Old people say, cut ppl hair will also kanna cut by other.
Think problem usually lie with the man. The man seduction to a lonely wife because the man got no more feeling for his wife.
Chain reaction.
Important, if your wife still got feel for you and kids, than close one eye. Make sure no more next time loh. Also you got a reason to fuck around next time loh.
Bro, remember one thing, if you with violence, you end up in jail and they end up in bed ok.
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Now to the guy part…..knn !!! dun know whether you will be reading this thread or not . He admitted to me on the phone and i’m yet to meet u with him next few days.
How you gonna handle him ? beat him up ? seek compensate ? He will responsible for everything . That for sure as i know her wife number ? office nmber ? He has good carrer which i don’t think he wants me to make trouble at his office.
I will not beat him up to punish him unless i cut off his little bro……cb!! exterer pain will recover after some time.
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meet him , get an MP3 player that can record and put it in your pocket , record his admission , after that the world is yours to decide and play with . no need for physical violence , you can have revenge in other ways . with the recording , make him pay $$ . after collecting his money , show his wife and family the recording and destroy his life , just like he did to you .
BROZ, I think u better dun waste ur time go meet tat bugger lah.
Wat is done is alreadi done. The fact is ur wife had alreadi make u a green hat.
In marriage, the first thing is about trust.
WILL U TRUST UR WIFE AGAIN?
Ur wife is the honey, those men outside is the bees.
Of course ur wife should be one controlling herself. CAUSE there r countless bees outside.
SO my advice to u is, THINK over ur marriage.
U may beat her once, the next time u may also kill her.
Good luck.
Bro sorry to hear about that but never raise hand against wife becos end of the day you still end up loser which ever way whether you want to carry on or divorce….once she make report it goes against you…if she cuckold you then drag her name thru mud..
For the guy, I say no need to get mad just get even…he nearly destroyed your life and marriage…now you get even and screw him back by destroying his marriage and career…squeal on him to his wife and make a scene at his office..
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benxmanda
To me very simple,
You say you love someone, if you really love that someone, wouldn’t you want to give the best/biggest gift to that someone you really love?
I also got a problem, have you read my thread “Home Wrecker”? Think I need to handle the whole thing carefully.
Thanks bro benxmanda,
I will bear in mind this statement.
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bonkers69
Thanks bro benxmanda,
I will bear in mind this statement.
That post by Bro Benxmanda, is the only worthwhiled post to pay attention to, imho. No intention to hurt or provoke anybody here ok?
At this point of time, I believe that TS should not be dwelling on how much compensation to seek, or how many people should know about what the 3rd party did.
It’s about moving on right now. How to do that? Read Bro Benxmanda’s post. Straight to the point.
My hats off to you, Bro Benxmanda.
TS, you have my support. I believe you still love your wife and family deep deep inside your heart.
Save your marriage. It’s within your powers. Never mind what happened, you cannot turn back the clock. You can only improve on the times ahead, for yourself, your wife and most importantly your kids.
They do not deserve to go through a young life, where they see their daddy not living together with or talking to their mommy anymore. And they do not deserve to go to school having their classmates ask why their parents are not together anymore. They would have a lot of questions they won’t dare to ask, and they will blame themselves for your split with your wife. This type of experience is very traumatic for kids. They last for life.
Please please please please make the right decision. You can save this marriage.
The fact is He has not fucked your wife.
And with your mind all out to get compensation with him, you are missing on the most important part, that is your FAMILY.
Now is the time to concentrate on ur family and how to move on instead of filling your mind and heart with thoughts of revenge (isn’t that the type of compensation you want ?)
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yang punk
You still don’t get it .. do you (same goes for the rest who think fucking pros is no big deal…they are NOT being unfaithful just releasing stress?)
do u?
if u get caught by yr wife, yr pants down with a prostitute, it constitutes adultery as well. but why can we live with ourselves??? cos no feelings involved.
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You guys are still living in the dark ages! In today’s world women have equal rights whether you like it or not…society and the courts have given it to them.
no, women have more rights, not equal.
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Would you feel better if your wife is so inadequate (in your language…can’t make it) that she have to pay a guy to fuck her? Wouldn’t that make you a greater loser? Think about it
it appears that u do not understand the meaning of mindless sex and an affair. sex is sex, and affairs might not contain sex, it is much more.
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If you as well as other men can’t accept that (that wives can fuck other men) then make sure you give them enough sex to keep them satisfied so that they have NO reasons to fuck outside! Otherwise YOUR wives are fair game to all the hunters (read milf fuckers out there)!
well, if i didnt know any better, sounds like justification for scums who specialises in going after other people’s wives.
sorry i m blunt, but meant no offence.
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newbadass
I guess the difference is that men only give sperm and not heart.
But women usually give both. To them, it’s interlinked. Men can have meaningless sex, but not women.
first time agreeing with u…
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newbadass
That man got no standard. People’s wife or girlfriend also want to play. If don’t blame him blame who? Blame his parents for not teaching him the right values?
damn, u’ve got the nail on the head!!! might as well go after the devil since it was the devil who made that man go fuck around with other people’s wives.
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bonkers69
well if one day it happen to you…hope you handle it as what u mention.
well said!!!
Dear Bros out there!
This issue just happen to me last Wed. I’ve caught my wife send kinky panky msg to her colleague. Same as Bro TS, they have denied on sex but admitted to me on going out and holding hands.
Same as you Bro, I love my family and so i decided to forgive my wife and EVEN that F**Ker! Of cos, you will came across the feeling i have. When you hold your wife’s hand, you will think of that man (you have to over come this, i’m still trying). When you kiss her, you will think of that man again and if you ever do have sex again, YOU will THINK of that F**ker again!!!
But all this, you will have to overcome if you really love your wife deeply. I know is hard to forget but you have too if you do still love her. I know i did and also for the kids..
All this burn down too how much do you really love her. And how do we see this issue. Maybe bcos we are MAN, so our ego is at state. But think back, why can womans forgive us if we have affairs outside? And honestly, how many guys in here doesn’t play or have affairs outside? Let’s be fair!!
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no, women have more rights, not equal.
Men’s charter? But then, who says world is fair?
Fancy chancing on you here