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Originally Posted by
pe1964
Bro mwong
From what I read so far - note pls don be offended
- Yr love/feeling is stronger than her n she know it if not she won’t be doing stuff to hurt u ! Giving excuse like u make me do it / not trusting her / make her pek chek etc is nothg but excuse
- u sound like a dog on her leash w her holding her V card as a treat
- she sound like a physco I mean who in the right frame of mind would let some1 film her showig her face doing a BJ or she’s just an very open minded person as long there’s no penetration all other are ok…. !! not afraid of it being leak out ??
- she don seem to be able to face up to her guilt jus don want to talk about it ! I wonder how will she react when the same happen to her so far from what I read u seem to realize two wrong don’t make a Right but she sure pushing u to yr limit
Whether to con’t or not is up to u but if yr R/s is giving u more harm than happiness better to let it go ! To con’t then u better hope for the best but BE VERY PREPARE for the worst as well !
See this as an outsider ask yrself when u can’t control how she love u like u do !
Q - can u accept / reject her way of showing her love to u ?
i can accept her the way she show her love to me. i would reject if i am comparing her love to me and my love to her right? so its better not to compare as i feel that theres always more love from one to the other.
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Originally Posted by
pe1964
U can accept the way how she show her love to you ! need to clarify
- Specify to u yes or also to RP in term of her sex act whenever she claim u made her pek chek ? no right ! She knows is wrong n u don like it but still do it n she not willing to break up w u ! perhaps waiting for u to made the 1st move ?? idk
Ya Comparing is not the way to go as the saying goes
- 人比人 气死人 hope my Chinese still ok
So the Q here as in my reply
Is the r/s giving u more harm or happiness ?? only u know if can tahan ok if can’t u know what to do I mean for the long run of this r/s !
Just note don give up the whole forest just becos of 1 tree ok !
Btw Merry X’mas n keep us updated
got what u mean, thanks! for the advice and also from other bros and sis here. Will take all your good advices for consideration.
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Originally Posted by
gtan1980
Actually, I am in quite similar situation than you but just that I am married and I cant give her commitment.I have a married gf with me for 2 years plus. She left her husband last year and soon going to divorce. Just half a year ago, she tell me that she is going to look for a single full time bf to be with… I cant stop her as I have no reasons to say no… I cant bear to give her up… I fell in too deep already until, I am even willing to accept her having another guy after me… we still exchange texts, date once a while though lesser, but I cant help to keep comparing the love she had for him and me… Now we our rs is in the rocky state… But I just cant bear to let go… I do know how it feels….
I dun get u…pretty confused…. u r married and u can’t give who commitment? ur wife or third party? because shes an intruder if u’re married. And she is married too? just that shes getting a divorce and what abt urself? still loving ur wife or getting divorce soon too? she left her husband last year and until now still “soon going to divorce”? i think the situation is very different bro…
sorry all, have been very busy lately and something happened. Will update everybody when i have the time. sorry for the wait again.
Sorry for the long overdue post and delay bros and sis, busy with work, quarrels, sadness, anger and everything in between.
Lets take a step forward from my previous story about our holiday trip for a while because I just happened to find this in her phone.
I still love her and trust her, sometimes it really makes me wonder if its better for me to trust her fully and not look into her phone or track her.
i still believe her, when she said shes going out with a friend(rp or not)…
Thats what i did and maybe thats not a good thing because she started to know this guy and things started to get out of hand. one fine day she just told me shes going overseas with her friend because she deserve a holiday after all the hard work she puts in. And i said ok, not stopping her and let her do what she wants to avoid any quarrels and any sort of arguments.
maybe i feel that its better for me to know what she is doing somehow, i donno
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Originally Posted by
Abcdefghijklmn
You can hang on with her, if you want to have a share on the pussy.
Seem like that guy has sex with her.
Or you could just move on. In life, there are many imperfect things. It depend on what you want
But don’t do revenge porn. Cause there is existing law against revenge porn (unless you want permanently avoid Singapore.)
no revenge porn or whatsoever bro, like i said, no real names will be mentioned here and for people who request for the photos etc, i will also not entertain.
So for the bros and sis here, just enjoy the story be it real or fake, up to own belief.
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Originally Posted by
reflexk
Oh so they went to overseas trip to Kochi.
Kochi, India or Kochi, Japan?
Anyways, like how the bro above mentioned, you could be in serious trouble if you share stuff which could be interpreted as revenge porn.
got it bro, just in case people misinterpret it, removed
hi all, nothing much to updates. sorry for the wait. Its all over…
Just 2 screenshots from one of the videos:
She told me she went back home but her location is at a different place.
Thank for hearing me out guys. Letting out my frustrations, sadness and everything inbetween and reaching out to u guys…
Like most of the bros and sis said, Its time to move on…
thanks for the concern guys and sis, everything is all good.
nope not able to go out. shall stay home. stay safe everybody and thanks for listening
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Originally Posted by
10019999
At least you know the truth. Although it is painful, it is still better than not knowing. I am surprised that guy actually send the picture to you.
no bro, i found it on her phone, remember i got the tracking device? even though i chose not to look at it but i am glad i did.