I’m definitely no expert. I got a bastard friend who can KC many ladies into spending on him. His gift of the glib is no joke, and he’s really quite handsome from what women say (he’s mixed blood - half chinese half indian). So he gets free sex AND gifts all the time. But again, there are lines I set for myself when playing around and I don’t cross them no matter how tempting.
Anyway taking a break from updating for a while; Z and I decided to end the cooling period earlier and we had plans to spend the next few days together.We also wanted to do what “normal” couples do rather than spend all our time banging, though I’m quite sure that I will definitely be getting some action too. She still seemed so perfect to me and I’m going to make sure she knows how much I appreciate her beauty and body
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LoveOrSex
Very nice insight on dating a ML. Although SBF has taught me well never to step into a relationship with ML’s ever, I do sometimes have thoughts creeping into my mind with some ML’s whom I happen to click slightly better with. I’m not saying that I’m falling in love with them but I’m saying some of them are pretty attractive and I would love to get into their pants. However it seems like either you gotta smash a hell lot of cash on their faces or attempt to play the KC game. Which of course playing the KC game would be more friendly on the wallet. But I’ve never dared to try to enter into this kind of relationships and TS experience really gave me an eye opener because I was always curious on what might the relationship bring. Very nice and precise writing skills and while reading the story I really felt like I was TS and in his shoes at the moment
I don’t know your situation, so I can’t comment. But my general thoughts is relationship with ML isn’t that much different from relationship with other ladies if you look past their work, but expect them to be more controlling and prone to jealousy cos they had met so many guys in their line of work and they generally know our tricks.
I had also short term flings with locals, and some of their sex history is just wow too. I had a fling with a local SYT a while back and so just went with her to a gathering. To make it short, let’s just say that I learnt that she was like the cum dump in her class. She isn’t the prettiest, but her figure is quite good. Most of the guys had emptied their cum into her before (raw) and probably that’s why she’s so good at pleasing me. She’s actually quite intelligent and can hold a decent conversation. But when I appeared, you can see all sorts of glances thrown my way (probably thinking “this poor old man going to get cheated of his money by a cum dump”). She actually brought up the topic of cum dump herself after the gathering, and asked if I mind that she didn’t tell me beforehand. I just told her nope, and was “rewarded” with being the first person to have anal with her (or so she claimed, though she’s really tight in the ass and I can see that she’s in a lot of pain).
So yah, everybody has their considerations. For me, I don’t give a fuck to what most pple think about me since long ago except for a select few (Z now being one of them). I don’t owe them anything, and they don’t owe me anything too. But if you are the type who may be conscious of how others think, then probably you may want to consider if you go out with her and bumped into her customers etc, or can you take it if your friends are her customers and you developed feelings for her, but your friends are all commenting on her skills and body all the time.
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No action from her husband since he know she is sleeping with someone?
There’s something between them that I can’t share as I think it’s quite unique (at least first time I’m exposed to it) but based on what my other friends shared, it isn’t that unique but still think it’s safer and better to just not mention it.
One of my friend and his wife (they migrated overseas) also had an interesting arrangement. In short, they have an open arrangement and they remained married is for when they get old and they probably will not be as sexually active and attractive (putting aside money; both are in high paying jobs) they will have companionship. I don’t know all the details but let’s just say that they will go for STDs etc check every half yearly, some ground rules like no bringing of pple home, no sleeping with relatives of their partners (friends are ok but only close friends who know about their arrangements etc). I think if I ever get married I can’t accept that, but they seemed totally fine with it though only a few of us close friends know it. The wife can even joke that it’s a high feeling when other guys thought that they are seducing a married woman, not knowing that the guys are the prey instead.
Guess there’s all kinds of thinking in this world.
Sorry for long MIA, still settling some stuff with her, and also not forgetting my going out to relax with other ladies.
Anyway just a short continuation:
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Will not go into details of the financial situation I need to handle then since there may be clues giving away my identity. Anyway, after I shared the situation with Z, she told me she’s going to stay at my place for 2 weeks.
Me: but I will be busy
Z: ya I understand
Me: why do you want to come here to stay then?
Z: I want to show my support to you.
This truly melts my heart and for a while, we are living like a married couple. Z will take care of my house matters and make sure I have my meals etc when I’m home. She will insist that I don’t send and fetch her and that I take the time to rest. But I still do that, by insisting that I’m not going to take the chance that some IT expert will come and steal my job. This made her laugh and looked so happy, though I’m not sure if it’s the joke or the fact that I’m expressing that she means something to me. She was also trying to please me more in bed as well, and started to make various efforts to seduce me and our sex sessions got more and more intense.
After one of the sessions, I was smoking at the balcony when Z came up to sit beside me
Z: how much more do you need to raise?
Me: don’t worry about it, I’m almost there
Z (passing me her phone with a figure on it): is this enough?
I looked at it and was quite shocked. It’s not a small figure and more than enough, but I pushed it back to her
Me: I thought you invested more into expanding your business and have not much money left
Z: yes but I asked around and I can get this if I sell them.
Me: are you crazy?
Z: I want to help you
I just finished my smoke and went over to hug her. Stoking her hair like I did in the past.
Me: I will not take your money
Z: Why not?
Me: I don’t want money to appear in our relationship. I can settle it don’t worry.
Z: it’s not a loan. You don’t have to pay me back.
I was very touched by this (and even when writing this, I still feel very moved by her). I just said a no and stay silent
Z: you don’t have to sign on anything. I can pass them in cash to you as well if you are still afraid that I will ask for them back
Me: Silly girl (傻丫头)
Never thought that I will use this phrase but finally I did.
Me: thank you, but I really don’t need it.
Z: any ideas yet?
Me: yup, and I will see if everything works out next week
Z: I will stay here until it’s resolved
We just sat there in silence for a while before I pulled her in and we had another round. During these days when she stayed with me, she can always come out with some ways to seduce me. She admitted some time later that she was looking for porn and she knew I had a thing for certain storylines, so she was looking through them and reenacting some of them. Though there were bad days where I just flared up at her (I still feel guilty about it up till now), she had never argued back. I don’t believe in crying, but she once almost brought me to tears when after a particularly bad flare up at her, she suddenly just kneel down and gave me a BJ. After I had CIM her and she swallowed, she just cuddle up to me and said that she’s my personal sex toy and to let her know if I need other ways to vent.
The following days were crazy but luckily I managed to resolve things. Z was happy that things turned out well, but still wanted me to take her savings to pay off some of the loans I took on from friends. Assured her that the cashflow will be healthy enough for me to repay all loans in another few more weeks before she finally stopped offering. As Z was leaving, I stopped her
Me: thanks for being here with me
Z: I’m happy that things work out
We both suddenly just looked at each other awkwardly.
Me: I really enjoyed you staying here
Z: me too… but I got to go back sooner or later
I moved up to hug her again and whispered
Me: one more round?
Z: pervert
Me: I want to cum in you, and you must not wear your panties back until before I drop you off. I want to know that my cum is dripping out of you as I’m sending you back.
Z shyly nodded and allowed me to pull her to the sofa. I painted her all over while she’s just softly loaning before inserting my rod inside. As I slowly shifted in and out of her
Z: Cum in me…
Me: I’m going to make you pregnant
Z: yes… I want your baby
With that I started to bang her hard and soon cum inside her. After a while we dressed up and as I’m walking her down downstairs. I was trying to get a feel of her pussy to see if cum is dripping out while we are walking and she was scolding and hitting me all the way.
Z: I’m not joking
Me: about? I have enough money
Z: no, the baby
Me: what do you mean?
Z: I’m not going to take birth control pills anymore
I was shocked. We walked to the car in silence after that
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Damn i really love this story
A man however strong, will always need such a woman by his side
She is a dream girl for many I’m sure, the only baggage is that she is married
Bro CheongingEdge, thanks so much for the sincere write-up and I am always looking forward to more of your story with her
May you and her have a beautiful future together whatever the tie-up
Thanks bro, I’m very grateful for the fact that I met her. Besides the fact that she’s married, she’s also actually quite self conscious of the fact that she’s a ML before and raised this more than once that what if we bumped into my friends who were her ex-clients before. She’s quite blunt about this, that these friends may have groped and sucked on her tits before and released their armies onto her hand (she really phrased it something like this).
I don’t think I’m the type who wants to be tied down and this is actually my biggest hurdle rather than the part about her being a ML before. I’m already past the stage of worrying about how others see me or laugh at me etc, but I still need to keep assuring her that. Think maybe that’s the difference too, that in China, they see face as one of the most impt thing to a man. But now at least when we go out to somewhere far from her house and her in-laws’ place, she will finally let me hold her hand in public when we walk. lean on my shoulders etc.
Just that we are still not sure how we will move forward
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Just my 2 cents, bro. If you are not sure, then don’t move forward. Stay where you are and just enjoy the moments with her. She’s still legally married, and there’s nothing you can do unless she divorce the hubby. I hope you don’t get the same experience like bro Shrouded who got involved with 2 married women, and got whacked by both their husbands.
I am also currently banging a milf ML, and we have developed to a level where we are almost like husband and wife. Good thing is that she is divorced with a kid back in China. But we have maintained status quo, because she know that I am also banging a couple of my other FBs.
Just thread carefully, and avoid the pitfalls. Cheers.
Yup, so we are making sure we take our time to think through and discuss. We also considered the possibility that if we move from the current status quo, things may turn bad actually. She may be more jealous of me finding other ladies while I may find her naggy etc. We also considered the fact that some day we may also be tired of each other, so we are also more focused on enjoying the current situation, but topics about whether to move forward do come up time to time, especially after our strolls and during the cuddling after sex
We are in no rush, and sometimes even enjoy the fact that we have our own private space. She’s in no rush to divorce her hubby too. Essentially they are just married in name, and both are turning a blind eye to the other’s activities outside. Just that it’s more complicated cos of kid
Just a short continuation again
We were both silent during most of the car ride after her declaration, but continued to hold hands as I drove. As we were nearing the place for me to drop her off, she broke the ice again
Z: Can I know what you are thinking?
Me: I’m not too sure myself
Z: Are you scared?
Me: Yes, I…
Z (interrupting me and gently squeezing my hand): I was just joking
Me: Let me finish what I want to say
Z: OK
Instead of continuing, I just looked out for a carpark and turned inside and parked in a lot. After bracing myself and I can sense Z don’t know what to do or where to look, I finally turned to look at her and it took her a while before she met my eyes
Me: You know what scares me?
Z: You don’t want the responsibility? You don’t have to be, I will bring up the child myself
Me: No that’s not it. I think I love you
Z was giving me a stunned look
Me: I’m seriously considering it, and that’s what scare me. I never wanted to be a family man. But when you said that just now, I was not only shocked but happy
I reached over to kiss Z and Z frenched me back passionately. It took us a while to break the kiss
Me: If you are pregnant with my kid, will you be mine?
Z: I’m already yours
Me: That’s not what I mean and you know it
Z was silent before going on weakly about how messy the situation is and how it will be messier if she tried to be with me. I listened silently for a while
Me: He already knows what’s going on, so what could be worse?
Z: It’s a pride matter for him, he will never want to divorce
Me: And he’s ok that his wife is with me all these while?
Z stayed silent and I can see that she’s becoming visibly upset and so I didn’t continue the conversation in that direction.
Me: You are willing to have my child?
Z: Yes, I know it’s impulsive, but I want to have your child. Even if we are not together, I will bring the child up well.
Me: What about me? I can’t see the child or be the father openly?
Z: I know it’s selfish….
Me: And also, how will he treat the child?
We stayed silent for a while more before Z asked me to continue our way and send her back. I can see that she’s holding back tears now and decided it wasn’t good to drop her off in this state. So I leaned forward to kiss her again and after we frenched for a while
Me: How is it?
Z: What?
Me: My sperm… is it leaking out of you?
Z slapped me real hard on my arm and finally started smiling. I then drove off and we remained silent until I stopped the car. As she start to exit from the car, I just quickly said
Me: You are mine, I have already planted my flag in you.
Z seemed to suddenly blush and shy nodded then quickly got out of the car. Before closing the door, she turned back and said
Z: Pick me up again tonight, I will tell you the place and time
Before allowing me to respond she just quickly walked away