yes i understand what you mean. like i said, from now, i will no longer respond to hostile responses. i will simply ignore, and choose to reply to civil responses only. this would probably be a wiser move. thanks for your comments.
What a furore over a self-professed “FAQ”
I agreed with Colin, Intel etc on the fact that your tone was too haughty.
Having said that, when I was new, my tone was a little too Kei Gao too..
Back to the topic, my 2-cents is that all girls are different and each case is unique so what may work or seem like advice in some cases could counter-fire in others.
Well, the best policy would be honesty. Being honest with your KC and YOURSELF… Know what u are getting yourself into and dun start blaming heaven,earth and everyone in between if you kena conned.
There is no fairness in love and no rule that says you will get back what you give..regardless of the race of the girl or her profession.
Love is a gamble so…we all take risk
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TS, just chanced on your previous thread (minus FAQ annexe, even if ill conceived). And saw bro Ocean11’s concerns were realised by your this sequel:
Do take heart (and heed) to both bro Collin’s and Intel Ops’ sensible replies. No words of wisdom, but if I can just add:
*Planning for a field trip is fine, but there’s such a thing as over doing it (ref your previous thread). If only in real life, everything goes like clockwork.
*Intel garnered from bros here is ok, but best teacher is still experience in real time. As some1 mentioned, some of us were only armed with odd FR and came back wiser (or disillusioned)
Finally, humility (aka courtesy) is evergreen here and think in most places. Lots of truth in saying nobody owes you anything. As you conceded before, perhaps it’s just your manner of expression comes across strong or different.
Dont quote me like this, else people think I old bird preaching. Everyone have their fair shot at experiences. Anyway the days armed with a simple FR and venture into LOS days are over. Nowadays info are aplenty and one can choose to plan to the dot but at times I think being earnest is one thing over zealous is another.
I was wondering when is bro ocean11’s going to post anything here, and here you are. I think he is the most helpful in contributing towards bro everywhere’s trip on that thread. I always felt drained after replying to that thread, I mean look at the details being posted by everyone esp ocean11!
guys, i kindly request you all to read carefully my previous thread. i have stated very clearly,
I DO NOT WISH TO VISIT THEIR FAMILY
. and
i have never once stated that i wish to have a relationship with the WLs
, where did you guys get all these from?!
and read carefully this thread, the ‘questions’ are the very questions i personally asked in my previous thread. the ‘answers’ are what i’ve gotten out of my trip. simple as that! i don’t understand how you guys come up with strange theories and conclusions when i never mentioned those things!!
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Relax man, somebody must have started it. Not against you ok.
Eating humble pie is hard to swallow.
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Eating humble pie is hard to swallow.
either that or the nail was hit too close to home…
can’t stand these apologists
JWNY
Sometimes it is more easier for outsiders like us to see the picture more clearly. I agreed that some of the suggestions that some bros had advised might be difficult to stomach.
But all those advices are from real life axperiences that we have encountered. It is only up to you whether you choose to listen and think or you choose to believe in yourself. No right or wrong.
Sometimes, those advices can saved you from making the wrong move. Afterall, as felows samsters, we do not wish to see others had failed or trapped in the same situations as we have encountered before.
Like what I said, its your life. U make the decision but dont regret later. No right or wrong. Just as some bros had STRONGLY disagreed with what I had said about some bros wanted to marry Thai gers as wife. At the bottomline, we cant decide for you.
You can take our suggestions with a pitch of salt but it is worthwhile to think over it least you regretted in future.
Anyway have fun to yor trip in BKK if you are going.
Thai girls are generally nice, demure and easy going, of course there are those ”What lies beneath” versions which some might have come across. Thailand is a big country, likewise like China, Vietnam etc the population are scattered with different culture, habits and education level. We cannot generalize the gals simply with the miserable experiences we had and don’t forget that where we met and knew them from. WLs and FLs are here for a purpose, a reason or even a mission. We cannot impose experiences with them onto other gals who earn their living with normal jobs. Now and again, many had stereotyped local produce as hard to please, materialistic etc but we do not deny the fact there are angel of a gal among them as well.
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everywhere
guys, i kindly request you all to read carefully my previous thread. i have stated very clearly,
I DO NOT WISH TO VISIT THEIR FAMILY
. and
i have never once stated that i wish to have a relationship with the WLs
, where did you guys get all these from?!
and read carefully this thread, the ‘questions’ are the very questions i personally asked in my previous thread. the ‘answers’ are what i’ve gotten out of my trip. simple as that! i don’t understand how you guys come up with strange theories and conclusions when i never mentioned those things!!
Haiz……when will you ever learn? From your tone, it seems like you might be an army regular?