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Reaper
eeerrrr…you lie to her….she also lie to you…so whats there to feel awkward about???? khong hieu……..
OK lah. Now I sort of get what you guys are saying lah. So I haven’t done anything. Good that that brother blue_swatch chatted me yesterday evening and I missed the deadline for gift ordering. Hee…
Now thinking back, Lan has probably lied more to me than I did to her. Now I’m just wondering what to do when I bump into her in future. Like what magicafe said, Lan will take it as nothing has happened and may even come up to me to try to con me again. And I was actually expecting her to keep a distance coz she’s hurt… I had been associating her with a decent girl.
Then again, it might be a good idea to let the Queen steer clear of the Bui Vien area when we visit in future. I can’t imagine what would happen if Lan happened to serve us when we dine in her restaurant! What do you guys think?
Lan looked at me with a quirky smile. “You sick huh?” she teased me as she gave me a poke in the ribs. “A bit!” I replied. Lan responded with more pokes.
Me: Actually this morning, when I woke up, I felt a little sick. I had a bit of runny nose.
La:
Sau a!
I did have a little runny nose in the morning and I was terrified at the prospect of not being able to smooch with Lan. Imagine I had waited so many weeks for this day and I was to come down with flu. Indeed, I had been hoping that Lan would be well – she had a habit of falling sick regularly – and also that she wouldn’t be having her mensus when I visited.
Lan whipped out the Samsung phone that I had given her and called her mum, amid my protests. She wanted me to say hello. As I uttered "
Chao ba! Ba co khoe khong?
" I found that I had run dry of things to say. The old lady, of course, chatted excitedly with me in Vietnamese, seemingly asking me questions. However, all I could say was "
Toi xin loi! Toi khong hieu!
" I felt embarrassed at my inability to conducted even a simple conversation. However, Lan was more than satisfied that I had tried.
Having braved the usual afternoon traffic, we finally arrived at Lien Ha Hotel. Lan claimed that this lodge was good as it had “big rooms” that “I like!”. Well, looking back, that only went to show that she had been sleeping around, didn’t it? When I had tried to probe about her knowledge of this place prior to the trip, she had claimed that she had a friend working here. Lan and I got out of the cab.
Lien Ha Hotel was nice. In fact, it was one of the nicer-looking places on Bui Vien Street. The photos here on
this blog
(scroll to the middle, look for DAY 2) really did it justice. Unfortunately, I didn’t get to see the cute receptionist featured on that website. Lan had already booked a room for me so the guy at the reception handed the key to me without question. As I realised that my feeble Vietnamese didn’t quite lead me anywhere in my short conversation with him, I quickly uttered a "
Cam on anh!
" to finish off the talk. For a while, nobody budged. As I wondered what everyone was waiting for, the friendly guy asked for my passport. I thought Lan’s ID, which she had already handed over to the hotel during the booking, was good enough. Apparently this girl-friendly hotel still needed my document. I quickly handed it over and made my way up the stairs, Lan trailing me.
Soon, the porter, Lan and I were in the lift. I looked at Lan, “You said you have a friend working here. Where?” She pointed to the porter. Hmmm… I thought she meant she knew someone working at the Front Desk.
Our double room turned out to be heaven. It was huge! For US$29 a night, we had two Queen-sized beds in a large room, a safe and an attached bathroom that housed a bathtub with what looked like a massage showerhead. A complete set of toileteries was also provided. I would have stayed here had I known of this place earlier. Mondial Hotel charged me US$45 a night for a scrawny little rathole with lousy airconditioning blowing out of a 80s-era unit when I last visited in September. Locations make a world of difference!
Lan and I did not hug each other like a kiss-starved couple when the door closed behind us. Nor did we bonk like rabbits. However, we did lie down and kiss. Lan said she was tired. As she lay there listening to her MP3 tracks, I started my laptop and played the Vietnamese language courseware CDs that I had been using in the past few weeks. As the speaker went "
Xin loi ba!
" and "
Chi cho hoi, Pho Tran Hung Dao o dau?
“, Lan laughed. This was so elementary to her! I felt so silly. It was like I was learning ABC but I had a good laugh myself nonetheless. We played around with Viet phrases a little more, like asking where the restaurant where she worked was located, before Lan showed me some pictures she had taken of herself and her friends on her mobile. Most were outdoor solo pictures but there were a couple of indoor ones. The one that attracted my attention was one of twin peaks. Yes, it was a nude shot of a girl’s breasts. Lan claimed that this was a picture of her girlfriend’s bosom when they stayed together. I pondered about what she said. Did she really stay with a girl? Maybe she had stayed with some guy and that bugger had shot a picture of Lan herself. But no, Lan claimed that the picture indeed showed her girlfriend. Oh well…
I was getting a little itchy down south. No bonks thus far. As I indicated my disappointment to her (“I come to Saigon to see you, but you sleep!”) she consoled me, “No. Now I tired, I sleep. But tonight and tomorrow, no sleep, okay?” With that, Lan went into rest mode. Minutes ticked away. Just when I thought it was the end of the world, Lan sprang out of bed and headed for the bathroom. “Shower…” I knew from my past experience that she was getting ready for action. “Lan, I shower with you…” I said. “No! You wait.” “Lan, please… You shy huh?” I pleaded. “Yes!” Duh!
Lan entered the bathroom and locked the door securely behind her. Five minutes later, she emerged with only a towel and panties around her and made herself comfortable on our bed, abandoning the towel in the process. This was exactly what she did when she brought me to the unnamed hotel at 4:00am on my previous trip. Topless, save for panties, hiding under the blanket. I wasted no time in getting myself washed up and ready for the war ahead.
Finally I was under the sheets with my loved one. We hugged and kissed like there was no tomorrow. Her warm, little body really felt good on mine. Her frame was just right for me. She was about 1.6m in height and slim. If she had Cup B or above breasts, she would have been perfect. However, hiding under the blanket provided me with unwelcome heat.
Me: Very hot…
Lan: You hot huh?
Me: Yeah… You not hot? (The blanket had been discarded by now)
Lan: No, I cold.
Me: Okay, I raise the temperature.
I proceeded to up the temperature by two degrees and watched as the colourful lights on the airconditioning unit danced their way around the number display. I didn’t know they had such cute things in Vietnam. Lan and I were back in each others’ arms, cuddling each other. "
Anh yeu em!
" I declared to my lover. Lan responded, "
Em yeu anh!
“, accompanied by a giggle. I wanted more action.
Me: Lan…
Lan: Yes?
Me:
Toi muon an cai gi do!
Lan:
Anh muon an gi?
I pointed to my dick. “Lan, you eat this okay?” I pleaded. Lan shook her head. I pleaded with her one more time. Giving me a CFM look, she climbed over and gave me a BBBJ. It was heavenly. I like to see girls’ faces as they suck me, so I held Lan’s long hair and threw it behind her shoulders. I called her name and enjoyed that fleeting glance of her as she looked at me, my dick in her mouth. Next, I felt like getting into a superior position. I pulled myself up from the lying position, knelt on the bed and got Lan to blow me again. Once again I threw her hair behind the shoulders so I could see her face. Shiok…
Next, I got Lan to lie down and worked my fingers on her pussy. As usual, she was dry. I had the bad thought that I might not achieve anything again on this trip. Surely this wasn’t happening? I gave it a try anyway. I had no condom with me then and Lan herself had not insisted that I get one. Fingering her pussy, I asked her a question.
Me: Lan, I go in, okay?
No response.
Me: Lan? Can I go in?
Lan: Up to you…
I braced myself for the task ahead. I tried to poke the dick into the warm hole but it wouldn’t go in. It didn’t help that Lan had her eyes closed, as usual. I remember the frustration I had then, trying to enter the gate which wouldn’t open, only to find the host almost asleep. “Lan, you’re sleeping again.” I would always tell her. But she would always respond, “My eyes close, but I no sleep!” By the way, Lan pronounced “sleep” as “si-leep”.
No matter how I tried, I wasn’t able to penetrate Lan. It was just as well anyway, for I didn’t have any protection on me then. I would try again later that evening. At least I had gotten a BBBJ from her. After a little rest, it was time for dinner. Lan indicated that she would bring me to the restaurant where she worked. Good. I wanted to verify that she was indeed working there rather than at Bar Stop.
Me: Lan, you cook for me, okay?
Lan: Okay. But now, me go home, change.
Me: Okay.
I got up and got dressed.
Lan: Where you going?
Me: Huh? You going home to get changed, right? I’m coming too…
Lan: No! I go home. You wait here.
Me: Why? Can’t I go to your house with you?
Lan: No. Tonight, cannot. Many many people. Tomorrow afternoon, okay?
Me: Okay, okay. How long will you take?
Lan: 15 minutes.
I grudgingly agreed. I thought 15 minutes was reasonable, judging from the fact that she lived not far from the hotel. Actually I thought her absence was timely as I had promised the Queen to call her around this time. So off Lan went. That was 7:30pm local time. I took the opportunity to make a quick call back to Singapore, but not before turning on the TV to provide some “authentic” background noise. 7:45pm came and went, with no sign of Lan returning. Once again this girl was taking her own sweet time. Didn’t she ever have a sense of urgency? I took the opportunity to unpack my luggage and also to check out the wireless Internet connection. I managed to get some help from the Front Desk staff, who conveniently peered at his tabletop notes holder for the network ID – talk about security! At 8:45pm, I logged in to this forum
and posted my first message since I arrived in the country.
This is the one.
At 9:30pm, a full two hours after Lan left, there was a knock on the door.
Thanks Thom_07, haha_123 and MrDevil for keeping this thread alive.
The update from me is that Lan and I are off. Yes, I took you fellow brothers’ advice and refrained from apologising to Lan. No point doing that, when she herself had lied to me (in fact, she had lied to me more times than I did to her, though my single lie was a damn big one!). However, I did feel bad about the nasty SMS that I sent her last Monday. So I took the liberty of saying sorry for those messages – and only those things, not for my earlier actions.
From a dormant state, she sprang to life immediately. Lan said sorry too for not contacting me and tried to keep this potential sugar daddy relationship alive. During our phone chats, I told her while I had lied to her previously, I also knew she had lied to me and that I wanted us to forget everything and just be friends (I was hoping to make her my FB). But for two days she kept insisting that she had not lied to me when I knew she did (I shall dispense with the details here).
So now the status is, we’re off. I had given her a chance to redeem herself and I had given us a chance to be friends (we could still meet and have fun in future and I could still pay for her meals and shopping and dance) but things didn’t work out. I will move on. MrDevil is right. No point burning the forest because of a tree. But I do have to make a concious effort to avoid Lan’s restaurant when I visit Saigon with the Queen in future.
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Originally Posted by
MrDevil
Even if you need to return frequently, you don’t need to tie yourself down too fast, too early. Just enjoy the sweetness of the moment, there could be plenty more SYT coming your way. And it is never bcos of luck or fate. If you explore further long enough, you will start to understand why and how you could get lucky or fated to meet one every other night.
Yes, brother MrDevil. From Lan’s episode, I realise this myself too. I too had been naive in thinking that for once in my life, I got lucky and managed to bed a SYT. Only after this sad episode did I realise that we Singaporeans are potential sugar daddies to girls in poorer countries. No wonder I looked so attractive.
Which also means to say that now, though I am richer and stronger in experience, I’m also very sad. So, I am not that genuinely attractive after all.
How could I have compared myself with brother hardon and Dhornyboy, who were genuinely lucky in love? Sigh… 赖蛤蚂想吃天鹅肉!
Morning Tomahawk brother
wah so early wake up ah?
haha is glad tat u hav sort out ur things and able to act rationally in the situation wif LAN.
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Originally Posted by
Tomahawk
Yes, brother MrDevil. From Lan’s episode, I realise this myself too. I too had been naive in thinking that for once in my life, I got lucky and managed to bed a SYT. Only after this sad episode did I realise that we Singaporeans are potential sugar daddies to girls in poorer countries. No wonder I looked so attractive.
Which also means to say that now, though I am richer and stronger in experience, I’m also very sad. So, I am not that genuinely attractive after all.
How could I have compared myself with brother hardon and Dhornyboy, who were genuinely lucky in love? Sigh… 赖蛤蚂想吃天鹅肉!
But Tomahawk brother, u do hav ur own attractive points. This kind of thing cannot compare de. Some guys jus hav the luck, while some guys dun have..It is like sum ppl are born wif a spoon in their mouth, while others have to slog out their guts to work and work throughout their life.
We jus ought to be contented wif the things we had. Any good things tat come, we treat it as a bonus.
Thanks lah, brother longwinter. You may be young but you talk sense. You are much wiser than some kids out there (no particular reference to anybody in this board!). I will tread carefully in future.
By the way, you’re early too. I come to office very early everyday… thanks to the “garment” for their very thoughtful ERP initiatives.
Ok, time for my daily dose of Tiếng Việt!
Hi bro Tomahawk, I’ve been following your real life story feeling much emotion stirring within me as well. I guess you are a very sensitive man who look for emotional bonding with a clear definition of roles in relationship. In a foreign country where our definition of stereotypes doesnt match that in singapore, we tend to suffer the short end when what we expect is not what we get. Maybe on the surface, it does, but under the ‘water’, there is much difference created by our cultures and values. That is why we always get nasty surprises what our girl friends behaves very differently from our expectations. Its like groping in the dark, sometimes we lose ourselves when we grab the elephant’s tail and insist that it looks like a snake, we lose ourselves because it strike at our confidence.
Dun believe that you’re a lesser person because Lan treated you this way. Lan is just another girl working on keeping herself afloat in the streets of HCMC. In HCMC, where you’ve too seen their lives, this is how young girls make a living, even if her character is different from her crowd, it still means that she need to behave like them. She din grow up in singapore, how can we expect her to share the values we have?
Personally, I do think she likes you, possibly even more. While you may not have any commitment to offer, she have to balance you and her survival, which is why she acted so unpredictable when you’re away, and totally comfortable when you’re there on your second trip. Reading into your text, there have been many chances for her to display true colours, I think she came out well in those circumstances, and that is possibly why you tend to trust her.
Maybe she is good, maybe she cheated, but brother, its all to do with our lives and backgrounds. We think differently, our priorities are different and our needs are definitely different. So dun expect same outcome, in fact, expect a lot of confusion between what you perceived and seen.
I’ve been in many relationships while i was in china, some good some ok but I realised I attracted almost the same type of women. They wanted the same thing from me, not money, but time. What was your stereotypical role for Lan when she met you? I already think its amazing she din treated you the way she did. She din want money from you, she was confused and quiet, she showed you how she hooks up a guy. It shows a lot what’s on her mind.
I hope you come of this experience learned and strong. I’m sure there are a lot of memories and plentiful emotions, moving on means enjoying the memories and looking forward to more of those. I’m sure you’ll get much better when something else distracts you!
Thanks for reading this longwinded post. Hope it helps.
Post more. This is one thread that I actually follow very closely. Updates will be good if there are any after what you posted halfway
Hi Bro Tomahawk, CONGRATULATIONS TO U!!!! U have finally woken up!!!!
When Lan was openly flirting with the 2 Ang Mos at Bar Stop, and then went back to hotel with the younger Ang Mo, leaving u behind at the Bar Stop without saying good-bye, I already sensed that something is not quite right with this girl. If I were u, I would not want to see this girl anymore!!!!
Anyway, you have finally realized that you are just a sugar-daddy to her. Besides you, I’m sure that Lan have many more other sugar-daddies. So why should you risk your family happiness, in order to satisfy her material needs? If you are just looking for a good-time with an 18 year old syt, there are plenty of them at Geylang. Notice that if you have the $$$, all the girls will call you ‘shuai-ge’, even if you happen to look like a toad. Just bonk, with no strings attached, so that you won’t get hurt emotionally.
Just to share with you. I have a friend that frequents China for business. He has many gfs in places like Chongqing, Shenzhen, Shanghai, etc. All the girls knew right from the beginning that he is married, but because they are either single or divorced, they are very willing to accompany my friend whenever he travels to China. So my friend gets company, and bonks of course, and he reciprocates by paying for the girls’ meals and shopping. It is a win-win situation for both parties with no strings attached.
Bro Tomahawk, I’m glad that you have emerged stronger from this episode. And bcos of you, many brothers out there can learn from your experience and not fall into the same trap as you did. Thank you, brother.