a break, go for a drink etc…
Honestly, all these little things add up. To us guys it means nothing, but to a girl, it’s a 100% perfect guy.
Even when you do it for your girl, other girls will take note as well, they are very very meticulous. That’s all I can share.
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lipe
Do not be afraid to hold her hand when both cross the roads.
If she let you hold her hand then you would have won 50%.
The next 50% is after crossing the road, you continue to hold her hand and she allows it.
These are gestures that will capture a girl’s heart.
LOL… this move quite typical… or holding her waist or shoulder when sharing umbrella… this is normally the signs you can go further if she allows.