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Originally Posted by
infinitiumus
thanks. I am always cautious as I have had bad experience as well.
funny isn’t it. I am not even bonking this PA yet and there are already so many comments. It is still some way to go before I can even bed her.. and who knows.. she may not be receptive at all..
They all mean well but I hope you will keep us updated of your progress!
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Originally Posted by
luv1299
Believe TS must be quite good-looking guy, so many gals have fallen for him.
On the contrary, a man’s look is not the most important factor.
When I was younger I had more problems hooking girls. Now as I am well into middle-age, surprising it is much easier as in recent years most of my fuck buddies/lovers are much much younger than me. For me now I don’t even look at a girl when she is past 30 years.
Actually man don’t age that fast and girls somehow prefer matured man.
Actually this is not a story but is happening in real time. I have hooked many girls before but right now I must say this is a bit tricky. There are a certain amount of risks because she is working for me. I cannot be too aggressive but at the same time I cannot simply let nature take its course.
That is why I am now developing a strategy. One of the most tested strategy is to have maximum contact with her outside the normal work environment. Doing something together that will let her hair down so that she is more relax and more open to ideas.
For me now I am going to speak to her in the office about her work and about her aspirations and to see how I can help her on this in the official manner. And then we shall see.
I will ask her for lunch on monday for a casual chat and hopefully she will respond positively.
Stay tune on monday.
Today I came to the office and when I saw her the first thing in the morning, I spoke to her. And Sue is her name
Me: “Sue, how was your weekend?”
Sue: “Ok lah”
Me: “Do you have lunch appointment?”
Sue: “No sir.. anything?”
Me: “Yes, I want to talk to you about a possible position that you might be interested in.. let’s do lunch "
Sue: “Ok.. "
Then I didn’t disturb her the whole morning as I went for meetings. I finished my meeting at around 11 plus and when I went back to my office, she caught my eye. As usual, she was wearing a blouse with a tight skirt (not short leh) and she wore a jacket - so that was nothing I can see. She was wearing her specs today and I found that very sexy.
So I walked over to her desk and she looked up at me. Tried to take a peek but there was nothing for me to see.
Me: “So, are you ready for lunch?”
Sue: “Yes, anytime..”
Me: “Ok.. I am going to washroom first.. See you in 5 mins at the lobby”
Sue: “OK..”
So I went to the washroom, ease myself and looked at myself in the mirror. Then I went down to drive my car up to the drop-off area. And shortly after she came down and I led her to my car.
It was not even 12noon and I drove her to this quiet eatery. After we have ordered our food, I began to talk to her:
Me: “Sue, I have this position of PA. Project Administrator and not Personal Assistant for a new project that we will be signing soon.. I thought it would be suitable for you. Are you interested?”
Sue: “Oh.. sure.. yeah.. I am interested.. can you tell me more”
Me: “yes, because I have looked at your resume and qualifications and I thought you should be able to handle or at least learn..”
Sue: “Yes.. as I don’t really want to be a Personal Assistant for long”
Me: “this job will require you to take minutes, organize meeting, prepare reports, track project status and other miscellaneous tasks.. "
Sue: “this is interesting..”
And then our food came and I saw her grinning. We spoke casually about this new position as we ate our food. The reason why I wanted to ask her to try this new position because, firstly we really need someone. And it is better to ask someone that we are familiar with. And secondly it would mean more contact with her and also possibly to meet client and also more contact with her outside the office.
This new position being new to her she will definitely need help and what better way than to be able to teach her on the job? The only problem was that we haven’t sign the contract yet so officially I still have to wait. So I passed her a copy of the scope of work for the contract and asked her to read it to get familiarize.
At the same time after discussing about the new position I asked her casually about her personal life. I got to know she was from Penang and is currently staying with her aunt in Singapore. And of all places, she is staying in Bedok! (oops, same as Carol). Only knew that she liked Yoga and is a movie buff. I was already dreaming about the karma-sutra position that she is able to do on the bed.
The best thing was that I got her MSN. I told her that sometimes would need to discuss project matters and it is easier to communicate via MSN than on the phone because sometimes we need to share files.. etc etc..
As you know, instant messaging is one of the most powerful tool to court girls. It is really easy to flirt a little on MSN without appearing to be to desperate. And normally girls may not flirt openly on the phone but they would dare to do so on MSN.
So it was a good start and after lunch we went back to the office.
I beginning to feel that I am on the right track.
Today I came into my office and as I was reading my email, Sue came into my office.
Sue: “Sir, can I ask you something about the scope of work.. I was reading yesterday night..”
Me: “Sure…. take a seat”
But she didn’t sit. Instead she walked over, bent down and showed me highlighted areas on the document itself. She was just a foot away from me and this time round I took a peek and bingo.
I saw her white bra and I thought I saw a little glimpse of her nipples? My cock was full erected as I was peeking and I wasn’t paying much attention to what she was trying to say.
I took the documents from her - my hand brushing hers.. as I flipped though the pages. She stood up and I noticed that she was not wearing her specs. Suddenly I thought she looked damn beautiful.
As I looked up at her, staring her intently. She blushed a little as she moved away and took the seat in front of me.
Me: “hey today you are not wearing your specs”
Sue: “yeah.. i can’t wear contact everyday.. sometimes i got infection”
Me: “I see… you look great without the specs.. actually you looked great with your specs as well”
Sue: “thank u.. so regarding the sow.”
Me: “Ok.. I was dreaming just now.. can you repeat”
So she repeated her questions and I answered them. She was taking notes.
Me: “don’t have to worry so much.. take it easy.. we still have time..”
Sue: “Okie..but I want to be sure that I am well-prepared "
Me: “ok”
… to be continued..
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Originally Posted by
*FiReWoRkS*
TS i think you really stand a chance but based on what you have shared with us so far i think it’s best to go with the flow first without being too agressive cos i think Sue might be the type of girl whom are easily frightened by sudden agressive gestures..so far so good for you..
wish you all the best
but remeber to keep us posted
I know. As I can see, she is really a conservative girl. So her clothes are blouse with skirt (not short one) - so far haven’t see her wear anything revealing yet.
Actually I already have a plan but I need to play it slowly. It will take weeks for it to materialize.. And I don’t even want to date her till I know she is ripe for the picking.
For now, the best is to let her have a taste of hot/cold feeling.. going to ignore her for a few days..
thanks bro for all the concern.
I know exactly what I am doing.
a) I won’t be forcing myself on her.. no sexual harassment. If she tells me to
fuck-off.. I will fuck-off
b) I won’t be screwing her in the office (if even I can get to screw her)
c) If I manage to bed her - it will be consensual sex between two adults
in a hotel..
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Originally Posted by
KingBong
It’s not what you know or don’t, it’s what others might do when they find out.
Sorry, find out about what?
It is not illegal or a crime to date a colleague - even someone working for you as long as there is no conflict of interest and as long as personal relationship does not interfere with work.
Not much happening this week as I was out for meeting and MC for two days (wed & thu). Tomorrow I am going back to office to check things out. By the way, the project that I was talking about there was some good news. Customer will be in town next week to sign the contract and after that we will need to start work.
And I’ll get another new PA to replace Sue, who will then be involved in the project.
Stay tune for more updates along the way.
It has been a while.
My customer has already signed the contract this week and officially we can start work. I was still looking for a new PA and in the mean time I asked Sue to double up. She took up the challenge readily.
As customer was in town, we went to meet them at their office and to gather requirements. I brought Sue along for her to be exposed and to take minutes of the meeting.
It was a very pleasant meeting and customer seemed to be very impressed with us. And that night we took customer for dinner at Clarke quay. There were six of us, three of us from my company (myself, sue and another colleague) and three from the customer side.
After dinner, we went for a drink or two and by 11 plus, we decided to call it a day. The customer went back in by themselves as one of them was driving. The other colleague drove as well and he left too. So I turned to sue:
Me: “I can drop you off at Bedok”
Sue: “Only if it is convenient”
Me: “It is OK”
We just had two drinks and I can see that Sue’s face was red.
Me: “Sue, are you ok.. your face is flushed”
Sue: “Ok.. guess have a drop too much.. i don’t normally drink”
Me: “OK. not to worry..”
So she got into my car and I drove off. We didn’t talk much in the car and very quickly we have reached Bedok. As i was turning into the car park, I turned to speak to sue
Me: “So, how do you like this job so far”
Sue: “hmm.. much more interesting than a PA’s job.. I like it.. can learn a lot of things”
Me: “Sure.. but you have to work very hard”
Sue: “I know.. have to learn more from you”
My car pulled into the car-park and I stopped my car.
Me: “It is late now.. I see you up to your door”
Sue: “Actually it is OK.. "
Me: “No.. I have to.. it is almost midnight now”
She didn’t say much as I walked her along the path-way to her block. Then we went into the lift. It was quite bright and I can see her flushed face. She looked quite pretty to me then and I thought I would move forward to kiss me. But I didn’t. And I sent her to her door-step, saw her opened the door, walked into the flat before I took my leave.
As I started the engine of my car, a SMS came in:
Sue: “thanks for the ride and thanks for seeing me home… good night”
Me: “My pleasure.. good night too”
.. to be continued..