Sharing Time…….
Various types of orgasm
Thanks to Freud, the father of psycho-analysis, people used to believe that vaginal orgasms were what mature women had, while clitoral orgasms were what immature women had.
Experts no longer believe this. And many of today’s sex experts, as well as ordinary women, say that they really don’t know the difference between a vaginal orgasm and a clitoral one.
The majority of women need clitoral stimulation in order to climax. This applies whether they’re enjoying loveplay or intercourse.
Some women, on the other hand, believe they can ‘come’ through intercourse with no manual stimulation of the clitoris and claim that it’s the vagina itself that sparks off the orgasm.
But many sex experts think that what’s happening during intercourse is the clitoris is being stimulated by being pulled down or being rubbed by part of the man’s torso.
There’s also the
G-spot
to consider.
Some women experience a particularly intense orgasm when that part of their anatomy is stimulated (you can find the
G-spot inside you, on the front vaginal wall
).
Indeed, many women who enjoy having their
G-spots
touched claim that they ejaculate during these intense orgasms.
So, there may be a case for saying that there’s a G-spot orgasm – as well as possibly a vaginal one and one that originates in the clitoris.
Our feeling about all of this is that it really doesn’t matter whether or not there are different types of orgasms.
The important thing is that you should be having good, reliable orgasms whenever you want them – and you should be enjoying them.
jz sharin,
folks,
A Twinkle in the Twilight Act 03
will be coming soon.
do stay tune.
though the story is more towards american-style, the usage of english words are quite unique, in that sense………..
open to any comments……
jz sharin,
A Twinkle in the Twilight Act 03
Act 3 – The Twinkle Begins to Glow
I got home later than usual tonight, but I was one happy and sexually satisfied man. Maude was not only a surprise for a woman of her years, but she seemed to have an insatiable appetite for my cock. Believe me, I’m not complaining. That woman awakened desires and needs within me that I had forgotten about, and in the process she had drained every sexual reservoir in my body. I was definitely looking forward to peaceful, uninterrupted slumber this night.
Then I saw the light flashing on my answering machine. Probably someone needing some home repairs, I thought to myself, but surely it could wait till morning. No, what if it was an emergency. I wouldn’t be able to sleep tonight in spite of the all day sedative Maude has so pleasantly administered. I pushed the button, and here’s what I heard.
“Randy,” Maude’s voice said pleasantly, “I hope you don’t mind my calling this late, but I’ve been thinking. Since my plumbing has been inactive for so long, before today that is, I was thinking maybe it would be a good idea if I had a qualified technician on hand for a couple of days to make sure everything is in good working order. You did a marvelous job today. Hopefully I can convince you that my equipment needs more attention. Of course, you are the only man I will consider to handle the job, so either give me a call or grab your toothbrush and come on over here. Use the back door; there’s a key under the mat. I miss you, and I need you.”
I had no problem finding my toothbrush, and I even tossed into a small satchel a change of underwear and a knit shirt. Who knows how long this job might take?
The back porch light was on, and the key was exactly where Maude said it would be. I quietly let myself into the house, and closed the door softly like I was an errant spouse guilty of a curfew violation. Then I thought better of my action.
“Maude,” I called out rather softly in respect of the late hour.
folks,
how do u find, about those orgasms for women???
izzit meaningful?? educational?? fulfilling??
will u try it out???
(especially for ladies to masturbute, looking for which are the “HIGH” buttons)
do share, if can…….
sharing is a virtue
(moreover letting out a curiousity, solve problems)
jz sharin,
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Torch_Man
A Twinkle in the Twilight Act 03
Act 3 – The Twinkle Begins to Glow
I got home later than usual tonight, but I was one happy and sexually satisfied man. Maude was not only a surprise for a woman of her years, but she seemed to have an insatiable appetite for my cock. Believe me, I’m not complaining. That woman awakened desires and needs within me that I had forgotten about, and in the process she had drained every sexual reservoir in my body. I was definitely looking forward to peaceful, uninterrupted slumber this night.
Then I saw the light flashing on my answering machine. Probably someone needing some home repairs, I thought to myself, but surely it could wait till morning. No, what if it was an emergency. I wouldn’t be able to sleep tonight in spite of the all day sedative Maude has so pleasantly administered. I pushed the button, and here’s what I heard.
“Randy,” Maude’s voice said pleasantly, “I hope you don’t mind my calling this late, but I’ve been thinking. Since my plumbing has been inactive for so long, before today that is, I was thinking maybe it would be a good idea if I had a qualified technician on hand for a couple of days to make sure everything is in good working order. You did a marvelous job today. Hopefully I can convince you that my equipment needs more attention. Of course, you are the only man I will consider to handle the job, so either give me a call or grab your toothbrush and come on over here. Use the back door; there’s a key under the mat. I miss you, and I need you.”
I had no problem finding my toothbrush, and I even tossed into a small satchel a change of underwear and a knit shirt. Who knows how long this job might take?
The back porch light was on, and the key was exactly where Maude said it would be. I quietly let myself into the house, and closed the door softly like I was an errant spouse guilty of a curfew violation. Then I thought better of my action.
“Maude,” I called out rather softly in respect of the late hour.
“Randy, is that you?” Unmistakably she had heard my call and recognized my voice. “Turn right at the head of the stairs. It’s the first door on your left.” There was a slight pause, and then, “Hurry.” I heard her giggle after that last remark, but I was as eager as she was to continue our face to face relationship. I took the stairs two at a time, turned right and then across the hall on the left to the open doorway.
There was a small lamp on the bedside table giving off a dim light much the same as a night light would do, and other than that the room was dark. There was enough like, however, for me to tell that Maude was in bed with the covers pulled up to her chin. She wore an impish grin, and the twinkle was back in her eyes.
“Hi, beautiful,” I said cheerfully.
“We’re not supposed to lie to each other, remember?” she said.
“Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder,” I reminder her politely.
“Okay then,” she exclaimed with an air of mirth in her voice, and threw back the bed covers. As you will recall, Maude is a large woman, and there before me tonight was every bit of her butt naked. “You like?” It was too dimly lit for me to see the mischief in her eyes, but I knew it was there.
Simultaneous orgasm
A lot of women write to on complaining that they can’t reach
simultaneous orgasm
with their partners.
Simultaneous orgasm
There’s a great deal of misunderstanding about the subject of simultaneous orgasm. This is when a couple orgasms at the same time.
It’s clear that a lot of people, and especially younger women, think that a male and a female are supposed to reach orgasm at the same moment, every single time! In the real world, this just isn’t true.
For instance, I recently spoke to a female patient who has had several lovers over the course of her life. But she said that it wasn’t until she had passed the age of 40 that she found a man with who she could synchronise her orgasms with.
The notion that simultaneous orgasm is the norm is simply a myth that’s been created over the last couple of hundred years, by hundreds of romantic novels and erotic stories.
Even today, a lot of people believe that couples do generally ‘come together’.
The result of all this misunderstanding is that nowadays, younger women write to ‘agony aunts’ saying things like: ‘I’m sure there must be something wrong with me because I don’t come at the same moment as my boyfriend. And he is quite upset about this …’
But in fact, simultaneous orgasm is quite uncommon. Surveys done by the Medical Information Service and others have found that most women rarely climax at exactly the same time as their partners.
However, it’s certainly nice when this happens.
And it can be achieved – if the man has good control of his own orgasm and if he’s skilled at using his fingers during intercourse – to bring the woman to a climax just at the same moment as he comes.
Or indeed, if she chooses to use her own fingers to stimulate herself, so that they climax together.
jz sharin,
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Torch_Man
“Randy, is that you?” Unmistakably she had heard my call and recognized my voice. “Turn right at the head of the stairs. It’s the first door on your left.” There was a slight pause, and then, “Hurry.” I heard her giggle after that last remark, but I was as eager as she was to continue our face to face relationship. I took the stairs two at a time, turned right and then across the hall on the left to the open doorway.
There was a small lamp on the bedside table giving off a dim light much the same as a night light would do, and other than that the room was dark. There was enough like, however, for me to tell that Maude was in bed with the covers pulled up to her chin. She wore an impish grin, and the twinkle was back in her eyes.
“Hi, beautiful,” I said cheerfully.
“We’re not supposed to lie to each other, remember?” she said.
“Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder,” I reminder her politely.
“Okay then,” she exclaimed with an air of mirth in her voice, and threw back the bed covers. As you will recall, Maude is a large woman, and there before me tonight was every bit of her butt naked. “You like?” It was too dimly lit for me to see the mischief in her eyes, but I knew it was there.
“Beautiful,” I repeated.
“Thank you,” was her modest reply, but she did choose to spread her legs noticeably to further make her point. “Please join me, Sir. We can make our introductions as the evening develops.” She wiggled over to the far side of the bed, and patted the area that she had been keeping warm for me.
“You will be gentle, won’t you?” I asked in jest as I crawled onto the bed.
“I earnestly have every intention of fucking your brains out before we finish,” she cooed as she snuggled up to my now naked body. “Is that gun loaded, mister?”
“Cock it and see for yourself, ma’am.”
Her hand was warm, and soft, and firm. My cock was willing and soon to be hard. Our lips were soft and eager, and our tongues were as curious as ever.
“Will you eat my pussy? It’s so lonely.”
“Before and after, and maybe once in between,” I assured her. Then I reached over and gathered one of her enormous breasts in my hand. She snuggled a little closer, if that was possible, and rubbed her pussy against my thigh, and jacked my joint playfully a couple of times.
“You’re such an awful man, Randy. Awful nice, that is to say.” She maneuvered her body to where she could comfortably pushed one of her nipples into my mouth. “Gotta start somewhere,” she muttered. “Oooh,” she sighed in response to my finger sliding into her wet pussy. “That’s a good starting place, too.”
its Sharing Time……..
Multiple orgasms
Until quite recent years, doctors believed that only a tiny minority of women could have multiple orgasms.
But research by the Medical Information Service and others has shown that in fact, the majority of females can have a series of climaxes, one after the other if, that is, they’re happy and relaxed in the relationship and if the partner is willing to stimulate them to ‘come’ again and again.
Please note that the
ability to have multiple orgasms increases with age
.
It’s unusual at the age of 20, but many women in their 40s, 50s and 60s can do it.
jz sharin,
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Torch_Man
“Beautiful,” I repeated.
“Thank you,” was her modest reply, but she did choose to spread her legs noticeably to further make her point. “Please join me, Sir. We can make our introductions as the evening develops.” She wiggled over to the far side of the bed, and patted the area that she had been keeping warm for me.
“You will be gentle, won’t you?” I asked in jest as I crawled onto the bed.
“I earnestly have every intention of fucking your brains out before we finish,” she cooed as she snuggled up to my now naked body. “Is that gun loaded, mister?”
“Cock it and see for yourself, ma’am.”
Her hand was warm, and soft, and firm. My cock was willing and soon to be hard. Our lips were soft and eager, and our tongues were as curious as ever.
“Will you eat my pussy? It’s so lonely.”
“Before and after, and maybe once in between,” I assured her. Then I reached over and gathered one of her enormous breasts in my hand. She snuggled a little closer, if that was possible, and rubbed her pussy against my thigh, and jacked my joint playfully a couple of times.
“You’re such an awful man, Randy. Awful nice, that is to say.” She maneuvered her body to where she could comfortably pushed one of her nipples into my mouth. “Gotta start somewhere,” she muttered. “Oooh,” she sighed in response to my finger sliding into her wet pussy. “That’s a good starting place, too.”
Using my tongue I fondled her nipple vigorously until I could feel her arousal juices oozing onto my hand. My cock was begging for more attention. Once again, Maude’s intuitive nature came into play, and gently disconnecting my mouth and her nipple, she whispered into my ear.
“Got to go, lover. I’m needed elsewhere at the moment.”
Confused was not adequately sufficient for this situation, but I was beside myself at her latest action. Just before I filed my protest, I realized she had moved down my body to a position where she could make contact with my cock. That warm, titillating sensation surging through my body was caused by her mouth encasing the head of my dick while her tongue massaged its tender skin. My hips involuntarily hunched in response, but Maude held my penetration to head only depth.
Who was I to complain? This woman was doing magical things with her mouth. I couldn’t help but to hunch against the electricity of the event, but Maude held me to head deep limits. Then when she cautiously cupped my balls in her hand and began to rub them together in concert with the tongue massage of my dick head, I realized the point of no return was neigh at hand.
I hunched again almost uncontrollably, and this time to my surprise, my lover allowed my cock to penetrate farther. In fact, she joined my efforts by allowing my pole to reach the entrance to her throat. Once there she pulled another of her surprises.
its Sharing Time………
Orgasms in mid-life
As we have already said, a woman’s ability to climax tends to improve with age.
But we know that some women get well into mid-life before they manage to have an orgasm. But the important thing is that you should never regard it as ‘too late’.
Time and again we have heard of women who have learned to orgasm when they were in their 40s, 50s – and even later.
In February 2009, at the Royal Society of Medicine, Danish psychosexual therapist Pia Struck presented the results of a study she had made of 500 women.
These women all had long histories of difficulties with orgasm and 25 per cent of them had never climaxed. Their ages ranged from 18 to 88.
They were treated by use of group therapy, where they were encouraged to think more positively about their genitals and to learn acceptance of their sexuality through touch. They also embarked on practical sex-therapy by using clitoral vibrators.
Of these women: 465 (93 per cent) had an orgasm that was witnessed by a therapist. And it was reported that the post-menopausal women among them were just as able to achieve orgasm as the younger participants in the study. So, clearly, you are never too old to become orgasmic.
There can of course be other problems in midlife, around the time of the menopause. Most of these difficulties occur because of all the hormonal changes going on in the body. And it’s extremely common for women to ‘go off’ sex temporarily – simply because it becomes too dry and uncomfortable.
Fortunately, there are all sorts of ways to remedy this nowadays. There are good over-the-counter lubricants, such as Wet, Silk, Astroglide, Senselle and K-Y Jelly. These are all suitable, by the way, for any age of woman.
In mid-life, there’s also the option of going on
Hormone replacement therapy (HRT).
But this is something that any woman should think about very carefully indeed.
Until recently, it was widely believed that HRT helped a woman to feel much better generally and to feel more sexy in particular. However, the picture has now changed significantly.
Extensive research into HRT now suggests that though it’s still effective for ridding a woman of unpleasant
menopausal symptoms
– such as hot flushes and sweating attacks – it’s not safe to use long term.
So, it should definitely not be viewed as a magical youth elixir, which you start taking at the menopause and continue until you’re old.
Nowadays, many women find that health supplements, such as
soya and red clover
, also alleviate menopausal symptoms and actually help them to feel younger and fitter too.
These sorts of supplements are readily available in high street pharmacies, such as Boots and Lloyds and also in health food shops.
jz sharin,