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Originally Posted by
HansomRod
But when it comes to work, you get serious with her. You talk to her with authority, and with a straight face. This will remind her who’s the boss.
One moment you are making her feel good, the next moment you keep her in check. This will give her the gift of an emotional roller-coaster that will soon drive her all crazy over you.
And when that happens… you don’t even need alcohol.
this is exactly what’s happening….during work…..it’s just work….we don’t talk about things we talked about during dinner. I also won’t touch her like how i touch her when we have dinner and drinks. It’s like outside work, she don’t mind me touching her (non sexual) but during work, it’s like no no to her.
maybe she thought like that it’s ok…..we are “drawing the line” lol.
I m not sure if she will be crazy over me cos she has a BF in NS. But she seldom mention about her BF or maybe just call him her friend. hmmmm……maybe she’s a player…..
after a few drinks, can see she started to relax and open up a bit. ….
then we play some games and started to do tequila shots…..after a few shots….can see she getting a bit high….
then she started playing with my dog and we take some pictures together. while browsing thru my phone photo gallery, she saw my topless pic….you know those kind with towel wrapping around waist with another pic taken sometime ago to show the progress of my workout.
i quickly took the phone away from her….not that i don’t want her to see those photos, but I don’t want her to see the photos of the women from massage spas that i downloaded
then she climbed all over me saying she want to see my topless photos and I gave her a peck on her lips….she momentarily pull back….like stun…I told her see photo for what, want to see see the real person here….
she asked really ? and started unbuttoning my shirt….can see she like high from the drinks but not really drunk….told her like that not fair lah….i also want to see
…………one thing led to another and she was on my bed……
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Originally Posted by
AaronKwok123
she asked really ? and started unbuttoning my shirt….can see she like high from the drinks but not really drunk….told her like that not fair lah….i also want to see
…………one thing led to another and she was on my bed……
…….ok this never really happen…..I was actually fantasizing about it , how we have sex…
Anyway, that was the first time she came to my place…..and naturally, there was a second time and easier to get her to come too, don’t even need to ask. just told her we have dinner and straight to my place
Man, she is like a drug, making me want to do more and more so I constantly have to think of “scenarios” during our interactions so that i can touch her or get close to her without being seen as an lau tiko trying to get fresh.
Like she likes to play with my dog and groom it…..then I will “show” her how it’s done by holding her hands to demonstrate. she didn’t retract her hands or anything.
Then i also asked her to hold my dog so i can cut its nails. the angle was weird, so i go behind her , hugging her while demonstrating
she didn’t struggle or move away. So innocent and fun lol
She might be young, but I think any woman would guess what I was trying to do. Could she be that innocent ? or was it the alcohol that makes her less inhibiting or maybe she think I did those things because I was high from alcohol, so it’s excusable
I mean if she tells her friends what we did and what I did, alarm bells would have gone off. Some girls, if they don’t like what you are doing, it shows in their body language. You will know if they feel uneasy. Again it could be the alcohol because when we got back to work, she is her usual self, avoiding any physical contact and businesslike.
A bit confused now…..hope I don’t go crazy or I may have to fire her in order not to become crazy.
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Originally Posted by
HansomRod
You are thinking too much, bro. Maybe you are suffering from analysis paralysis. Remember the Nike slogan, Just Do It.
I suggest you read the MCO story by ggbro (Not trying to hijack this thread). His situation was similar to yours at the beginning, but in the end he did manage to fuck not 1, but 2 pussies.
Bottomline is this, if the gal is willing to go to your place, its most certainly game on… unless of course you screw it up by being too nice.
Just do it also must think of consequences lah.
If she gives signal, confirm just do it liao. Like if she initiate the meeting and coming to my place. I am the one initiating and she could be just following “orders” since I m her boss.
she knows i am married with kids and stuff, but she never mention about them when we are out. like how she never mention about her boyfriend. but when her bf comes to pick her up, she also never intro and hope i don’t see them together. not sure why ?
We have to see each other everyday at work, can you imagine if i made the wrong move ? it will be super awkward. but she is under some kind of contract, so she cannot actually quit immediately if she wants to.
since there is no mutual attraction ( i believe ), if i tried to make moves on her she might think I am a sleazy married man.
Got bro mentioned not to use alcohol to make her drunk cos it will get me in trouble. So I thought why not I am the one who gets a bit drunk ? And when I make a move and she rejects, I can say the alcohol intoxication is making me do stuff . and we both can save some face
having said that, even without alcohol, it will still get me into a “me too” situation .
she is very young, turning 21 soon……are girls this age that innocent ? I have the impression that may be the case, easily “bluffed” kind . I remember when i was that age, i was clueless about getting women into the bed while my friends were way ahead lol.
If any players got this kind of situation maybe can advise. lol
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Originally Posted by
LordVader
I think you go home PCC sua.
I actually did that after I sent her home
she is usually all buttoned up during work, cannot see much can only beo her ass. but that day during our drinks session managed to see her downblouse and even saw her nips cos of her loose bra
I wonder how i refrained my self when I saw her downblouse and nips
Sometimes you need to go with how you feel about the situation. Sometimes you know you are ready to strike, sometimes you just feel that it’s not the time yet.
not all girls are the same. some just need time to warm up, some are very straight forward. Last time the women I met , mostly from the internet or wechat they are very straight forward. i practically don’t have to make any move, they auto come on to me. there was one PRC who practically tried to rape me after having a few drinks.
This one is different and may make things a bit complicated due to our situation. we have a role to play during office hours and act the part and after office hours, she is slowly opening up to her actual self after a bit of drinks especially.
I got her to my place again after work recently but this time, I just offer her a cocktail. just a bit of alcohol and can see that she completely relaxes herself, not high or anything like the previous times.
I did the same thing, hold her hands and a bit touchy feely and wasn’t rejected or her feeling uneasy. This time round, I even got to touch her butt which usually I can only view and fantasize from afar and upclose. man they sure are bouncy
of course I didn’t just touch them, but have to create a situation where it didn’t feel sexual when i did it.
I am sure there are some women who don’t mind or actually wanted to try fucking a married man, I am not sure if she is one of them, yet
she is someone whom i value very much in my company and I don’t see her as someone i want to have sex with only. that’s why i am holding myself back. Or I can just do it and then totally regret it later.
Phase 2 heightened alert is here again.
very good excuse to dabao again.
for one, she never refuse when I offer her alcohol. she totally change or should I say open up when she has a drink or two. most of her inhibition is gone but she is still very self concious like when it comes to zaogeng. there is nothing much to see but she is still very self concious. this is even after a few drinks and she is quite high. unlike some girls who is totally let go.
under normal circumstances, as in if she is not my colleague, i would have gone in for the kill…..but for some reason, even though I am a bit high from the drinks, i didn’t act. she simply didn’t give any green light.
with P2 HA for the coming weeks, there will be more chance to jio her again.
P2HA is like a blessing in disguise. We have become closer (physically when off work) and more chance to interact too since we can’t Dine out….but only Dine in at my place.from once every few weeks to practically once every week.
She’s openingup or feel more relax when we are together with minimal alcohol. I have also become more physical with her. Now I can put my hands on her thigh, on her shoulders, on her waist. On some occasion I can even hug her from behind while pretending to teach her to do something, gave me a hard on.
It’s funny how I can be physically so close to her when we are off work but in the office, she will try to avoid me physically, like when we are walking past confine space, she will try to avoid touching me.
Sometimes when playing with my dog ,I will stand behind her holding her waist and smelling her neck and hair….she didn’t show any discomfort at all. Unfortunately I don’t think she is feeling anything.
Sometime she wear loose clothing , I can see her down blouse. As she has a small A cup, she couldn’t fill up.her bra, there is a big lobang between boobs and bra , can see small boobs and light brown nips. Feel like putting my hands inside and do some tuning…
I don’t know where this is heading….not sure it’s because of my marital status, I m holding back. Couple with the fact that we are colleagues and I m so much older. The physical intimacy that we have is actually not normal.
She is not rejecting my physical touch, thigh , waist, shoulder , places where you would not put your hands if they are friends or colleagues.
My touch is bordering on the sexual side now. Likeconectinecshw was wearing a low back dress where her back was exposed all the way near her waist. I saw her bra peeking out and asked her if the bra should be showing on such dress. Then I just unhook her bra lol and said it should not be showing. She did not show any displeasure nor black face.
Then I touch the front of her boobs or bra saying normally this kind of dress there is some form of padding. Again she didn’t show any displeasure.
I don’t if she don’t know what i was trying to do or she just act blur.
Due to our age gap, she could be just behaving like a little girl and don’t think of my advances as being sexual.
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Originally Posted by
sgsingaboy
I think you can just look her in the eyes and don’t talk. See how she react. You will know la…
She don’t look at me how ? Lol
We have gotten quite close recently. Now I can touch her whenever without being creepy. I tried putting my hands on her waist and touch her bare skin no rejection. Did more intimate stuff and tried to see how she react so far just no rejection…but not . But didn’t how any reaction she wants more. So I just leave it at there. But I Need to do something to prevent her from putting me in friend zone. Lol