hi,to all of you bros right there,the reason why im here is just because im facing the biggest problem on my life right now,hope you brothers will spend a lil bit of time of yours and read at it,thx.
Alright,im 18, never been on dated b4,and i believe mostly is because of my look,and i dont want to tell it to my parents to make them feel worry about me.90% of people in my life love to joke on my look,and some of girls even scare when they see me,and thats really make me down hardly on my life.I used to be a fat guy back of the day in primary school,then i thought that “fat” might just a problem that makes me look ugly,then i slimmed down(from not eating for 2 weeks),back to the fat,but everthing is still the same,everyone is still joking on my aspect and it really sucks.Even when i was visiting a prc,the attitude of prc was kinda bad to me too.I have tried a lot of thing that will makes me look better
And i know most of you all will say that confidence and study are important,thats why i be focusing hard on my study to get a good job at future so that it wouldn’t be another flop at my upcoming life.And im pretty sure that i have a confidence too,Im not scare at communicate wit people,hiding away from the crowd.
heres the pic of mine :
http://img165.imageshack.us/img165/2721/image134ri0.jpg
and here are my few questions:
i)is there a ways that can makes me look better without plastic surgery ???(by growing a goatie,change a hairstyle)
ii)does my look really horrible ??
iii)by any chance i can get a decent looking gf on my life (u maybe say that im selfish,but thats a men’s wish) ??
Your answers and advices will be strongly remembered and appreciated,I’ve been struggling from this problem for almost 5 years,and its my daily nightmares,thx.
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Originally Posted by
The_Rules
hi,to all of you bros right there,the reason why im here is just because im facing the biggest problem on my life right now,hope you brothers will spend a lil bit of time of yours and read at it,thx.
Alright,im 18, never been on dated b4,and i believe mostly is because of my look,and i dont want to tell it to my parents to make them feel worry about me.90% of people in my life love to joke on my look,and some of girls even scare when they see me,and thats really make me down hardly on my life.I used to be a fat guy back of the day in primary school,then i thought that “fat” might just a problem that makes me look ugly,then i slimmed down(from not eating for 2 weeks),back to the fat,but everthing is still the same,everyone is still joking on my aspect and it really sucks.Even when i was visiting a prc,the attitude of prc was kinda bad to me too.I have tried a lot of thing that will makes me look better
And i know most of you all will say that confidence and study are important,thats why i be focusing hard on my study to get a good job at future so that it wouldn’t be another flop at my upcoming life.And im pretty sure that i have a confidence too,Im not scare at communicate wit people,hiding away from the crowd.
heres the pic of mine :
http://img165.imageshack.us/img165/2721/image134ri0.jpg
and here are my few questions:
i)is there a ways that can makes me look better without plastic surgery ???(by growing a goatie,change a hairstyle)
ii)does my look really horrible ??
iii)by any chance i can get a decent looking gf on my life (u maybe say that im selfish,but thats a men’s wish) ??
Your answers and advices will be strongly remembered and appreciated,I’ve been struggling from this problem for almost 5 years,and its my daily nightmares,thx.
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Brudder, your topic asks for “a help” but here you got 3 questions leh. So which one you want me to give you ADVISE on?
And the link to your photo is dead. You took down your photo after much thought, is it? Wise move. Don’t be so naive lah.
Brush up your English, speak with confidence. Girls are part suckers for sweet words. When you are able to express yourself confidently and accurately, you are likely to exude a charm that may impress the people around you.
Save your money lah, plastic surgery doesn’t mould the real you inside. You may find yourself a gf if you go for plastic surgery. But if you are an asshole inside, she will still leave you. Worse, if you have no money left after plastic surgery, how to find gf? Once she knows you are penniless, chances are she’ll look elsewhere.
You are still very young. Lots of things to learn in your ‘upcoming life’.
Haha. No offence ok?
you have must confidence in yourself 1st ma…
yeah study hard and find a good job… got money got honey heheh
Bro elth is right. You just need to have confidence. How can you conquer girls if you’re already defeated by yourself.
Take a walk along the busy streets of Orchard. Open your eyes wide. See the number of chio bus with fugly boyfriends. If others can do it, why can’t you?
Girls love with their mind, not with what they see.
As long as you keep yourself decently clean, speak with confidence, learn to relax and crack a few jokes at the right times, your chance will come.
Personally I think that looks is not the only thing that matters. For example, Sean Connery… He is not that handsome but is being seen as one of the most sexiest man alive.
Its the confidence in you. Find something to love about yourself. Perhaps you can go to serve in those old folks home and etc… Not asking you to sian the volunteer workers in there. The purpose is to develop a positive self esteem. I can assure you that there is still a chance for you to get some decent looking girls as wife. I mean there are girls out there who get themselves attached to Danny Devito’s lookalike. So what is the issue?
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The_Rules
Your answers and advices will be strongly remembered and appreciated
Should be “Your answers and ADVICE….”.
“Advice is a non count noun. You do not add an “s” to make it plural.
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tungsten
Personally I think that looks is not the only thing that matters. For example, Sean Connery… He is not that handsome but is being seen as one of the most sexiest man alive.
Its the confidence in you. Find something to love about yourself. Perhaps you can go to serve in those old folks home and etc… Not asking you to sian the volunteer workers in there. The purpose is to develop a positive self esteem. I can assure you that there is still a chance for you to get some decent looking girls as wife. I mean there are girls out there who get themselves attached to Danny Devito’s lookalike. So what is the issue?
Bro, agree with you. Look really not everything.
hey man. i give u the best advise that u will ever get. don’t think so much about girls now. dun worry about yr looks. Just spend all your time in studying. Study Study as if your whole life happiness depend on it. Be a top student and next time, u can get all the girls u want once u have a good job and money. Sure win
Hey, ah boy(TS)…, you are not telling us the truth eh?
3rd paragraph you say focus on studying and next paragraph all worried question about your looks.
You are still very young at 18, study is the most important thing now.
spend more time to study hard and get a good cert n find a good career… once u have $ girls will come attracted to u like bees