Let me tell you my real life story…
When I was young, also eat a lot and become fat. My shirts buttons bursting sometimes! Not that I really that fat, but coming from poor family, i have to wear handed down clothes which are 2 sizes too small.
Most of my relatives are quite ok to do so to speak except for my family where we were on the lower end. But still, we have enough to eat and days go by. Soon I also think that I am not good looking.. and my looks turns people off… but I studied well and always amongst the top 10 in the top class.
By 18 years old, I have still not really dated and meeting girls gets me cold sweat and tongue tied ( I was from a boys-only school).
Then 5 years ago.. i discovered the solution to the whole thing… I went to Vietnam! And luck changes! All the ugly, cocky, overly demanding, arrogant Singapore girls who didn’t like me… but all the young, SYT, accomodating, sexy, humble Vietnam girls said that they could swear I must have been a movie star!
So my advise… study hard… forget even about PRC… get a good job (and make sure its really something you like to do), and find your oasis fast. And like what Chan Brothers Tour used to say… “Life will never be the same again…”
Size not the issue here lah
Me oso a little round. 1.7 and 80kg but still okie with girls around.
If fact, too much Tao Hua with Non-WL so I try not to zee siao around office.
Impt thing is to have confidence and humour + health.
Heavy set is fine but please look after health. Skinny with no health also jialat
So, dun be worried. Things that will happen will happen. I have some friends who are 30+ and still virgin with no GF. They look okie but dun know how to sian and enjoy life so girls siam them as they are boring.
Jia you lah
Fear not I think you wil be alright after you enrol into SAF University.
But I guess you tied too much of your confidence and happiness towards your looks, which is okay cos you’re still a teenager. So if you ’think’ that you won’t be happy looking this way, and if you look the same everyday, your confidence gets eroded day after day. What the bros suggested is to look inside yourself first, build up your own strength and find the part in you that makes you special. Like study is a good way, cos if you excel in this, you tend to have more choices in the future, you’ll have more chance later on in life which you can easily choose to be special among the rest of your friends.
for sure i know the money is a big thing on this society,but i just dont want to end up wit some ugly girls(no offense),and i cant wait to get a girls .
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slyer
TS after looking at ur friendster pic i find you are average looking like many of us… don’t worry so much abt your looks…. looks won’t last long… everyone will age…. career and money more impt than looks…
every gal wants a successful husband… in sg success = money
thx,bro slyer,but i got a feelin that i look worse than those ordinary people when i walk on the street,by the sightness they gave it to me,like im the ugliest thing they ever seen in their life,bro,just tell me the truth,i have a gut to face the reality,which may be ruthless ,and by anychance i can get a lil pretty girl at b4 age of 20,i know this sounds dumb ,but i dont want to get no girl till the day i get myself a high-paid job.I have a strong confidence to handle anything except my personal aspect and girl .
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Originally Posted by
ddog
Is that really your pic? If so, cut it out with rick flair and those childish nonsence and gals would take you more seriously. Work on that charm and confidence.
Also yeah study hard or make money the smart way, you’d get hooked up with pretty chics. I’ve seen pigs hitting off with 30+ babes (thats what he brags to me) with his current gf a gorgeous japanese av-like looking model. He treats her badly too but she absolutely luv him. For his money? Yeah he’s lucky his father is filthy rich.
Guys gets horny from looking at pretty babes, chicks gets horny from money jk
any problems with that ric flair’s thingy,man ?
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slyer
bro pretty gf don’t drop from the sky. u must work hard to get a nice gf. if u urself are diligent, confident and well groomed girls will naturally be attracted to u
by then u will post here and ask if it possible for those pretty girls not to be attracted to me?
good luck
bro,i know.but if look is too horrible,u still cant get no pretty lady,right ?
^i know,bro,but i just wanna know whether my look is somewhere that below average or what ??and actually i came from a decent family which can afford a good rides,branded clothes and big house.And i also have a confidence on handle everything except hot chicks.I wanna know how to let them know that im rich ????by showing them my wallet ???also how to talk to them???i have no clue what i was goin to say everytime i talk with a girl,even thought i try hard to talk to them,i was speechless after a couple of talks.And which kind of place has a higher chances to get a girl ???club???pub???or shopping center.
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Originally Posted by
Norikasan55
TS, your frienster account show you are from maysia? You look quite stylo with that sunglass leh so you are not fashion idiot mah.
Location: Pulau Pinang, MY
Hometown: Penang
Try get a maysian gf first lar.
Or you working here in sg? sorry i never really read alot on your profile. Not to hurt your feelings but If the maysian girls don’t want you, then I don’t think sg girls will want you.
Maysian girls good lar, more simple and can get kampong good girls who know how to takecare you and family. Somemore same country can understand culture better. Maysian boleh Maysian bagus.
so im look damn horrible actually ?
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colins
Perhaps you are trying to hard to show them your ‘wallet’, that probably put them off as you may be passing off as someone who is living off his parents and lack substance. Of cos, I’m guessing on this based on what you’ve written.
Maybe you can ask yourself, without your family, who are you? What makes you attractive besides “i came from a decent family which can afford a good rides,branded clothes and big house”? Do you understand the mentality of those “hot chicks”?
If you dun have these answers, your conversation with girls will probably be very limited to “what my family has”, “what my dad can give me”, “how you can shine by standing beside a rich boy like me” type of topics.
That is probably the reason why you run out of things to say after a couple of talks.
so whats more important now???money or talk skill ???and what u need to have then only can start a convo with a chick ??i thought the money will speak it all,and im not tryin to show off,bro.