Hi bros…
These few days in shanghai have really give me a chance to sort out my thoughts and feelings for Snowy Yes i have decided to let go of her and the first step to do it is to delete her contact no. I have already done that. The moment the no is deleted, i can feel a release deep within my heart, all emotional issues was cut off instantly at that moment. Yup i will cherish the ones around me… the one who has made me feel loved… nt my gf sis… cos i know what i want… if i cant give my gf the best love she deserve… i would rather forgo it.
Warmest Regards
Rangers.
bro i know losing someone is painful and heart breaking, on the situation for u gf sis. i think it is really a catch 22 situation, cos i tell she is already in love with u and by promising u gf to take care of her. actually you are making it worst for her.
i think u should try to think her not as just u gf sis and admire her qualities cos i feel deep down you have feeling for her too.
“I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken and Id rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it and see the broken places as long as I lived.” - Margaret Mitchell
I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken and Id rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it and see the broken places as long as I lived.
the 2 above quote hope somehow it shine some light on u rangers ……
maybe u juz need some to to relax on ur r.s thingy I guess there’s no rush to be in a r.s to love urself again
“I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken and Id rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it and see the broken places as long as I lived.” - Margaret Mitchell
I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken and Id rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it and see the broken places as long as I lived.
the 2 above quote hope somehow it shine some light on u rangers ……
maybe u juz need some to to relax on ur r.s thingy I guess there’s no rush to be in a r.s to love urself again
Bro TS, many bros had already given the same opinion and I am compelled to do the same. You may be emotional to the point where you are irrational by now. Are you sure that “you know what you want”?
If you do, you should have already seen the same qualities that both sisters share which made you love the elder one in the first place, correct?
I know love isn’t as straightforward or simple as ABC or 123, but probably looking at the basics may assist you in getting a clearer picture.
There are 2 general types of girls: A & B (where A is the type you like and B is the type you don’t like).
Under these 2 broad types, there are another 2 types: 1 & 2 (where 1 is the type who would like you and 2 is the type who won’t).
Both Snowy and your ex-GF (when she chose to dump you) are clearly type A2. Shirleen is probably B1.
Since your ex-GF’s sis exhibits the same personality as your ex-GF, clearly she would be type A had she been anybody else EXCEPT for the lame fact that she is your ex-GF’s sis.
And from her response and actions towards you, it is also clear that she is Type 1.
I understand that you find it unfair for her if you date her because she reminds you of her sis but I think it would be more unfair for the BOTH of you (that’s unfair X 2) if you forgo the chance.
Who knows, if you had met her instead of her sis in the first place, both of you would have been married with 3 kids by now. Have you ever thought carefully in her shoes while you’re concentrating on your own misery?
If it were you, would you prefer to see someone you love wallow in sorrow everyday? How would you feel if you had to lose your dignity by expressing your feelings time and time again only to be thrown back at you because you remind that person of somebody else who is DEAD?
Responsibilities aside, if your ex-GF’s sis is somebody else and she is trapped in a burning building with Snowy, who would you save first? I have said my goodbyes to my ex (not death but emigration+marriage) and it took me a long time to realise my own love for somebody close to close that wound too.
We all hope you can have a happy ending somewhere, bro. Don’t let Time do His worst on you. It never heals.
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Cheonging101
I know love isn’t as straightforward or simple as ABC or 123, but probably looking at the basics may assist you in getting a clearer picture.
There are 2 general types of girls: A & B (where A is the type you like and B is the type you don’t like).
Under these 2 broad types, there are another 2 types: 1 & 2 (where 1 is the type who would like you and 2 is the type who won’t).
ABC 123… haha.. very chimm…
Bro rangers,
You r indeed a man of yr honour and i respect you for that. I will take back my words for snowy. All the best to you.
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Rangers
To bro berserk..
Thanks bro will cherish this relationship with my gf.
Warmest Regards
Rangers.
so bro ranger, who become ur gf liao? care to tell us more? i guess all the bros here also would like to know… thanks for sharing…
Bros sorry for late posting as i am really tight with work nowadays. Sorry i cant go into much details into my gf… cos it is our own little secret. Hope that u guys understand. She is a nice girl.. gentle and understanding. Most important of all, she has managed to unlock my close up heart… releasing me from the past… Thanks to her… i can find the strength to move on.
Hi bro ranger,
well compared to you, i may not have experience enough to actually give any constructive comments or such.
But I suppose i can understand the ache in your heart when you miss someone and that particular space can’t be replaced by someone.
Just some 2 cent worth from me yea: Time will cure anything if you choose to cure it.