Dear Bros,
As some bros know, I use dating apps from my foreign work assignment/travels for ONS. Now back home since CB Phase 1, I started scanning again last week, as getting itchy again (I’m single, once divorced).
To my surprise, I “matched” with a chiobu in her 40’s. She was only using her initials, but I thought she resembled the wife of my ex-colleague, at my firm about 10 years back. I did not work with him closely, but his wife came to some of our company function (CNY, Christmas, DND). I remember she had a very nice cleavage in formal dress
I check on his Fbook page, and sure enough, it’s the same lady. She is about 165cm, local SG Chinese, early-40’s chio MILF type, senior RM at a bank.
We have been chit-chatting on the app and will meet up tonight for dinner.
Of course, I use these dating apps for hook-up, meet new FB/FWB, but let’s see how it goes tonight. She is still married, but did not mention hubby in the app, but said she is feeling is exploring more in life (bored at home maybe??)
If other bros have had similar experiences, please share. Will update bros here if there’s anything interesting to report back.
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Originally Posted by
poongko
Enjoy TS.
Remember take some photos and share with us please.
Hehe.
For now, the least I can do is share pics frm her profile with face and wedding ring concealed. TBH, I would be quite turned on & steam if my hot, intelligent wife displayed herself like this on a dating app
If I can get more good ones, I will share with bros here. Meeting her up at 7:30 tonite!
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Originally Posted by
iloveu4ever
Abit dun match leh…how come the second picture the boobs seem flatter?
Hi Bro, you have a good point since her boobs don’t look so prominent in the 2nd one (I wanted to show interested bros her legs).
Here is the same pic to show her chest fully.. I think its shows her size more clearly. I dun want to show her face when posting but I think you can see the chin is the same.
Anyway, it’s a chio pic i think
FR from last night to follow soon …. she is definitely a gem as bros suggested here.
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Originally Posted by
Xgenre
Normally the cleavage is an indicator of size in younger ladies. For older ladies, the cleavage may be a sign of saggy boobs. Seem to have some drainage but actually boob is same size but less density and sag more. Both pictures do match if you take into account her age
this is also quite true for older milfs.
hi bros, FR for last night..
Overall it was a 8/10 night, no juicy/explicit details but a 2nd date planned for this Friday
I followed bros advice, did not mention anything about knowing her hubby from my previous workplace. We’ll call her “Cynthia” .. she’s been married 15 years and is working in a senior RM role at a local bank. I’m 41, she’s mid-40’s (didn’t mentioned her exact age to me, but said started working full time 20 over years ago and married 15 years ago so I did the maths)
We went out to a wine bar after work, and she was dressed in nice, fitted grey dress, just a little cleavage, but enough to see she keeps in shape. Also heels, so it felt like she was dressed for a “date”. Her hair a bit shorter than in her dating app profile pic, but sexy shorter, flirty hair cut. She has a very pretty smile also. Local SG Chinese girl, did 2-years masters study in UK.
We had a few glasses of wine at a cbd place, and she mostly talked about her work, saying it was a bit lonely working from home during CB. She only mentioned her hubby briefly, saying his business not doing so well during CB (he started his own events business after leaving our previous company).. and she is missing travel and socializing.
Anyway, after 3rd glass of wine, got interesting, she started talking about why she joined the dating app, only to flirt and chat online because she is married, but maybe she might meet someone interesting. She said because I worked in so many places (HK, Shanghai, Beijing, Aus, KL, JKT, Europe, NY etc etc) she wanted to meet me. She said because her husband started his own business, they couldn’t travel so much (I didn’t fully understand why, but I didn’t ask further). She then said she often was tempted by men who flirted with her before CB, but never met anyone interesting, either local or AMDK. She said her hubby is not so interested in sex anymore, and is busy with his business. They have two kids, one girl one boy, both teenaged.
Anyway, after our drinks, she said she had a car in her office parking lot, but maybe drunk too much, so will call a cab. She first wanted to go to her car to collect some things then take the cab home. I walked with her, from the bar to the parking lot. We spoke and agree to meet this Friday evening (she is working 2 days/week at office, mon and fri). Just as she close the door to the car, she was standing close to me, so I lean forward, and say “Thank you” and kissed her lips. She didnt flinch and reciprocated, seemed almost hungry, her tongue was in my mouth almost right away, and we french kissed for about 60 seconds. I reached up and groped her boob, and could feel her bra, but also her tits underneath, quite full, at least a B-cup. She didn’t push my hand away
She finally pulled away from our kiss and said “I have not kissed a man for a long time, sorry if I’m not so good” … I didn’t mind leh. and happy enough to get a kiss from a chiobu milf (i also not kissed anyone long time
)
Anyway, I walked her outside the office bldg and car was waiting. I will try to escalate more on Friday and keep bros updated.
If I missed any details you want to know about , please ask ….
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Originally Posted by
shamboobbq
Nice update bro. So the meeting on Friday is at a hotel?
not guarantee, but if opportunity presents, can only be hotel.
am living at parents hdb since transfer from overseas after CB
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Originally Posted by
lotsfits80
Nice find bro. Make sure fuck her until she begs you for more because her husband unable to satisfy her.
thats the plan bro if it is destined to be!
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Originally Posted by
wantedbryan
Got kiss means most likely can proceed to sex you got a good catch.
i think we would like more flirty details during your meal, at least bring us along the ride that we never experience. maybe can learn some tips from you
hi bro, ofcourse, this is a learning place
- i hope this is insightful, much of the discussion still fresh to memory (as a copywriter i have to have this type of memory of what was said!)
When chatting on the app, I determined the general area of where she worked, and when she said she likes wine, i suggested a wine bar nearby to her workplace and asked if she likes it. also gave her three dates as options and then suggested time to meet.
we met outside the wine bar. we shook hands, as though at a business meeting, since i wasn’t sure what her feeling was, and also i’m a bit nervous (my last bang was ML in aussie, which i wrote the story here). also since close by to her office, i didn’t want her to feel self conscious.
we sat indoors, at a bar counter corner, like L-shape, so we could make eye contact, but also close to each other. general conversation M (me) and C (Cynthia):
M: How was your day?
C: Busy lah, still working from home so coming into the office sometimes more work because all my files are at home. How about you?
M: Still working from home. My company laid off some people and considering downsizing office space so they have told us to wait till Phase 3.
C: What type of work do you do?
M: (careful not to give a clue that I worked in the same industry as her hubby) I’m in a MNC marketing company, but our HQ is in Australia. I head up Asian region digital marketing from SG (bros, I exaggerate - I do corporate events and digital marketing account management as director for a few Asian clients, but do not oversee any division
) .. but for a chiobu I exaggerate a little without lying too much leh.
C: You mentioned , it seems to have taken you to many countries.
M: Yeah, I’m very grateful that they have posted me to many countries, which has been fun, but I am happy to be home.
C: That’s nice to hear! You aren’t married right?
M: No, I was, unfortunately we separated because my work took me overseas and she wanted me to stay in SG. Could not come to a common agreement (also BS - my ex was a bit crazy, wanted total control and i’m free spirity, could not agree lol we agreed for both of us, it was better to part ways). anyway, for a chiobu, never complain, always positive upbeat spin mah.
For the first hour, We talked a lot about how each of our companies were affected by cb, some stories of staff who were stranded overseas, how we both miss traveling - anything to get a feeling of common ground.
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After 3rd drink:
M: So I mentioned I was divorced, how about you? (I know her hubby is my ex colleague and low key have stalked his FBook page to see more about her, but ask to hear her version)
C: I am, but our relationship is quite platonic. We have separate lives and really just stay together for the kids and our common financial partnerships for our home and their educaiton.
M: I see, but why would you join a dating app (I find being direct is good with women once they are comfortable)
C: To be honest, I miss evenings like these. I get invites a lot from clients, but I keep business and pleasure separate. And a lot of foreign guys have flirted in the past, which is tempting but I’m not that kind of woman. I guess I just wanted to chat online, for a change of scene.
M: So what interested you about me?
C: Oh you’ve been to so many places, not just for holiday, but lived there, but still a local guy at heart it seems. I wanted to work overseas but my husband started his own business and my own work meant it was only China, Hong Kong and Jakarta for me, and Manila and Bangkok for him, maximum 3 days and all work every trip. So I admire you for working overseas.
M: Oh, just lucky with my company posting me there.
Discussion was mostly to build sense of rapport, nothing sexual tbh.
M: I’ll get the bill, it’s late for you and your family must be waiting. Maybe I should call you a cab since you have been drinking?
C: Thank you, this was a nice night, my car is parked nearby but i will call a cab, since I never drive after drinking. I’m a light weight drinker!
After I paid, we walked to the parking lot in the building. She went into her car to get something from inside and stepped out.
M: (both of us standing next to her car in park lot) I’d like to see you again, I enjoyed this evening. When is your next workday in the CBD?
C: I work again on Friday, I think I should be free after work.
M: Great, how about we meet Friday evening. I’ll text you details.
C: Should be ok. Let me know and I’ll confirm.
M: I will. And I’ll call you a cab now, where would you like to go?
C: Oh, that’s sweet, my address is *****
M: Ok, cab is coming. Thanks for your company today *leaned forward to kiss her (we both got masks on!!) but quietly lowered in the parking lot (I think rule is if you are eating, can remove
)
The cab was waiting outside the lobby and phone buzzed, and I took her up to see her off. Now we see la, friday, hopefully can progress and I can share some nice details here about cute wife Cynthia.
I pray this is helpful bros
. hope some good juicy news to follow on friday.
tk you bros. i’m taking it slow and steady like many bros have suggested. also not move too slowly while opportunity is there!
she texted me today and ask : “do you mind that my family and work comes first, so sometimes I may not have time to meet?”
I’m not exactly sure what this means, but i reply that “of course i understand, we meet when it is convenient for you”. she said “thank you for understanding”
our meet up for friday is still on so fingers crossed for a good night out and hopefully progress from kissing to fucking or at least a nice blowjob, but let’s see