I do agree with u, albeit partially. I do feel the emptiness inside after a night out at KTV with all the interaction and flirting with the KTV chicks. But I do find that masturbation and sex aren’t the same in terms of sexual satisfaction. Its like comparing a tour to Disneyland to watching a documentary on disneyland. After PCC， the sexual urge still lingers but a good session with a FL can keep me from thinking of sex for at least a few days.
Kenneth21 bro, u are not alone !
for little me, i have lost count the amount of vit M, number of WLs i have bonked within this little time span of like 1 yr plus ? no matter how pretty the they are, how good she treats u, how good that bonk is, at the back of my head i will think that it’s jus a trade. i guess that explains the emptiness we feel after each session, reality kicks in as our big heads jus knows wats best for us.
i do admit that the excitement and lust is there, especially when getting a bonk is jus as easy as flagging ur cash and sealing the deal. There’s a point of time where i kenna the KC trap and really die until jia liat jia liat. But no one’s to blame for that as it takes 2 hands to clap.
masturbate and having s3x although is about “releasing”, it is releasing through different levels. masturbate IMHO is about fantasy whereas the most u could do is watch p0rn and picture the scene in ur mind, u are still alone emotionally. Releasing through s3x is totally another level, more of an emotional fulfillment i guess.
regarding about getting high end FLs for couple of hundreds or more for a session or overnight stay, i’m over that period(well at least for now). i always keep my bonks around the hundred range as tat is as far as i can afford for now.
I personally think(no offense) that earning much it not a solution of the problems. There is always a way to spend or earn more money. Even if u earn more, there are hundreds of other ways to spend it. I could suggest to get an emotional comfort, doesn’t have to be a gf. Maybe some other stuffs to keep ur mind occupied or something.
Do not get me wrong here, i luv bonking and i’ve a really high s3x drive. Most of the time i bonked too much for my own good. Try to sit down and think about it, lessen the number of bonks per month if it’s killing your pocket. The last thing u would ever wan to do is to save up on ur meals or daily expenses jus for the sake of bonking.
Jus my 2 cents though. My mindset is, Life is short, live it to the fullest ! Try out as much things as u wan when u still can, if not when do u wan to try ? And to all the chiongster bros, bonk with no regrets ~!
Cheers,
Paul
This is a good thread because it is about sharing abashfully what’s troubling you and humbly seeking others’ opinions. I see many sincere opinions from fellow brothers here too.
Your frustration stemmed from the fact that you “squandered” all your hard-earned money for short-lived pleasurable moments instead of wisely using the money for “more important things in life”.
Like what the brothers here have advised you to think and do: focus on making more surplus money and the frustration will lessen. It’s an inverse relationship if I can remember my mathematics correctly.
Exercising some self-control may also help so that the money is well-spent on mostly quality fucks.
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And i can tell you if i do strike toto and win 500k, i will definately book some high end girls to try. but fact that is, its damn diffcult to strike toto.
And to bro DO_YOU_BJ,
yes i understand that FL is boring because it lacks the thrill of having to sian the girl yourself + you might not even get the right chemistry with the FL at all.
But do remember that, to sian a girl requires lots of effort + time + some amt of money. Which i can’t really afford the time to do so.
Dude, read your reply.
The time will come when to taste the forbidden fruit & then comment.
Based on your nick and what you post, can roughly tell your age group.
Not an argument here, but one day, you’ll look back & remember this post & bang, u’ll knock yourself & say that boliao guy in sammy boy was rite…..
The cycle is the same, only when it dawn on you only…cheers and have fun dude.
Ts, I can understand how you felt and my sentiments exactly.
After these few years of fun, I am beginning to feel bored about it. No doubt a curvy sexy WL still turns me on but the fun is short lived. But I guess it was meant to be these way cos otherwise I would have fallen into the pitless hole of KC trap.
Those WL have nothing more to offer other than a fuck and forget session, even in a RTF situation. Now only the conversations hold better.
TS, you were fortunate you still have a clear piece of mind. Some fellows, longing for companionship, tries to seek them in a countless RTF session with a particular WL or FL, hoping that his “support” and time spent with her will somehow develop some kind of a relationship there. And bros here are pretty familiair with thier deadly KC trap, so both factors paired up pretty easily and another victim is claim.
For my case now, I have tone down my visits, partly also due to rising cost. And at times allocate the time and resources to date gals out, non Fl la…
Even though no hanky panky act, the outings was so much memorable. Hopefully she is the one