whoever did this before? or doing now?
can share feedback and experience?
why you do it? (why you stopped? if you did previously)
how long have you been doing it?
who are your other partners? (sugar baby/mistress/FWB/ONS/FL/pros)
any regrets?
is it safe (physically and emotionally)?
given a choice to restart, would you have taken the same decision?
will up my humble points if i like your story
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Originally Posted by
Bigbluebird
You need to read more of the stories shared by the other bros in here. Then all your questions would have been answered actually.
many old stories liao, buried deep in SBF
if can bros gather here and share share
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Originally Posted by
deffboy
Bro,
Don be a free rider lay…
i don’t have story yet, that’s why want to learn from other sifu
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Originally Posted by
prepaidcard3821
Hahaha this thread is getting kinda interesting.
so far no input though
Thanks for contributing! Up you bro.
Yes, actually I think all men need to change their approach to dating. When starting to get serious, need to set the expectations clear to the gf (or soon to be wife), that men have needs and have to be fulfilled.
Like negotiate contract or something. 1 week once, 1 week twice, every 2 days, include blowjob, CIM, COF, etc. Thing is not every man will cooperate. Some are very simp and just listen/agree to whatever the girl says, then suffer in marriage. But if every man also makes this a practice to negotiate the sexual needs first, then women have no choice but to accept this is the norm, and all marriage comes with fulfilling husband’s sexual needs.
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Originally Posted by
itguy2008
I help TS to start the ball rolling la.
I am married for 12 years. From year 2 of marriage onwards, I start eating outside.
ONS, FWB and FB - mainly no paid sex. You may be able to guess why. It is not really the sex that I need more of companionship that wife not able to provide any more.
Why? My GF after married becomes a wife for less than 3 months. After that got pregnant. I lost both my wife and my gf. She became a mother. Until today, I still sleep on a bed with my 2nd boy (6 years ago) in the middle of two of us.
Does it give you enough reason?
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Originally Posted by
sbftiankon
Hi even jacky chan said 我犯了天下男都会犯的错！
does it mean people should not get married at all
all just freely sex with everyone
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Originally Posted by
mikestc
Bro,
I feel for you… same here with my ex wife…
can share your story bro? maybe other bros can relate to yours as well
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Originally Posted by
itguy2008
I always tell my two sons. If you want to be rich, stay single.
Very wise. I agree.
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Originally Posted by
178noobnoob
Given the current situation, i dont even think nego will works.
Before marriage, everything was good. Know getting married already. Things start to change. Still can fuck. But she now got alot more opinion.,
Base on my own experience, i will advise to all bros here:
-if your GF/Wife-To-Be is very competitive, doesnt like to lose, i suggest you to drop her and find another one.
-if you realise she start to join alot of whatsapp or telegram group, best is to drop her also.
Tha’s what happen to me. Before married, everything was good. Once she start joining those group. That’s it. Point of no return.
Now she want divorce.
What are the contents of those whatsapp or telegram groups? I’m curious.
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Originally Posted by
itguy2008
You will be surprised at what women discussed behind our back. From what bag you get for her as a wedding anniversary present to where you all go for holidays. Women compare all these. Later on when got children, they compare kids result, where you bring kids and her for holidays. Never ending one.
Really sounds like women we should dump!
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Originally Posted by
itguy2008
Never. Don’t even dream of that. My kids know how to answer me now. They know that there is this thing called a Woman’s Charter.
That day my wife just had a shock when my son insist on carrying on her grocery bag. It is very heavy for him but he still insist on carrying. Not because he is filial. His reason is that woman are a weaker gender. That is why they need the woman’s charter to protect them. Until we can remove this charter, then never talk about equality in gender. When I heard his reply, I feel like laughing.
Where did the kid learn all that??
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Originally Posted by
newbie22
Real life story here.
Long post ahead. So I shall start with the moral of the story first. My advise to you is, dont start. And if you have already started, then you must always remember to fuck and forget and only fuck those that you pay. Remember this, the most expensive fucks are the ones you dont pay. Most importantly, NEVER, I repeat, NEVER EVER, put your emotions into the game.
I have been with my wife for more than a decade and together we have a kid. From the fifth year onwards, i started to eat outside. I started with whores in geylang. I remember my first time in geylang like it was yesterday. After that, I started to get addicted to going geylang. From once a month to twice a month eventually once a week. The reason I go for my weekly geylang fuck is because I met a girl there whom my heart started to flutter for her. We have such amazing sex and we had such chemistry that towards the end of her two years, we fucked raw. Yes, I raw a whore.
After she went home, I carried on my fucks in geylang. However, I felt empty. I crave that emotional fucks that I used to have. Slowly, I went to MP and started flirting. I didnt just want their pussy, I want that emotional attachment. I crave that fluttering of the heart when I meet a girl like how I used to have for my wife and later that WL in geylang. I tried many MP, I tried many WL, more than half of my monthly income was spent just fucking and massaging. But still, I crave that emotional attachment. Most of them are just after money, they do not have that feeling for me. So from sex workers, I moved on to fishing outside of the sex industry.
And out of nowhere, when I wasnt even looking for her, she appeared. She’s not a sex worker, just a normal working class citizen. From the moment I met her, i knew it. I knew it was love at first sight. We started talking and we had great chemistry. Both of us like to sing and we sang our heart outs in the car. After a long day, we decided to check in to a hotel and i had the most passionate sex I ever had. I was so in love. She is beautiful and she is great in bed, and boy when I say great, I mean… REALLY GREAT…
Not long after, she officially became my mistress. She knows that I am married and she doesnt mind. The reason she gave was because she loves me. You know that fluttering feeling I told you about? It came back. We started to have sex everywhere. In the car, in handicap toilet, staircase, you name it, we did it. I was so blinded in love that I fucking went overseas with her lying to my wife that it was a business trip.
In the end, as the saying goes, all things come to an end. And not just the relationship with her, but my marriage as well. My wife found out about her after a series of events and all hell broke loose. I know its a cliche to say this but really, you never know how much you love someone until you lose them. As I am typing this, I can tell you that yes, I do love these three women in my life, but I love my wife the most. More than the whore, more than my mistress. What have I left with now? Nothing. Absolutely nothing except a depressing life which I have thought of countless times to commit suicide.
So let me repeat what I want to tell you. Dont start, its not worth it. And if you really want to start, then fuck and forget. I wish you well, stay safe.
Wow. I give standing ovation to your sharing bro. Thank you. And please don’t commit suicide, there are still things worth living for. You can still help needy people and make a difference in someone’s life.
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Originally Posted by
itguy2008
“The court can order a man to pay maintenance to his wife upon divorce, separation or annulment of marriage.”
Search for this under woman’s charter.
This provision has always been there to protect the weaker gender. In Singapore, prenups are not enforceable in and of themselves. This is because marriages in Singapore are governed by a combination of written laws and the principles established in court decisions (“Singapore’s Matrimonial Laws”).
So if the wife change her mind, when two person divorce and want to claim half the house even though she may not have contributed a single cent to it, she is entitled to do so.
lol… so it’s like paying maintenance for sugar baby except without any of the sugar.