- should i negotiate a price before going? e.g while they’re still in singapore?
- should i take her words at face value if she says things like ’no need pay’ or ’no need to buy me things’? or is there hidden meaning?
- in order not to be kenna ‘chop’, i was not planning to bring much money there other than for food and shopping. i also planning to bring a bit of money with the intention to give her… probably about SGD 300-500 worth, for 3-4 days of company. is that too little?
need power to up? previously i managed to up other bros leh. actually the rep points are useless, but i realised some bros insist on seeing rep points when you ask them for FL contact, so i thought might as well try to get high points to facilitate easier procurement of contacts in future.
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sammyboyfor
Some people simply cannot distinguish between a commercial sex transaction and a personal relationship.
the transaction has blosoom into a relationship
but in the end, it’s always $ involved ??? …
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everywhere
just to be clear: i have absolutely NO feelings for any of the girls! i’m just looking for some affection, be it fake or real. as long as i enjoy myself, i won’t go and think so much whether the girl like me for real or not. i personally have a moral wall to have any of these girls are potential life partners, plus i don’t develop feelings easily so i am not afraid that i’ll fall for these girls.
Just a common sense question … if you have no girlfriend and just want to try out how it feels to be to have some affection, then what makes you so sure that you absolutely have no feelings for any of the girls and won’t develop feelings for them?
please read the whole thread, esp my own posts, before replying leh. i already said i know very clearly this is not a personal emotional relationship, it’s a business transaction. but i’m okay with it, and maybe it’s a bad thing, but i’m a very cold person when it comes to girls, plus i have very high expectations for my real partners. there is no way i can ever develop feelings for working ladies, that’s why i’m almost 100% sure i won’t fall for girls like that.
disclaimer: i’m not disrespecting those girls or anything, i think they’re very poor thing and all, and they deserve better lives. but unfortunately life has placed them in such a predicament where they have to serve men, sometimes very disgusting and ugly men, for a living so i usually treat them with as much respect as i can. i think they deserve to find love, but one thing i know for sure: they won’t find it in me. so please bro, when you reply, you can safely assume there is absolutely no KC involved. thanks.
bro everywhere, we been thru this before and we know it is easy to fall, no doubt you have high expectations and you dun look down on them. Feelings is something we develop unknowingly when we enjoy the experience, we all know cigs are not good for health yet we enjoy it too much to apply logic. We know KTV is money draining but yet we find opportunities to sneak out for it.
My advice, go thru it, let go and enjoy yourself. Try and be safe while you’re at it. Come back to sg, write your feelings down in the dead of the night, and tell me what are you feeling.
Nobody is trying to judge you, but we are all men. This is something we’re similar in.
money talks first.. have u think of the reasons why they ask u to go to their house? i guess it’s money-related issues.. maybe u give them money, or they robbed u of ur money. this i cannot control u. only advice is stay in a hotel rather than her house.
its up to u to weighs the pros and cons in visiting them.
Perhaps i could share my RL experience which happen last week.(sorry threadstarter, sharing my experience here could help u a bit, PM me for more details if u need)
She is called M. i visited her when she was here several times. she asked me if i got go bkk, i called her and she bring me out partying. i was in bkk last week and i hesistate whether to called her anot, shall i stay at her house or hotel. Staying in hotel would be a better choice.
Day1:
Reach night time, called her and she said she staying in my hotel till i leave.
Thinking shall i lock some of my stuff in the safe but decided not to. jus hiong it thru.
She reached and had a good bonk and we sleep till noon next day.
Day2:
woke up with a bonk and off we go shopping and praying. and back in hotel had another 2 bonk while waiting for her friends to go partying. we party will morning and she was teasing me all the while in the disco. had another bonk back in hotel.
Day3:
check out 12pm as need to attend some business in another hotel during night time. So no place to go, she offered me her house while waiting. Mixed feelings, think will anything happen if i go to her condo. she stayed alone and choose to follow her back. had a nap with her back in her room. She offered me her house on day6 which i don’t have any place to go.
Day4 & 5: business
Day6: called her and she asked me to go to her room. Was thinking since she know i m going back, will she ask me for any $?
Shortly i was in her room, she ordered some noodles for me, we just chit chat till night time when i m going back. Till now, she didnt ask any $$ from me. i feel bad, i asked her whether she need any $$. she insisted not accepting any $$ from me. i even offered her my new IPOD player( a gift from my business) she even say no need. times flies i have to go, we bid farewell.
Overall, not all gals are bad. i did ask her why not taking my $, she said she treeat me as fren and some thai slang called FB. some will treat it as a transcation. ours has no $ invloved, she will visit me next yr and hoping me to bring her out. Advise to the treadstarter, better to stay in hotel than in the FL home. lock some $ in the safe etc. be safe than sorry. you will never know wat will happen in a foreign country.
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everywhere
so no one answered me questions huh? everyone just tried to dissuade me from going (out of concern, i know. thanks bros)… but pls try to answer the following if you’ve tried before:
-should i negotiate a price before going? e.g while they’re still in singapore?
-should i take her words at face value if she says things like ’no need pay’ or ’no need to buy me things’? or is there hidden meaning?
-in order not to be kenna ‘chop’, i was not planning to bring much money there other than for food and shopping. i also planning to bring a bit of money with the intention to give her… probably about SGD 300-500 worth, for 3-4 days of company. is that too little?
Ans: Not necessary. The gals will usually ask you to pay them what you want. Usually for me, I would pay them SGD 200/day and this excludes all other expenses e.g. food, shopping etc.
Ans: Again this depends on each gal. Not all gals are the same. Some gals really dun expect you to buy anything for them, they just want your company but these are the minority. Majority of the gals, even if they say dun need to pay dun need to buy etc, they still expect you to pay for it and buy things for them etc.
Ans: It’s always a good idea not to bring too much money so the chances of kenna ‘chop’ will be much less. But at the end of the day, you need to manage your own expenditure also.
I think that what some guys (like myself) would like to be as localised as possible whenever abroad. The experience is definitely different when you have a local bringing you around and etc. Something like a homestay vs a hotel.
I have only 2 such experiences in PRC and LOS. Both are considered GF (on my perspective only). For PRC, she expected me to pay for everything and asked me for this and that.
For LOS, she expected me to pay only when we are together with her family (and that’s only once). Otherwise, she never ask me for money, even when she coughed up 2000B for petrol. However, I zhidong and gave her whatever money incurred on me.
All in all, I will always give money where it is due and for the opportunity costs. I am not qualified to generalise but I think a PRC gal is more demanding than a Thai gal.
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Hotel I usually stay at is The Emerald Hotel which is a pretty good hotel with good food. There is another 3 star hotel beside the Emerald Hotel which I just can’t remember the name. It is about SGD 50/night.
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teebs,how much do you pay for Emerald hotel?you book direct or use online agency?