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Originally Posted by
elth
Bro Rangers believe or not my tears flow out while reading. nv believe myself reading a story in SBF can make me cry.
Take care and stay happy
Bro Rangers, same here.. my tears just flow out … Do take care…!!
Try your best to move on… especially with relationship… with new relationship, it will be easier for you to move on…. trust me…
Feel so heart pain for you, the trauma that you went through is too much to bear. Time will heal you and rediscover yourself. Hopefully the special one will appear soon.
Currently am facing a near broken relationship, trying my best to salvage it, if not i will regret for the rest of my life. You take care ya.
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
As for this Shirleen, it could also be a gift.
Not as a lover, but as solace to you.
For now that is.
The one that can help you the most is the one that puts their heart forward for you.
Decide on this and tell her in advance that you’re not ready for any relationship thus no promises. If you are, then it’s an outright lie and you treasure her as a friend thus wouldnt wanna do that.
But do not deny the fact that you’re very broken hearted n need a very close friend and a shoulder to cry on.
This i know she’ll do very well.
Do consider this option and dun be surprised, like i said in many of my posts, everything happens for a reason. Take 2 steps back and look over everything like an eagle soaring in the skies, and you’ll see the hidden answer you’ve been seeking.
Cheers
Bro.. i do agreed with u.. she is indeed a gd friend and collague to have.. between.. we can share alot and she really know me well… my moods.. but at this pt of time.. i dun dare to commit much… cos i am really unsure of my feelings for her.
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Originally Posted by
LordVader
Yeah I agree. After all you still have your ’needs’ as well.
Bros.. perhaps i should consider getting myself a FB.. ( at least dun need to have any emotional commitments). Bros.. what do u think of this idea?..
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Aiyoh we all have needs man.
This is the best arrangement rite????
Goes for it in my view.
Thanks bro… k then… btw.. bro do u have any advice for me in how to get a FB. Forgive me as i am really a greenhorn in this area… any intro of any FB that u know?..
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
That’s a very outright DUMB question and you’re really asking for it!
hahahahaha
You already got one willing party waiting for you liao…still wanna find???
Finding FBs is nottin short of finding a lover but no strings or commitment attachments.
Alot has to do wif needs and wants and mental maturity from both parties.
Best candidates are those that dun want to settle down.
bro…hahaha.. me wun touch her as me nt prepared to commit myself in any relationships. A FB is a better choice as it dun need to have any special commitments. Sigh.. me really need a FB to detress abit.
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Originally Posted by
DO_YOU_BJ
Selfishly speaking, if i were you, i will not play her for her sincerity.
But i’ll use her as a tool to get to know more of her friends….for all you know, what you seek may not be from her but through her…tink abt it…hehehe
A brillant idea! but will it hurt her if she find out the truth.. dun seem that it is too gd.. i think i have better nt get her involed… will have to know FB from other sources… Any kind brothers have any FB contacts to share?..
last week was my gf death anniversary… As usual i brought her favourite
roses and visit her… Looking at her photo, i used a cloth and cleaned her
tombstone… Though she is away for quite some time now.. my heart still
longed for her.. Quitely, i spent some moments with her and i feel peace within my heart… Time passed quickily and i finally left the place after a
whole afternoon with her…
While on the way home.. my mobile rang…
Gf sister: Kor where r u?.. r u at jie place?..
Me: Yup, i just left the place.. now on the way hm…
Gf sister: I knew that u will surely visit her today… kor can u accompany me
to the ktv pub tonite, the pub where jie love to go with u?…
Me: Y the sudden idea to go the pub?..
Gf sister: aiya dun ask so much.. coming or nt?..
Me: K.. c u then..
I then went home to prepare the work for 2mr… and proceed to the pub
after i have done my stuff… mobile rang again…
Gf sister: Kor have u reached?.. i am here for quite some time le…
Me: reaching… wru?..
Gf sister: i come out to wait for you at the 711 there..
Me: K.. dun drink so much…
Finally i met up with her.. As usual she is very chatty and jio me to drink with her… i obliged and she know that i am not a very gd drinker… after a few glasses of chivas… she started to ask me a few questions which i usually dun ans as it will trigger off the memories of my gf again..
Gf sister: Kor.. u have not got over jie yet.. rite?..
Me: dun think so…
Gf sister: that explains y u never have a gf since jie has passed away..
Me: Mei… she is the only woman whom i love in my entire life…
Gf sister: How i envy her…
We paused for the moment.. and she continued with the drinking and singing sessions… somehow i can sensed that she is troubled but i did not ask her y…
That nite.. i sent her home as she was really tipsy…
Me: Mei.. kor sent u home k…
Gf sister: Dun want as i will be alone at hm… dad and mum have went to
Malaysia..
Me: u have to go hm but kor will accompany u home..
Gf sister: k…
It has been ages since i go to her place.. the last time when i went there is my gf has just pass away and i went there to pack her stuff… laying the sister carefully on the bed.. i proceed to soak a warm towel on her forehead..
She has drank almost a bottle of chivas… The family photo at her bedside caught my attention with my gf standing beside her… When the photo was taken… she was still very healthy and cheerful.. who would know.. at the pt of time… my tears start to flow endlessly… I never knew that i am so emotionally weak.. Suddenly.. i feel a hug from my back… i was shocked as it is my gf sister who hugged me…
Gf sister: Kor i love u.. dun leave me…
Me: dun be silly… my heart cant contain anyone else but your sis…
Gf sister: i dun mind you taking me for her..
Me: that wont do…
Quckily i left the house and shut off my hp as i want to avoid her calls..