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Originally Posted by
l337House
I question your judgement to ask questions like this on a forum dedicated to people out to pay for sex. This isn’t a PUA (pickup artist) forum, neither is this a self-help forum. But I’m sympathetic to you, so I’ll help you out a bit
18 was right about the time I was worried I won’t ever get laid because I was overweight, I was Chinese (in the American School), and I was heading back to the US. However, once I got there, I realized that it just wasn’t about the looks. Some of these guys are right; the most butt ugly Jew in the US probably snagged the hot chicks all the time. Why? Money. Women are attracted to wealth. I’m not saying you should just go up to a chick and say, “Hi, I’m fat but rich…”, but that money gave the Jew a great boost of confidence, because he was rich and he knew it.
Then, after I knew I wasn’t about to win the Powerball (US version of your 4D, and yes, in my ignorance, I played for a few times), I decided that there had to be something else. Living in LA, you see hot people all the time. Good looking white guys, good looking black guys, good looking yellow guys, good looking brown guys. Even the majority of chicks were hotter once you entered L.A. County. So maybe I thought if I looked better, it’d all come to me like flies to shit. I got a gym membership, went on Atkins, lost a bunch of weight. It worked a bit. I looked better, I felt more confident about myself, and more girls talked to you. But then, I couldn’t close the deal! I knew I talked to more girls. I had a bunch of girl-friends (not girlfriends) that I hung out with, etc. But I just didn’t play my cards right. So where do I go from there? I handled looking better, I got some self confidence, and I’m a slick talker, but I couldn’t close the deal. One fateful day, I stumbled across a book called “The Game” by Neil Strauss. Some of the people in this community might have heard of it.
After I read “The Game”, everything changed. I didn’t put my weight back on, but I knew that I found a great resource. Being able to really communicate your interest and generate attraction was one of those things that few men instinctively knew. I scrapped together as much about the PUA community as I could to learn the methods that great PUAs and PUG (pickup gurus) were using to great success. I learned them rote, memorized them, and then…..
I realized that the real key was being able to talk to girls, being smooth, and knowing how to build attraction. I fell on my face a couple times, I embarrassed the hell out of myself a lot. I stammered, spilled my drink, and retreated to the bathroom in shame. I would walk up, try to talk to girls, and made friends. But I didn’t make no lovers. After much practice, trial, and especially error, I started to get the hang of it. One success shocked me…..a one night stand, and I’m an Asian dude! WOW….It changed my life.
But after the 2nd, the 3rd, the 4th, and all that, nothing much about my looks have changed. I’m not famous, I’m not good looking. But I can talk smooth, I feel confident about myself, and I strive to improve my game. Just because you’ve got money doesn’t mean anything. You’re looking for some sort of acceptance from a girl who will like you for you, and not your wallet. So maybe you should think about what you really really want. You want a good looking girl? You want to get laid? You want a hooker? Or you want to change your image?
You can’t get it all at the same time, but you can certainly set your ducks up in a row. Do what you can first, like work out, lose weight, and change that mother-trucking hairdo. Once you look better, you’ll feel better about yourself. Once you feel better, you’ll do better with the girls. You might be a smooth talker now, but you can’t do it around girls because your insecurities keep popping up in your head. Take a few shots of liquid courage (booze of choice) and talk to girls. Talk to guys. Talk to strangers. Old. Young. You’ll learn how to interact with people. And then you can start learning about gaming. What to say, when to say it. How to build attraction. How to carry yourself.
But yea, it’ll take awhile. You’re better off studying a lot now, since you Singaporeans love yourself a good education. Work out in the meantime. Jerk off to relieve stress. Run 2 or 3 miles a day. Stop eating junk food. Before you know it, you’ll be 20 and you’ll be looking much better than your 18 year old self. And during this time, go out. Don’t sit and hang out at some arcade. Go to a club. See how the guys that are bringing home the pussy interact with girls. See how they dress. See how they carry themselves. You’re honestly just a really insecure kid. You can overcome this crap if you just set your mind to it.
And honestly, you expect to get good advice from people who pay for sex?
Dude……I mean, come on……
As a matter of fact, I’m willing to bet there’s plenty of guys out there who are on this forum that can’t pick up a girl to save their life without a fifty dollar bill.
u did made some straight points out there,brother,but i dont need no sympathetic from u.
ok,lets deal with this straightly.first of all,i want to make an apologize to all of the sammyboy members because of all the bullshits i have done at here,hope u guys can forgive me and let it go.
second,its all about my life.yes,i admit that im cocerned about my whole life,and i dont want my life to be a failure or get screwed up.one of the things that im concerned about is “how to get a good looking girls without of paying to the whorehouse”,thats the thing yall know.and the other one is “how to get rich”.honestly,i quited my high school when back then i was secondary 5.now, about 1 year later,im starting to concern,should i get back to the school and take my spm exam???(something like a or o level in singapore).cause i really want to be wealthy and i want to be the best one,i dont want to work under the ppl at my whole life.also my dream job is to be a businessman,but im totally dont know what kind of business is the most effective way to make me be a multi-millionaire,and i’ve read somewhere that u dont need a degree to be a wealthy human being,but i rly have no idea that “how should i get into the business world if i dont have a degree”,“what kind of steps should i walk in??“and at the same time,i’ve heard that few of the people told me that if u have a high school degree,u can go to the college and take something like “business management”.then the few of screwed up shits kept popping in my mind again.“if i have a business management degree holder,is that a better way than i starting my business without a degree holder?”,“will i be a forever employee if i finish my college degree?”,“is it too late for me to get into the college??(cause i’ll probably finish my course slower than the other people)?”
and yes,i be taking some technician course at some particular college which u can study it without a high school degree holder,but i know that i cant get a good future if i walk through that way.better yet,i dont find it interesting too.
but life is too short,i know its hard to handle up all of the problems at the same time.but i want to settle it up.anyway,can somebody please give me a few good advices that what should i do at next????how can i hit the right place at the right time???this is rly some serious business to deal with it by myself.im rly getting confuse and confuse everyday in my life.i rly put my bets all on here.
and i promise that i aint gonna make out some stupid comments no more,thx.
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Originally Posted by
pussyman72
aye young man. u should be at ur 20s right or younger… well u ask for advices from bros here pple will sure give to u but if ur thinking of making fast money and trying to hook pretty girls then forget it. dont even need to ask…
If a person really wanna work hard n earn a honest living whether u are a cleaner or a CEO. most important u must be happy in what u doing and proud of ur job if u telling me u wanna get rich then there is no such thing as overnight success unless u wanna do something bad like selling drug then nothing to said.
even doing this have a risk is whether what u want to take the risk. unless u want pple to look u down or see u up…
U can study at the same time work. work urself way up once u get ur cert u see what u can do.
I myself dont have a dip or a deg. i work myself way up spending 13yrs gaining exp and climb the ladder as a Manager. nothing is for free it all about hard works.
as for girls must get pretty girl then can ah. there is no such things lar bud. u slowly grow up then u know what kind of girl or wife u want lar. now too early to said….
chokdee krup
im not meaning to be a mafia,drug dealer or something like that.a lot of people can be successful without a degree holder.but i rly have no clue whether a degree holder can be successful a not.and if u choose a 25 years old degree holder on the street and a 25 years old without degree holder on the street,im sure that the former 1 is earning more than that with degree holder 1.im 18 by the way.
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Originally Posted by
milkshake00
Dun worry u are still young, some guys up till age 30 also no gfs and still virgin.
Well if u want to avoid that fate and if are ugly and no money, there is only 1 thing u can do to get gals. that is be
persistance
, no many how many time gal reject u try and try again. if u try 100 times sure will 1 gal be move by u.
My friend from sec school also like u, abit fat and CMI. But he is a nice guy and we all like him, and he never gives up when chasing gal. now he got a chio gf and getting married liao.
Btw i say be persistance but dun be obnoxious ok. try to be good to the gals, not all but some gals will appreciate yr thoughfulness
but my target is not only how to get a girl.i want to be a successful man in my life and i want to let my lovely family to have a good life.i want to know whats the main key.
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Originally Posted by
pussyman72
to be successful have many way it depends what u want. have a stable job earn decent money and take care ur family also consider successful.
about the degree. personally when i employ pple i dont see their certs so much. i see 3 main things exp, char, then last is the cert. but not all company will allow non degree holder to take up the job role if the job is for degree holders.
that is why study is still the best. just gain the cert and then find a better job n pay.
i tell u one thing. family value is more important then anything. u can have alot of money but no time for them then do u think u are sucessful i dont think so.
you are still young one step at a time. u had to plan it slowly of course not ask u take ur time to plan. example plan for study what u want like to do. such as if u like computers then maybe u wanna take up a diploma in IT or if u like accounts then u like to take up accounts.
After u finish study then u look for job n slowly plan for ur future.
so is “business management” has the greatest chance to be wealthy???success????earn more??the boss???cuz i personally dont think that i want to be something that require technical,skill.i want something like investment,sales etc etc.
by the way,is this a useful blog??
Wealth and Luck
and yeah,i have a communication problem too.i only have 3,4 friends in my life which i can barely talk to them.and that will screw me up in my future career .i know that marketing need to be good in communicating even thought i have a little mind of business.and i know that the importance of communication is use to benefit each other.
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Originally Posted by
gilagila100
My friend, there is NO SHORTCUT available for success …
If you want to be a businessman, then the first step is to learn the business and truly love it.
If you like selling, then be a salesman and learn the ropes first before opening your first shop.
If you like fashion, then be a fashion apprentice first and then open your own boutique.
Etc etc etc … If you go read the biographies of successful, you’ll notice one similarity. They start early and their success is the accumulation of years of really hard work.
Even Bill Gates stay up nights after nights to build his first Windows software.
Lee Ka Shing even sell “tikam” to kids before he even started selling his first real estate.
Uncle Lim of Genting Highlands was a carpenter before he got his first contract.
They all started when they were younger than you (around 14 - 16 years old). You are 18 so you probably have 2-3 years of catchup to do.
So fixed your mind on something worthwhile and work on it. Don’t keep thinking I want to be rich.
To be honest, there are tonnes of ppl like you in the world and I can’t really stand guys like this. So consider this post a favor from me. The next time you whine and ask for “get rich fast” tips and tricks, I am going to zap your points.
u mean i should go out and get a part time job so that i can see through the whole world more ???but those guys u mentioned are from 60s and 70s.i aint saying that the way that these guys got rich are useless at today generation.but now is 2000s,im sure a lot of things have changed at these days.and i aint asking for tips and tricks to get rich fast,im asking for the more effective ways and higher chances to get rich,i dont want to take a wrong step.and business is a large deal,i rly dont know how to get it started.
can somebody tell me the difference btw business management and marketing???the job that i want is something that involved investment,own business ,something like that.