cannot said they will take you as meat lah
it all depends…
but nowadays not easy to see trusted ones
i have a few experienced during the 70s
i accompany her to her hometown in phuket
she worked there as a singer before too
when we were there she brought me to club she used to sing
introduced to me many singers there
i didnt pay for the drinks as the boss give us on the house!
then she sing a few tunes when i requested
what an experienced!
went to her grandma place in sadao
went to see her small child at satun, few hours taxi ride from haadyai
and brought me to the market near the thai/perlis border
she treated me like her husband over there
its a good experienced…you will never forget
Not all the gals are bad, it is just their life that they have to work as FLs. It would be good to see how they live over there but also be very careful on your pocket as well as your surrounding.
haha, thanks for all the bros input but you all got me wrong! you guys must be thinking i ‘fell in love’ with those FLs or what, that’s why i want to visit them. truth be told, i just want to take a short trip and enjoy the company of a beautiful lady 24/7 for a few days.
don’t worry, i know myself VERY WELL, there is NO WAY IN HELL i will fall in love with these girls. previously there’s a girl i bonked, i gave her my singapore number (she asked for it). i previously told her i will visit her, and i did indeed plan to, but end up no time to go. when she came back to singapore under another OKT, she called me ask me to visit her. by that time i lost interest alr, so i said ‘okay. tonight i go slp with you’. the next thing she said ’this time cannot just come. must pay boss money’. i straight away reply ‘i no money, cannot go’
the point of my story is, i have extremely high expecations for a girlfriend/wife, there is no way i will treat these erm… whores as a potential life partner. i’m just a young man out to have fun. i’m 101% confirm sure of that. i know some of you will say ‘i’ve heard that line before’, but trust me, i know myself very well. and i also know myself that even if they ask for money here and there, i can’t afford to give, so that becomes a moot point.
so no one answered me questions huh? everyone just tried to dissuade me from going (out of concern, i know. thanks bros)… but pls try to answer the following if you’ve tried before:
-should i negotiate a price before going? e.g while they’re still in singapore?
-should i take her words at face value if she says things like ’no need pay’ or ’no need to buy me things’? or is there hidden meaning?
-in order not to be kenna ‘chop’, i was not planning to bring much money there other than for food and shopping. i also planning to bring a bit of money with the intention to give her… probably about SGD 300-500 worth, for 3-4 days of company. is that too little?
i’m quite honored that the founder of this forum replied TWICE to my question, but i also have to ask why did you move the question here? i know it’s considered the ‘right’ forum, but i would really like the opinion of guys from the FL section because that’s where i met most of the aforementioned girls.
the way i see it, some of you guys in this forum doesn’t seem experienced, you’re just speaking out of concern and general common sense, which i appreciate, i really do. but i need to know the FACTS, from bros who have personally experienced it. thanks a lot.
some bros here mentioned don’t stay in their apartment. any particular reason why?
once again, i reiterate, i am a hot-blooded young male, and i have absolutely no intention of turning these relationship(s) into anything more than a commercial transaction. the reason i wanna visit is that i wanna go thailand to eat and sightsee, and i would love for a beautiful girl to accompany me 24/7. i’ve never had a girlfriend so i don’t know how that feels like, but i think it’ll be great, assuming i never kenna kidnap or what. at this point, some of you bros must be thinking why i no gf, i also don’t know why, but as far as i know, im above average looking so my looks is not the reason. just felt obliged to explain.
oh, how about if i go bangkok looking for FLs to accompany me for 3-4 days instead? is that better/safer? how much should i expect to spend if so?
one bro suggested i just go there to have fun, and hire FLs as i deem fit: but bros please understand, my purpose is to simulate being on a holiday trip with a girlfriend. if i go there with my own purpose to eat/shop/sightsee and only call girls when i need, then wouldn’t it be extremely sian during the periods i have no female company? that’s a rhetorical question, yes i think i would be very sian so if eventually i decide not to visit the girl, i won’t even go at all.
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MiniHawk
Not all the gals are bad, it is just their life that they have to work as FLs. It would be good to see how they live over there but also be very careful on your pocket as well as your surrounding.
Agreed..Not all FLs r bad or eyeing ur $$..
Currently i’m in bkk wif a gal..
Firstly,she didnt ask 4 any $$ after spending so many days wif me..
Secondly,whenever we go out 4 food,i would ask her 2 bring me 2 better
restaurants 4 food..But she would suggest going 4 cheaper roadside food..
Thirdly,when i told her my $$ almost used up liao..To my surprised,she
offered 2 give me $$..Which i declined..
Lastly,she told me dat i can stay at her place whenever i feel like coming
2 bkk again,dun need 2 waste $$ on hotels..So i ask her i can cum n stay
wif her anytime i like..N she ans yes..
IMHO not all FLs r bad..
bro stevengerrard, thank you for your input. may i ask, where did you meet this girl? right here in singapore?
ps: i wanted to PM you to ask, but i thought we should share this as public knowledge.
oh, here’s the main storyline for you guys to digest and let me know what you think: there’s this particular girl like whom i like to spend time with, most likely if i go i’d find her. she claims to stay in sukhumvit and her story is that she stays alone and she doesn’t work. our conversation is a bit messed up because her english is not particularly strong, but i asked her ‘if i go visit u, u work then i do what?’ then she replied ’no no no. i no work!’
then she automatically told me ‘i stay apartment, 1 person. you come stay.. ok.’
is there any loophole that you experienced samster detected?
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everywhere
…the way i see it, some of you guys in this forum doesn’t seem experienced, you’re just speaking out of concern and general common sense, which i appreciate, i really do. but i need to know the FACTS, from bros who have personally experienced it. thanks a lot.
Sorry for providing common sense answers, man. Its just that from your first post you sounded really green. I think if anyone here can provide answers to your question, they probably judge your current experience first and advise you from there.
I’ve been on few such trips before, to thailand and prc. I go prc alone as I always been going alone. Thailand, never, its more fun in a group. In overall, I find it easier to set a budget, make it known, and stick to it.
Another commen sense answer!
thank you bro. yes with regards to visiting FLs in their homeland, i am indeed green, that’s why i’m seeking reassurance that i’m not walking into a trap. so far, most guys common sense answer seem to suggest that they think i’m indeed setting myself up for a disappointment.
just to be clear: i have absolutely NO feelings for any of the girls! i’m just looking for some affection, be it fake or real. as long as i enjoy myself, i won’t go and think so much whether the girl like me for real or not. i personally have a moral wall to have any of these girls are potential life partners, plus i don’t develop feelings easily so i am not afraid that i’ll fall for these girls.
here’s my mentality when i started this thread, my thinking is a simple one - i go thailand, visit the girls, they spend time with me to go shopping malls to eat and walk walk (i don’t plan to buy much), go sightsee (i don’t usually like to sightsee when i travel with friends because it’s boring. but with a girl holding my hands doing things with me like girlfriend, i think it’ll be quite fun).
yes, i recognise that i’m trying to make a commercial purchase of emotions and affections, but i’m quite sure that since i can identify it as that, i should have no problem keeping it purely business.
bro colins, do you mean i should let the FL know beforehand how much i’m bringing?
colins and stevengerrard: i tried to up you guys, but cannot. i previously upped someone else already. i will up you guys when i can. thanks.
Bro everywhere,hw u going to up us when u no power yet..Haha..
Anyway,i PM-ed u already..We can exchange pointers thru PMs..
Thanks for trying to up me, actually no worries with that or try to do that, its kinda tough btw…
Pls dun let the girl know how much you bringing. Its like waving a red flag ard stating your worth. Only thieves and robbers are interested to know how much you have. ‘Make it known’ means saying ‘I am on budget trip here’. This gives your friends the idea that you are not a golden goose.
You see, the problem here (for me, dunnoe about other bros) is that I dun know your friends well enough to tell you she’s leftist or rightist, and its tough to pass judgement so in order to create a good advice, I can only tell you the safest action you should do. Most people dun live in thailand, and cant tell if its safe to take up the offer to stay at her apartment, for instance. You have to make the call and we advise the safest measure. Different girl means different ways to handle them. Just dun trust even the most sincere-looking ones.
The amount of money to set as budget was already stated by bros up there, for my case, I call them up to say I am going, and thats all. I already say I have other plans, and after meeting, take it as it come along. For example, I meet this girl so she can introduce me a good restaurant, then proceed to ask her come together for drinks. In the meantime, she can ask a friend out to accompany the guys without a girl. We just enjoy ourselves bar hopping and all the way into the night. GF feel, yes. For all of us. Whether they can bring the girl back or not, up to them to sian the girls. We never say we ask you out for a good bonk and ask how much, its just not the way. I find that much more enjoyable than to visit fishtanks.
At the end of the day (or in the mornings), I’ll just give whatever I feel is reasonable. We spent 500SGD altogether for the 3 girls with us for 2.5 days. I treat them well, little presents here and there, and my friends followed suit. Whatever misc expenditure, like makan & drinks, we split among our group.
Sorry bro, I’m going away now, cant reply you further until next week. Pls take care.