Bro Ranger, your sensitivity makes you really attractive to the chick lah…
I have to say my deepest condolences for your loss. I cannot imagine what it feels like but I don’t think it’s something I can handle as well as you seem to have done…
On the other hand, it’s been at least a year, and you were asking around for a FB…
The thought of FB does not exist for that long.. cos emotionally.. i still feel for my gf… that is y though i have my needs as a man… i managed to curb it well… She has taken away everthing of mine ever since she is gone..
You need to learn to look forward.
She’s gone from this world and you wallowing in this state is not going to change anything. Its not like she’s still around where you can do something about it.
Don’t torture yourself any further. Don’t keep repeating that she has taken away everything from you because no one can take away anything from you unless you choose to not have it. The way I see it is you choose to not open your door.
Bro take care…
You should or have to let go . . . understand it is hard but you have to let go in order to move ahead. . .
Look at it this way, though I do not know how old you are. . But could you understand how your parents would feel?
I mean they might be longing for a grand children (from you), and your parents might be old as well.
It is right of you to feel upset and etc. but sometimes you have to be a bit more empathic towards your parents
This is not to flame or scold you, just letting you see things from another angle. so that we would not live with any other regrets
cheers
When someone crosses over, for watever reason, wish the person a good trip to another world, where one is suppose to find eternal peace or punishment of what they did in the mortal.
Yes, we miss their PHYSICAL existence, but we shouldnt yearn for them too much.
Cos, this will make their transition very difficult and also, a possibility of an attachment that makes them not wanna cross over cos of your not letting go.
Wish her well, keep her memories and all but dun try to re-live any of it.
I understand your pain bro, do the rite thing!
looking are ur experience…haiz…really sad……1mth ago i broke up wif my most luved….i hurt her too much haiz…really regret…took her for granted…always hot tempered and say nasty things to her rashly…finally she left me….haiz….i dunnoe hw to pass life now…it had been 2 mths….everydae passes like years….i can only contact her on9….i really luv her….i have done wrong things…but my heart is always true for her…haiz
TS,ur story is very touching+sadness and sorrow… Is good to be strong heart to move on… Do whatever u decide about, satisfy about and mostly you want about it… I will always support n respect ur choice!! But is good to move on and left the sadness and sorrow away from u… "
Life is like a box of chocolate
“by
forest gump mom
… XD let it move on man!! Cheer up
TS,is great to share ur feeling out… Im impress about ur story and feel so sry about u… But u must moved on what ever it takes… N is the matter of times,try to let go the old 1 n go for the new 1… I will respect ur decision… B strong bro!!!
U know, there are so much great stories that accompanied me along my time in SBF.
But Ranger Bro,
For what you had related to us via this thread, u have really touch the deep end of my soul, triggering the tears and the most inate feelings. I feel for you and im sure most if not all the Bros here does.
Cant offer you much advise but like most Bros here told you, Set aside a special spot in your heart for her. A spot that would never be intruded and trespass. By anyone at all.
May the Lord be with you, giving you endless blessing in your life further on.
May He who stand above us, shine upon ur ex in heaven.
Hang in there bro….
Forget all the cliche sayings of time healing all wounds…. the wounds may ebb away but they will always be there. The hardest emotions to deal with are the regrets that you could maybe have done more and the guilt that you have outlived the one you love most.
Perhaps one day, you’ll find another soulmate…. maybe it will happen, maybe it won’t…. but as you said, life goes on and we move on.
However, although it’s wasy to believe that you are living alone in your pain and misery, remember that there are people all around you who also care and love you…. please don’t shut them out assuming that they don’t understand. Let them be there for you. Youa re human too… you need friends more so now then ever before.
Take care bro.