- The accessibility of porn to children
- Availability of eccentric sexual material
- Availability of violent or cruel material
- Availability of material involving children
- The accessibility of porn to children
- Availability of eccentric sexual material
- Availability of violent or cruel material
- Availability of material involving children
- Raising false expectations about sex and body image
- Exploitation of models and actors
- The tendency of the internet to encourage solitary sex
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I was unquestionably satisfied with my present sexual disposition, and Connie had just openly demonstrated her elation with her recent climax. We could not, however, overlook the needs of our hostess, Maude. After all, she was perched at the end of the sofa with legs wide open. My artillery piece was temporarily but definitely dismantled by Maude’s magnificent blow job. It was entirely up to Connie.
Our new sex partner was indeed a trooper. She quickly regained her composure and slowly crept up between Maude’s legs and up to her upper body. She latched onto the first breast available, and promptly began to nurse Maude’s more than ample breast like a starving puppy. Maude embraced her head with loving care and held her close.
Then Connie moved farther up until she made contact with Maude’s lips. She embraced them with equal vigor and tongue play. Soon both women were showing signs of labored breathing and fondling of the first magnitude. Their pussies’ were evenly matched, and they were making every effort to grind their clits together.
I had moved from the sofa to an upholstered chair across from the girls’ playground so I could get a better view. From my new vantage point, I saw mounds of female buttocks working hidden crotches together and generating the sounds and smells of unbridled sexual arousal. Four sizeable breasts were mashed into an unrecognizable heap, and just above that were two mouths fiercely stoking the flames heating this event to boiling.
When the girls realized I was off the sofa, they immediately moved into a 69 position and delved into each others’ crotches. I realized I was witnessing for my first time female intimacy elevated to it highest level. The participants were obviously oblivious to their surrounds. They had traveled to the depths of each others’ valleys, and were actively reaping the harvest of abundant bounty.
I sat across the room with my tool hanging between my legs unable to inspire any level of engagement, but there was a growing yearning evolving in response to the all nude, all female coupling before me.
END OF ACT 05
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its Sharing Time again…..
Porn and relationships
Experts say porn has become a huge factor in relationship breakdown.
In the last few years a remarkable change has taken place in Britain and many other countries.
In 2011, huge numbers of men and women are looking at explicit sexual material on the internet.
Statistics indicate that sex is by far the most popular search term on the web.
And recent American statistics show that:
- every second, 3,075.64 dollars are spent on pornography
- every second, 28,250 users are viewing porn
- in the US, a new porn video is completed every 39 minutes.
However, there are increasing worries about the availability of porn and the degree to which it demeans women.
Many sex and relationship therapists are now concerned about how porn can skew what people expect in their own bedrooms.
Many women are
anxious
and upset about being asked to do things within a sexual relationship that they feel are extreme and unnatural – but which they know are activities that their partners perceive as normal because of seeing them on the internet.
These activities are likely to include the man ejaculating onto the woman’s face and
anal sex
– both of which are now seen as ‘routine’ by some men who view porn.
Nowadays, there are a number of women’s groups on the internet who are strongly opposed to all porn. They feel that it’s insulting and degrading to all females. One correspondent told me: ‘Porn turns women into anonymous meat.’
On the other hand, many women in sexual relationships will – on occasion – quite happily watch some forms of porn with their male, or female, partners. And a growing number of women who are single, or away from home on business, will access porn themselves in order to
masturbate
to gain sexual relief and have a good night’s sleep.
So, there are wide differences in how people feel about pornography, and it seems likely that there is going to be more and more debate about what porn is doing to our society.
In December 2010, the magazine Psychologies asked, ‘Are teenagers addicted to porn?’ The article, by Decca Aitkenhead, is disturbing. She writes, ‘The average child sees their first porn by the age of just 11. Between 60 and 90 per cent of under-16s have viewed hardcore online pornography, and the single largest group of internet porn consumers is reported to be children aged 12 to 17.’
And on 6th December 2010, the Government announced that an independent review would be established to advise it on how to address the commercialisation and premature sexualisation of childhood. That review, headed by Reg Bailey, Chief Executive of the Mothers’ Union, will report with recommendations in May 2011.
Furthermore, in March 2011, the BBC will be putting out a documentary about porn, presented by the former Home Secretary, Jacqui Smith, who, you might remember, tried to claim for a couple of her husband’s porn videos off her parliamentary expenses.
jz sharin,
since Twinkle in the Twilight Act 05 ended,
(forgive me if the story finish abruptly, i type as it was found)
i shall continue with Sharing Time:
Porn and Relationships
there will b sum re-cap on wat was written previously
(its rather enlightening, meaningful if we tried some tactics mentioned,
especially recent years, almost everybody r into porn or NSA [no-string attached])
jz sharin,
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loneyheart
Very nice post Bro torch man
Upz u my humble 3 pts
Pls return fav if can
Torch Man upz u……
hope u reach 600 pts soon…..
Cheers from Stories of Fantasies
jz sharin,
its Sharing Time…
Can porn be part of a normal relationship?
Our answer to that question would be a qualified '
yes
‘.
There is no doubt that many couples experiment with the use of porn as an aid to perking up their sex lives,
for example by sometimes watching an explicit DVD together.
And sex education videos are often arousing as well as informative.
Also, a lot of women like erotic stories.
Some females prefer to read alone to get themselves turned on.
Others like their man to read to them in bed.
So for some couples,
using pornography and erotica works well.
jz sharin,
its Sharing Time….
How women see porn
There has always been a difference between men and women where porn is concerned.
Men tend to be turned on by things they can see, while women seem to prefer the images and fantasies they have in their heads.
For this reason, women often don’t enjoy the sort of porn that men usually like. If the people on the screen don’t appeal to them, they don’t get turned on.
Women can also feel uneasy and inferior about the bodily ‘perfection’ of the women in porn. This can put them off sex, rather than turn them on to it.
A woman can feel threatened by her man’s enjoyment of these images and quickly feel that if a man is enthusiastic about porn, he must be losing interest in her. This is often not the case at all.
Whether women like it or not, because porn is so available, a lot of men are going to view it.
How men see porn
Statistics indicate that many men like porn of some sort or another. Their arousal is linked to images, and from their teens they are likely to masturbate while looking at pictures of female bodies.
Lots of men use porn for quick masturbation – and this can happen even if they are in a sexually satisfying relationship. Some women have a problem with a man seeking solo relief, but huge numbers of normally-sexed men do this routinely.
Men will often say that porn-assisted masturbation is intense, uncomplicated – and relaxing.
They also put it in a separate compartment: porn is just an ’extra’ that has no impact on their feelings for their partner or relationship.
Men in general do not view porn or solo sex as a sign of infidelity.
jz sharin,
its Sharing Time again…..
What problems can porn cause?
There are unfortunate consequences from the new, widespread availability of porn:
There is an enormous amount of sexual material on the internet that should not be seen by children. Yet, as the Psychologies study clearly shows, youngsters can and do access it at the click of a mouse.
If you have kids in your home, make sure any computer they use is fitted with a filter that prevents access to adult material.
A quick web search will return sites that most people would find upsetting. They cover topics like incest, coprophilia (sex involving faeces) and zoophilia (sex with animals).
Unless you are compiling a textbook of sexual psychopathology, these sites are best avoided.
There is a lot of porn on the net that glorifies violence, particularly against women. There have been suggestions that some of this could provoke men to harm their partners or commit rape.
Some government is looking at ways to curb this sort of pornography.
Sadly, it has become clear that a large number of men (and a few women) are fascinated by the idea of sex with minors.
Much research is going on to find out if the availability of ‘kiddy-porn’ is increasing the incidence of paedophiliac behaviour. Stay away from anything that mentions the words ’teen’ or ‘young’.
jz sharin,
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Torch_Man
its Sharing Time again…..
What problems can porn cause?
There are unfortunate consequences from the new, widespread availability of porn:
There is an enormous amount of sexual material on the internet that should not be seen by children. Yet, as the Psychologies study clearly shows, youngsters can and do access it at the click of a mouse.
If you have kids in your home, make sure any computer they use is fitted with a filter that prevents access to adult material.
A quick web search will return sites that most people would find upsetting. They cover topics like incest, coprophilia (sex involving faeces) and zoophilia (sex with animals).
Unless you are compiling a textbook of sexual psychopathology, these sites are best avoided.
There is a lot of porn on the net that glorifies violence, particularly against women. There have been suggestions that some of this could provoke men to harm their partners or commit rape.
Some government is looking at ways to curb this sort of pornography.
Sadly, it has become clear that a large number of men (and a few women) are fascinated by the idea of sex with minors.
Much research is going on to find out if the availability of ‘kiddy-porn’ is increasing the incidence of paedophiliac behaviour. Stay away from anything that mentions the words ’teen’ or ‘young’.
jz sharin,
Erotic material tends to give men and women impossibly high ’targets’ to aim for in the sexual field:
- Young men get the idea that they should have huge penises and be able to climax again and again, carrying on all night.
- Young women get misleading notions about what their bodies should look like. They don’t realise that the pictures of the models are heavily air-brushed so their bodies – and especially their vaginal openings – look impossibly neat and tidy.
- Some younger men are surprised by what most of us would regard as normal pubic hair. They have seen so much porn imagery where the women have little or no hair that they think this is the norm.
- Young men assume it is acceptable to ejaculate on their partner’s face or breasts. This sort of material is commonplace in porn, leading many men to think it’s routine behaviour in the bedroom.
Visual pornography involves the use of real people. While some young men and women are more than happy to take part in erotic photo sessions or films, for others there may well be an element of exploitation.
There’s nothing wrong with a bit of solitary sex. When you are living on your own or are between relationships, masturbation is good.
Sex therapists have also found it can help women with arousal difficulties or
anorgasmia (inability to climax)
.
But when porn becomes preferable to real, live sex with a loving partner, it indicates a problem.
jz sharin,
its Sharing Time now…
Are relationship problems because of porn common?
We would say that a problem with porn is almost exclusively a male thing.
In our practice we have never seen a woman who was addicted to porn or who preferred it to having sex with a partner.
But we have received a lot of complaints from women who are distressed that their male partners no longer want to make love to them, preferring to spend hours wanking in front of porn.
This is a worrying trend, and we are not alone in our concerns.
Various experts from
Relate
and the
College of Sexual and Relationship Therapy
(COSRT), have reported that solitary use of porn is a huge factor in relationship breakdown and that it is ‘spiralling out of control’.
jz sharin,
its Sharing Time now…..
What to do if porn is a problem
It is a good idea if couples discuss their attitude to porn early on in their relationship and agree some house rules about how much porn is viewed and of what type. People often find this difficult, but communication is generally the key to keeping the habit within normal bounds.
If it is discussed before it becomes a huge problem, then the conversation can be calm and a woman can explain what works for her and what she might object to.
Such a conversation could also include the sexual relationship in general and could include the question of whether either party would like more variety – and if so, what.
Sometimes, women may know their man uses porn to masturbate, but they will decide not to broach the subject. This is understandable, but if you avoid discussing it until it becomes a problem, talking may no longer be effective.
A man who is addicted to porn may promise to change and to stop viewing internet images, but he probably won’t.
He may assure his partner that he loves her, but he won’t stop accessing porn. He may even break down and cry and swear that he longs to give up all the porn, but it’s unlikely he will manage this without professional help.
jz sharin,
Bro Torch_Man, thanks for sharing the insights relating to how man and woman view porn. This would help me understand and respect my OC’s views and behaviors when we discuss about watching porn.
Sorry I can’t upz your points as I have earlier did it on 16 Sep 2011 relating to the “for all the D lovers” in the health centre section.
Thanks!
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Torch_Man
its Sharing Time….
How women see porn
There has always been a difference between men and women where porn is concerned.
Men tend to be turned on by things they can see, while women seem to prefer the images and fantasies they have in their heads.
For this reason, women often don’t enjoy the sort of porn that men usually like. If the people on the screen don’t appeal to them, they don’t get turned on.
Women can also feel uneasy and inferior about the bodily ‘perfection’ of the women in porn. This can put them off sex, rather than turn them on to it.
A woman can feel threatened by her man’s enjoyment of these images and quickly feel that if a man is enthusiastic about porn, he must be losing interest in her. This is often not the case at all.
Whether women like it or not, because porn is so available, a lot of men are going to view it.
How men see porn
Statistics indicate that many men like porn of some sort or another. Their arousal is linked to images, and from their teens they are likely to masturbate while looking at pictures of female bodies.
Lots of men use porn for quick masturbation – and this can happen even if they are in a sexually satisfying relationship. Some women have a problem with a man seeking solo relief, but huge numbers of normally-sexed men do this routinely.
Men will often say that porn-assisted masturbation is intense, uncomplicated – and relaxing.
They also put it in a separate compartment: porn is just an ’extra’ that has no impact on their feelings for their partner or relationship.
Men in general do not view porn or solo sex as a sign of infidelity.
jz sharin,