Thanks burzum for your comments. I hope you’ll be able to speak to your girl again.
Just an update here. I’ll be travelling to Saigon again next weekend. I’m feeling damn guilty now. In the past, I had only gone to HCs and flirted with girls on chatlines, etc. Even when I went overseas, the furthest I would go would be to extend my official stay by one night so that I would be able to go “partying”. The last thing I wanted do would be to scoot off on my personal holiday, leaving the Queen and the kid at home, and not forgetting troubling the parents and PIL to come over to help look after the kid in the meantime.
This time round, I’ve actually creating a fictitious work trip, along with a fictitious, mysterious project that I’ve to work on. To make myself not feel so bad, I do have a conference that week to attend in Beijing, but I’m skipping the first two days just so that I can be in Saigon. Luckily that the subject matters to be covered then aren’t so relevant to my area of work, so …
Anyhow, Lan is very excited about my upcoming trip. She misses me a lot and can’t wait to see me. The other night, she sent me an SMS while she was at work (which seldom happens as she’s a frontline staff in a restaurant), “When you coming Saigon? Let me know. Need to boot a room.” I wasn’t sure if she meant that she was going to get a room on my behalf. Then, over the past few days, we were chatting her about which hotels were girl-friendly and which were not, etc, and I felt consoled that this girl who knew local conditions (and who could communicate with the hotel owners) would be doing it. Yesterday she informed me that she would be bringing me to this particular hotel in the Pham Ngu Lao area. She said it had nice, big rooms, etc.
She also promised to bring me to her restaurant. In the past, she only said would let me try the food there. Yesterday she actually promised to do the cooking just for me.
(For those who’re curious, while she’s a waitress, she does help out in the kitchen when things get busy occassionally)
By the way, Lan’s mum is in town now. To show my sincerity towards Lan, I have asked to speak with her, if only just to say Hello and How are you. If all goes well, I will be speaking with her in a matter of hours.
I’m in one of the hotels on Bui Vien Street now. Lan’s feelings for me are real. I’ll tell you why later. I don’t deny the possibility of her two-timing me, but she does feel for me and believe that I’m the one for her.
Yesterday, all day I didn’t call her. This was different from the routine, daily call we had. Then this afternoon, at Changi Airport, I told her that sorry, I was sick, and was going to the doctor, so maybe I would try to come to Saigon next month instead. She got so upset, and told me how she had booked a room for me and told her mum and friends about me and now I abandoned her just like that.
Anyhow, I eventually told her to pick me up from the airport as planned, and she did, with a big bouquet of roses (she already told me her plan yesterday). In the cab, she suddenly whipped out her phone and wanted me to say hello to her mum, despite my protests. Her mum was so excited to talk to me. I wonder how she’d react if I had told her that I was only interested in bonking her daughter.
As for the action bit, I managed to get her to give me some bj. No penetration yet, for she was a little dry. Also she loves to lie back and close her eyes as I work on her. She doesn’t seem to be the type who’d take the initiative. And I was actually hoping for her to rape me.
It’s now 8:45pm. We’ll be going out for dinner and adjourn to Apocalypse Now. Hopefully the alcohol will make her horny later tonight.
For those of you who are still with me on this thread, so Lan and I went for dinner – late by the way… she took 2 hours to dress up at home and meet me when she told me 15 minutes. Then we went to Apocalypse Now and returned to the hotel for some bonking.
As usual, she laid down and relaxed and I thought it was game over again. But she suddenly sprang up and went for a shower and I knew that was the sign that she was getting ready for some action. Eventually, I managed to get some bj and bonk her once.
After the session, she found out about the Queen and refused to talk. For the first time since I knew her, she actually shed tears. Now it’s Day 2, she’s still on the bed and there’s cautious optimism that it seems like things are back to normal.
Thanks for your advice, brother
oldcar
. I’m not quite sure if Lan still works at Bar Stop. It’s very strange, because over the course of the past two days, everybody tells me she’s a nice girl who had no boyfriend till I came along and so on, yet I had that experience from two months back that still leaves a bitter aftertaste.
You know, just last night, we were at Apocalypse Now with her two “sisters”, plus the French boyfriend of one of them. That guy, who’s in his 50s, has been with that one sister for 8 months already, and has known Lan through their cheonging outings for 6 months. He noted that Lan is a nice girl who only stays with her 2 sisters, never soliciting men like many of the women in the disco do.
Today, Lan actually brought me over her home where she got a change of clothes. I was introduced to her neighbours (the upstairs unit of the shophouse contained many rooms, with each room housing a family) and while I was seated there as I waited for her, I realised how humble a background Lan had. If this man from Singapore married her, even an HDB flat would be heaven by Vietnam’s standards. You should have seen how run-down and dilapidated that place was. Unfortunately, I’m cheating on her.
Then, we visited the luxurious apartment of her “sisters”, those whom she had introduced to me last night. The French guy had rented this place (US$2,500/mth) for himself and the two sisters, who welcomed us with hearty chicken pasta. As I chatted with the sisters about Lan, I felt more and more guilty about myself. Now I’m really beyond doubt that Lan’s feelings for me are real. She’s put 100% of her feelings into me, even to the extent of introducing me into her private life. When one of the sisters asked if I would marry Lan, I said, with some form of guilt, let’s see how things go. After all I had only known her for two months.
By the way, dinner last night was held at the restaurant where Lan herself works as a waitress. See, she has now even shown me to her boss and colleagues. Now I really don’t know how things will turn out when I break up with her in future. As the whole world crashes down on her, this long-distance relationship with the good Singapore man will seem like a very bad dream.
At the Ben Thanh Market today, I was prepared to face some music when I told Lan I needed to get some baby clothes. They’re actually for my kid but I told her I was getting them for a colleague’s child. These two days I had reiterated to Lan that I wasn’t married and she was my girlfriend. To my surprise, Lan didn’t have any comments.
Back in the hotel, I made sure I bonked Lan after our sleep. I only had one condom left (I tried to do her this morning but I ejaculated too fast… no chance for penetration) and as I wanted to save it for tonight (I’ll be leaving tomorrow), I did her raw.
Know something? In between our kisses and sweet nothings following sex, Lan called her mum and got me to say a few words to her. The poor lady on the other end of the line didn’t know that as Lan was talking to her, this good guy from Singapore was molesting her daughter. I was fondling her up and down for a good while.
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blue_swatch
Of course she is treating you like a BF and King. If you ask me, even if she knows you are married, I probably think she would still wanna take her chances and hope things change and she can ultimately become your OC, or you will send her money from sg while she keep this current relationship with you.
Yes, I completely understand what you’re saying, brother
blue_swatch
. That’s a good point. Her real feelings for me probably has some motive behind it. Maybe this has got to do with the fact that I last month sent a brand new Samsung handphone to her (will talk about that seperately if you’re interested). She knows I genuinely care about her. Yes, in a way she’s my FB, but on the other hand, I really like her too.
Now that you’ve said what you you said about sending money, maybe I should just take the chance huh? Let her know I’m married and this will stop her from calling me inconvenient times. This is what’s happening with Tingting in Shenzhen. While I’m able to manage the two relationships quite nicely, it gets a little dangerous at times. I have had a few close calls at home.
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blue_swatch
For a relationship that developed the way it did for you ( i been following
) Trust me, she is prepared for the worse. End of the day, you will still go back to your wife and kid and remain that way.
Care to explain? Why do you say she’s prepared for the worse?
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blue_swatch
Seperately, if u will be in HCM in early january we could meet up. Cheers!
OK, will take note of that. Honestly, I don’t know how many more projects/trips I can come up with. It gets really tiring and a bit dangerous (what if the Queen happens to talk to my colleagues?). Not to mention that I have to clear my own annual leave in order to do that. I may well just wait for the next official work trip to Saigon…
It’s now 8:35pm here in Saigon. Lan just finished her shower, and I got the scare of my life when she had a brief peek at my laptop! I quickly switched to another window… And she thought I had been doing my email. *phew*
Anyhow, we’re going for makan at Highlands Coffee after this, then adjourn to Lush disco. If any of you happens to be in Saigon now, and see a slim, young and fair girl at Highlands Coffee (Opera House) with a Chinese guy, it’s probably us.
Actually, I did wonder to myself why this girl knew the hotels so well. Yes, I have thought of the possibility – maybe even the fact – that this girl has been following men around. While I do believe that she now treats me as THE boyfriend – since I’ve confirmation by way of my chats with her mum – I do believe that she may also be hooking up guys at Bar Stop or some other places when I’m not around. Or even if she doesn’t do it now, since she had me, she might have done it numerous times in the past.
What I’m intending to do is to break off with her in a subtle way. No, I won’t go to the extent of telling her about the Queen. Dun wish to break her heart. I will just say that it’s hard to maintain a LDR and all, and since I’m not able to be physically with her, we may as well just end the relationship. Telling her about the Queen is as good as admitting to her that I’ve been cheating on her. In the past 2 days, she kept asking me if I was lying to her. Since she’s playing games with me, I’ll do the same to her.
Anyhow, yesterday she told me that over the New Year holiday, she’ll return to Hanoi and take the opportunity to make a passport. Then she’ll be able to come to Singapore! Of course, on the surface, I pretended to be happy, but inside I was like
! I will need to break off with her before she flies down!
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Wah put long line, catch big fish ah!
The fox tail is out, ladies and gentlement… start your engines
Siao liao loh… The last thing I want to do is to let her catch the Queen and me makaning or shopping while she’s in town. Imagine I admit that I’ve been cheating on her, either on the spot or even before she sees us. I’d probably get a good slap with the Queen looking on. That’s why it’s important for me to break off with her before she comes down. At least I can say that I got to know the Queen only after we broke up.
Brother
usmjordan2
, I was like you, never having gone to Vietnam, till I went for my first time in August. That 4D/3N work trip changed my impression of that place forever. Prior to the visit, all I knew about Vietnam were the Viet girls in JC. Now that I’ve gotten close to one girl and I’ve had a look at the life of locals close up, I know Vietnam has so much more to offer.