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Originally Posted by
jaccy
one of my friend he is having an affair with a girl. As he is in mid40 and is some kind of wealthy, there is a girl from sugarbook who initiate the reaction. I already advice him but he not listening.
he got caught up with infatuation and the feeling of being young again
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Originally Posted by
papabear
Thanks for sharing. I have been suspecting that going from one girl to another girl - will not fulfill you and you will never feel happy, but rather damage yourself, and confuse your bodily memories. Spiritually - need to do a lot of work to reverse the damage.
I guess it is true from your post. I use the word “suspect” because I am a virgin, never tried before. But I can’t hide the fact that I like girls. I guess the only way for me is to get married and have only 1 girl, or DIY my whole life.
That said, I wish to add that I had some spiritual experiences that makes sex look puny. But I am not able to repeat such experiences at will. I have been doing yoga ever since. Maybe will have such experiences again, or go beyond the body and sex.
You want to make sex look puny, yet you are taking sex too seriously. Just do the deed at least for once and try to red-pill yourself. Ironically, most men who achieve spiritual enlightenment in sexual desire are those who have fucked many many women because the experience will tell them that it’s all the same. In the end, it’s your brain that’s doing all the hard work. The orgasm, the dopamine hit, the rush, it’s all in the brain.
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Originally Posted by
iluvbreast
Yes and no bro, my ex tried, but didn’t managed to get, bottom line is she continued with her career (and even gotten promotion during the marriage), she didn’t gave up her job or suffered any loss of income for the marriage, so no maintenance.
House I contributed a lot more so she only got 30%, which then I bought over her share, so yes she gotten an extra $90,000. I console myself by saying ok lah that is 30k a year for the marriage, sigh no choice lor.
30k a year! damn that’s expensive. now i know why some people die die don’t want to marry. the risk is not worth the reward.
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Originally Posted by
ColinLiew
Sometimes home cook food is boring. KEKEKEKE
if get caught how? what’s the contingency plan?
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Originally Posted by
piichai
You are the thread starter, other than asking and listening,
what have you share? More asking? What’s your agenda?
No experience yet, learning from others.
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Originally Posted by
piichai
Sure bo?
Your questions one after another covers almost every area of infidelity.
And give the answerer no way to SIAM.
Want juice story or an answer or light to your own situation but dare not say?
Situation is almost a year no sex due to separation as I went overseas to work.
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Originally Posted by
someday
Or writing a news article?
No la. Really, it’s just curious.
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Originally Posted by
alleycat
I’m a married man of 12 years. I’m 41. Wifey and I used to fuck like rabbits before marriage and after 2 kids, suddenly the passion stopped. It could be because of hormones after child birth.
I have tried to reignite the passion for 3 years but nothing fruitful. I have also explained to her the need for intimacy in the marriage, but seems to have fallen on deaf ears. She refused counselling too.
Her goal now is to climb the corporate ladder. And when she’s not working, she indulges in Netflix till 4am, whether she has fever, flu or menses. When I tried asking for sex, she’d say no due to fever, flu or menses.
Truth is, I was a very geeky, “law abiding” guy before marriage..straight as an arrow. That time I often believed the value of being “faithful” and despised the people who goes out to “play”.
As years rolled by and i gather more life experience, I realised a lot of things are not black and white. And i started realising why we men will go “eat outside”.
I only had sex with wife 3 times in last 4 years. I think this is a very common stat in Singapore.
What really triggered me to justify me “eating out” was that one sentence wife said to me, when I asked for intimacy and sex ..
“I only agreed to have sex with you because I wanted kids.”
I have tried commercial sex. But as it stated.. its commercial feel.
I’m on lookout for potential FWB in same boat as me. Married but lonely etc.
If you’re asking me why not i seek divorce, I have ever asked my wife twice on this, she refused (for the kids). besides i’ll lose everything. And honestly it doesnt really make sense since almost everything else in my marriage is fine, except the intimacy and sex (though its a very big deal).
Wow, that sentence is really heart-shattering. How can someone so selfish and only used you for sex? Like no feeling of intimacy or love at all.
Thanks for sharing bro. Sorry to hear what happened.
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Originally Posted by
lipe
Bros who eat ouside, be aware of the pitfall of Singapore Woman Charter.
https://singaporelegaladvice.com/law...omens-charter/
Thanks for sharing bro.
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Originally Posted by
alleycat
Thanks bro.
My closest friends of 20 over years have advised me to file divorce. They know my wife as well.
Thing is, is it worth filing divorce because there is zero intimacy, when everything else is going on fine?
If zero intimacy but everything else is fine, can’t he just openly discuss with his wife to let each other eat outside?
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Originally Posted by
M45Singapore
I completely agree.
It is almost like we are treated as a bank both for sperm and flats.
Goddamn it
to be fair men also treat them like sex dolls
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Originally Posted by
fatuncle
Totally agree. Economy is no good but lawyers are still earning big bucks, why donate to them?
Save ur money for FL/ML services.
I’ve been a monk for don’t know how many X years.
We still live under same roof just that not on the same bed. At night she will watch her china shows while I surf my porn or SBF. Usually I will DIY in the living room or toilet. If I am lazy I will do it next to her before I sleep.
We still go out as family for shopping buying household stuff.
The only reason we are not going seperate is because of her religion. Whereas I am doing it for my children’s sake.
just wondering, if you get a sex doll and do it in front of her on the bed, would she be aroused?