Over the days and weekends, we would text quite often, it felt pleasant. I definitely found a 知己. (Someone who knows me inside out)
Then it was time for me to show her the conclusion based on the details provided.
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M: Hey Mabel, when are you free for discussions about your business?
Mabel: Hmm this week maybe Friday night! I let you know again!
M: Okay, let me know again haha.
Few hours later…
Mabel: Yeah meet at Dempsey for Dinner on Friday? I’m craving for some meat and pasta! *Erm..
M: You mean at Culina’s?
Mabel: Yaaa LOL I FORGOT THE NAME.
M: Okay see you!
Friday - 7pm - I was waiting for Mabel since.. 630pm when we were supposed to meet. Mabel was still nowhere to be seen
Mabel: HIII MARK, SORRY HAHA I WAS SHITTING BECAUSE I ATE TOO MUCH CHILLI YESTERDAY -She arrived at 730pm, came in with a smile and apology, who could hold a grudge against her?
She was wearing a V-neck soft cotton shirt with casual shorts that covered to the mid of her thighs and wearing flats. Very comfortable looking outfit. The way her soft cotton shirt draped down her body against her bosom, the outline of her plain bra was slightly visible, you could see the hanging gap between her shirt and her tummy.
M: Yeah, you said 630pm, it’s 730pm, I am starving, woman. -I replied with a smile
Mabel: Okay okay, sorry let’s order! I AM HUNGRY TOO. I treat you to BJ later okay! -I would have choked if I didn’t know her.
M: You mean Ben and Jerrys right? -Rolls eyes as I said this
Mabel: Yaa I’m craving for the Strawberry shortcake flavor.
M: You’re craving everything, are you sure you’re not pregnant.
Mabel: Nonsense la, no boyfriend how to pregnant, let’s eat!
We had our dinner, I explained to her how things will be like if she did what I proposed. She was reluctant to fire Dean, so I offered I could talk to Dean on her behalf as the business consultant. She wanted to do it herself, so I let her be. Concluded most of it aside from other things that she might want to do with her business. We walked over to Ben and Jerry’s to get some ice cream.
We ordered her Strawberry Cheesecake flavor plus some chocolate and others along with the waffles. She was enjoying herself very much.
Came along a disruption from her.
Mabel: Have you tried dating anyone after your ex?
M: Nope, I was tired and kind of okay being alone.
Mabel: Waa don’t so depressed okay, aunty teach you. Pass me your phone.
M: For?
Mabel held out her hand impatiently shaking, waiting for me to put my phone on her hand.
M: Okay fine. -As I unlocked it and handed it over.
Mabel: Okay let me see.. did you have some selfies?
M: No I’m not a selfie person, why?
Mabel proceeded to take a few shots of me.
Mabel: Smile please, don’t be like 死氣沉沉 can? (Don’t look like a dead person)
I forced a smile and she snapped away.
Mabel: Looks not bad la.. Okay so actually I have been using this app called Coffee Meets Bagel, talking to some guys, my friend intro one! Some of them managed to meet some nice guys leh. I’m meeting one tomorrow.. and one more next week! I’m quite popular hor! -Seeking approval.. to which I gave a very forced smile and nod
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A brief recap of our relationship, so we met first as a business appointment of sort. Moved on talking into friendship, quite a close one. Texted quite often, talking about all sorts of stuff aside from business. I feel that she’s not exactly interested in me, nor am I interested in her in terms of a relationship. I kept my distance and was wary not to fall into the state of delusion, reading too much into her actions and words. I really valued her sincerity and straightforwardness as a friend.
Mabel’s just the way she is, too friendly to anyone, but on some level, I just don’t see how we are compatible as a couple. I am very much an introvert, business talks tire me out. I need my fill of alone and solitude aside from my partner being quite sufficiently independent with their own life. That is not easy to find in someone my own age.. she fits most of it, yet on some sense, I see how we can’t match as partners.
Back to the situation:
M: Okay so.. what did you do? -I reached out and tried to grab my phone from her fiddly fingers, she slipped out of touch by twisting around
Mabel: Wait, just a bit more! … OKAY DONE! -She handed me my phone, I gave her a frowning look, as I scrolled through with the phone on the table.
M: Okay so this is Coffee Meets Bagel. And Mark is single, spiritual. Thinker, ….. -reciting through the profile she created for me
Mabel: Accurate right!!
-She leaned closer to me, we were seated in adjacent seats. So close that our shoulders touched briefly.
Mabel: So now you just need to press here and swipe like on girls you like.
-She leaned even closer that I could see her necklace dangling in front of her cleavage..
*STOP MARK. HELLO. THIS GIRL IS A NICE GIRL, YOUR FRIEND, NO SENSE OF SPACE UNFORTUNATELY. HELLO. ARE YOU GOING TO TAKE ADVANTAGE THIS OBLIVIOUS GIRL!?!
I made myself look back at the phone, yet at the same time feeling the temptation to dart my eyes back to enjoy the view, the soft marshmallow looking cleavage..
*NO! LOOK AT THE PHONE
M: Okay so she’s a Financial Consultant.. Very interested in helping others.. She looks like an insurance agent, are you sure she’s here to date?
Mabel: Hey you never try never know okay, this one I help you like first -Proceeds to like
Mabel: Waaa this one pretty leh, I think suits you. She’s into sports, must be very fit also. -Proceeds to like
Mabel: This one! This one got boobs leh. You like? -At this point I have given up, resistance is futile
M: Okay.. so how about yours?
Mabel: I think they are all quite nice guys, I’ve been texting one of them quite often. He looks not bad too -Shows me his photo. Looks okay, decent, built, tall.
M: Looks good, you’re meeting him soon?
Mabel: Yaa quite excited. I am meeting him next week for dinner!
The time at Ben and Jerry’s just turned out to be looking at different profiles judging discussing. I looked at my watch, it was getting late.. 1145pm or so..
M: Hey I think we should go, the staff need to clean up and go home too.
Mabel: Okay lor, I send you home ba. But hor actually I’m quite tired. ~Yaawn -She stretches her arm out and yawns..
you could see the shape of her soft cotton shirt pressing against her bra, showing her silky smooth tummy,
no exposed panties this time. Slightly disappointed when I shouldn’t be.
M: Okay la, you rest, I drive myself home okay?
Mabel: WA REALLY AH, 不客氣了 (I will take you up on your offer) *Yep, the thickskinned shameless Mabel that I know.
I put out my hand and asked for the keys, she passed it to me happily with a couple of clumsy steps, from the side of my eyes, I could see her boobs jiggle. We were walking on uneven ground, she stumbled, almost falling but caught my left shoulder.
M: Be careful can or not?
Mabel: Ya ya. YAA-! -Proceeds to take another bigger stumble, she leapt a little and this time,
her arms wrapped hugging my waist, I could feel her soft tender breasts pressing against the back of my thighs and her breath against my waist. It would have been an awkward position if she was in front of me..
*So soft.. STOP don’t go thinking.. YOU WILL GET HARD
M: Hello. Please. Auntie, you need help crossing the road?
Mable: Oi, I’m not that old la. Tsk. -As she got back her composure.
We reached her car, she sat in the passenger’s pulled the seat back to give herself room space for her feet, kicked off her flats, looked at her phone while I drove. Halfway I would notice her smiling to herself, probably enjoying texting one of the guys she matched.
Further down, I heard a smack.. like something dropped. We were still on the highway, so I just took a brief glance. It was her phone that dropped. She was asleep with her head tilted left.
You could see the beautiful contour of her neck. The way the seatbelt was pressing against the center of her boobs also helped emphasis on her C-Cup, I felt a little stirring down there.
*Hello. Zen please.
This girl.. I would be worried for her on her date. So instead of driving home, I drove to her home. I know she lives with her family at the penthouse. Reached the basement carpark and parked her car. She was still asleep..
*This woman.. is sleeping so soundly like a baby..
I gave it about 5 minutes, looking at my phone and glancing at her every now and then. *ARE YOU SERIOUSLY NOT WAKING UP, THAT’S IT
I nudged her against her shoulders, blessing or not, her boobs jiggled as I shook her. *What a sight.. The temptation is so great.. just to have a quick sneaky touch..
She squinted frowned her face with a deep breath and let out a huge yawn.
Mabel: Waaaaa~ so tired -Swing her hands out to stretch, I dodged her right punch to the face just in time
M: Please ah you. Can you be more self aware?
Mabel: Whaaaat? -Tears in her eyes from yawning
M: You are an attractive woman, sleeping defencelessly on a car with a guy. Do you know what could have happened to you?
Mabel: But it’s you, Mark, you won’t do anything one hee -She said it in a very teasing manner
M: Ya right. -I slapped her on the back of her hand
Mabel: Ouchh.. it’s true okayy.. Time for me to drive home ah.. sigh..
M: Take a look, woman. Are you awake?
Mabel: OMG WE ARE AT MY HOME~!!
M: Yeah go home and have a good night’s sleep.
Mabel: Omg now I feel so bad, are you sure..? .. actually thank you! -She gave one of the sweetest smiles that would make any men melt and give in to her
We stepped out of the car, I handed over her handbag plus keys.
Mabel: Waa, so gentleman, any girl will be so lucky! So how are you going home it’s 12am plus already.
M: Just grab home la. What else?
Mabel: Omg I feel so bad.. I buy you lunch okay?
M: Okay okay, go home now. Let me know again.
We didn’t have to meet for awhile. I went back to reservist, stayed in-camp because I was very lazy to do book out and book in every other day. Did my duty on CMB, until..
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We didn’t have to meet for awhile. I went back to reservist, stayed in-camp because I was very lazy to do book out and book in every other day. Did my duty on CMB, until..
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Mabel: Hi Mark!! How are youu?
M: Nothing much, reservist, what else can I do?
Mabel: How’s CMB going? Did you talk to any girls?
M: No, I didn’t get any matches. -Before I got to ask further, she spammed me
Mabel: Why? How come? What do you mean no match?
Mabel: What are you even doing???
M: Erm no, I just liked a few. That’s about it. I don’t really like most of them, there’s too much makeup or filters.
Mabel: NO. You’re supposed to just like anyone, even if you don’t feel like it, just like everyone. Any girls talk to you, you talk to them. I know you’re not so much feeling it but go like them okay!
M: Okay okay, fine I will like everyone. How’s your guy doing? Is he your type?
Mabel: Hmm.. let me call you better -She rang immediately
So she went on to tell me how’s Henry, he sounded decent, nice, she likes him. He’s kind of her type, quiet, intellectual, with some air of mysteriousness. Built, tall, 1.85cm or so, does water polo. They met a couple of times over 3 weeks. I could tell that she’s quite liking him. I just encouraged her, go for it, you never know.
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Mabel’s birthday is coming soon, so I thought hey, maybe I should get her something. I went to get 2 Gold Class Movie ticket vouchers along with a pair of Jay Chou tickets. Mailed it to her through letter.
A few days later..
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Mabel: OMG WAA SO NICE OF YOU. REMEMBER I LIKE JAY CHOU HAHA. PLUS POINTT
M: Yeah because you repeated that like so many times. Now you can go with Henry. (The guy she met from CMB that she’s totally into)
Mabel: Waa, I need to check if he can make it leh. Thank you hahaha
M: Enjoy your birthday haha
Mabel: Thank you hehehe.
Mabel: So how’s you been?
M: Yeah after listening to you, I just liked everyone, so there were a couple of matches, I talked to some of them.
Mabel: So proud of you! Lunch soon, I still owe you a treat!
Upcoming.. I have a dinner with one of my matches on CMB, a nice young lady, Jenna.
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We didn’t have to meet for awhile. I went back to reservist, stayed in-camp because I was very lazy to do book out and book in every other day. Did my duty on CMB, until..
630pm - We were supposed to meet at Raffles City, walk over to the restaurant for dinner at 7pm
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M: I am here, so see you around?
Jenna: I’m walking up! See you!
We met at the MRT, I recognized her as she walked out of the gantry. Jenna was dressed modestly. She had this very particular smile on her, with her very straight teeth. Very straight groomed hair. Very presentable indeed.
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Description about Jenna:
Very distinct facial features, particular smile almost always shows her teeth with trimmed eyebrows. Neat hair slightly longer than her shoulders. 158cm or so in height, built about the same as Adelene except with a little more flesh on her. She worked out often so her legs looked more toned. Always dresses modestly. Has a good chest size, good C-almost-D Cup, which I did not notice for the first few times we met, until one day..
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The first meeting went okay, hit it off quite well, continued some topics we were talking about in text. Had lots to talk about from work because she was from research field. Aside from that we also touched on food and anything under the skies. Just enjoyed the company, food and ambiance. Nothing sensitive was touched upon. Except for..
Most of the time I was really drawn into looking at that unique smile that she has. It’s not stunning but it grows on you..
Jenna: How did you and your ex break up?
M: Well.. -I told her the same things I’ve told Mabel. Asked about hers to find out that her last relationship was 5 years ago. Even after splitting, she was friends with her boyfriend until the new girlfriend had a problem with that. Eventually they kept a distance till no longer in contact.
M: Why did you use CMB?
Jenna: My friends asked me to try la
M: So what kind if experiences did you have? Any good ones? Or worst ones?
Jenna: Not really any good ones. Some of them were pretty weird. Even some guys who couldn’t stop looking at their phones when having a dinner. It was really boring.
M: My friend did meet someone she really likes, things seems to be going quite well so far.
Jenna: Oooh.. -Started asking about Mabel’s situation. But I could feel that while she was interested in Mabel’s situation. She wasn’t really too concerned about finding a boyfriend. It was really more out of boredom that we happened to talk.
The night went on with little events happening. I noticed how particular she was about some stuff and judged my photo taking for Instagram.
*Maybe this person would be hard for me to have as a girlfriend.. as a friend she’s really great!
We got along well through the night. We talked for a long time, till almost 1am. It wasn’t tiring. CMB has been pleasantly nice to me so far..
Next up will be about my first meeting with Xuan Xuan.
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Description about Jenna:
Very distinct facial features, particular smile almost always shows her teeth with trimmed eyebrows. Neat hair slightly longer than her shoulders. 158cm or so in height, built about the same as Adelene except with a little more flesh on her. She worked out often so her legs looked more toned. Always dresses modestly. Has a good chest size, good C-almost-D Cup, which I did not notice for the first few times we met, until one day..
Source: Sggirls.com
Jenna was a little shorter looking, her hair wasn’t as long in as in the photo. She doesn’t wear clothes that exposes her shoulders often too. But the smile look is a little close.
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Next up will be about my first meeting with Xuan Xuan.
Me and Xuan Xuan had a very different start. We texted quite a lot before the first time we met, and it was for a run. I am extremely lazy for runs, I would do skating, cycling, anything else. But I took her up on her offer because I had IPPT coming. I missed mine as I was injured during the reservist. I had to train before my window closes.
I met Xuan Xuan at a park connector. Public workout area. 8pm.
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Description of Xuan Xuan:
Xuan Xuan had long hair curling at the ends, length almost to her waist. She’s thin, slender, about the same height as me, 170cm. It was obvious that she had a very flat chest, A Cup, I might have a bigger chest than her. She had a demure look on her face. Always smelled like she just came out of the showers.
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Xuan: Hey, Mark right? -She looked at her phone and compared me to it
M: Yeah, Xuan Xuan right, you look the same except you’re not in a dress as compared to your photo.
Xuan: Yeah.. you don’t expect me to be running in a dress right?
M: I would have pretended not to know you if you were in a dress
Xuan: Really!?
We had a little chatter continuing our conversations from texting.
Xuan: Okay ready to run?
M: Sigh.. yeah.. kill me now.
We started jogging. I was surprised despite the amount of time that she spent running, I was actually able to keep up with the lack of conditioning. She tied her hair in a ponytail, they fluttered and bounced gracefully as she was jogging.
Along the way, we talked a little. Majority of it was me asking how long more are we going to do this. After 45 minutes of hellish torture, it was finally over. It felt like an eternity. We slowed down and took a long slow walk.
Xuan: You’re fitter than I thought!
M: I’m surprised too. Maybe recently getting involved with my skating group has improved my stamina.
Xuan: Probably.. or are you pretending to be weak..?
M: Oh man, you exposed me.. No la. Probably because it wasn’t too fast, just a comfortable pace and skating.
Xuan: You look pretty fit anyway, can’t imagine you to be as lazy to workout as you described yourself to be..
Xuan: I’m quite hungry now.. are you?
M: Hmm, yeah I am but I have to get back and be ready to do a conference call. I don’t wanna rush dinner if I can. Maybe next time?
Xuan: Aww. I will go get some prata on the way home then..
M: Are you sure? Prata? Doesn’t that destroy your running?
Xuan: I’m hungry, there’s only Prata around.
M: Nobody cooks at home?
Xuan: No, actually I live alone with my housemate. She’s working night shifts most of the time, I only get to see her on weekends but she’s mostly sleeping in.
M: Oh.. you moved out?
Xuan: It’s complicated. They are fine with it would have liked me to be more independent!
M: Are you? -Looking a little doubtful
Xuan: I am! I can cook proper meals and take care of everything in the house! -In a very proud manner
M: Hmm okay, sounds like an independent woman.
Xuan: Why do you sound like in doubt? -She looked at my with a little glare
M: No no, I believe you, it’s just.. -I raised my hands to show that I meant peace
Xuan: Just what?
M: It’s not so common that someone’s as independent as you, not even for some guys actually. When people say they cook, they mean they can boil water for instant noodles..
Xuan: Hehe so that’s a compliment?
M: If you see it that way.. -I gave her shrug
We reached the station. I checked with her the next time we could meet for dinner before heading off.
It was a short meeting for the first time. My impression of Xuan Xuan was a little mild and neutral for personality wise. She’s a rather simple person, doesn’t seem like there would be much complication for her boyfriend..
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Description of Xuan Xuan:
Xuan Xuan had long hair curling at the ends, length almost to her waist. She’s thin, slender, about the same height as me, 170cm. It was obvious that she had a very flat chest, A Cup, I might have a bigger chest than her. She had a demure look on her face. Always smelled like she just came out of the showers.
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Source: SgGirls.com
Xuan Xuan would look like the girl on the right.
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According to TS description, Xuan Xuan seems like a pleasant girl, more updates please.
She is a very pleasant girl indeed. You will get to find out nearer in the future!
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It was a short meeting for the first time. My impression of Xuan Xuan was a little mild and neutral for personality wise. She’s a rather simple person, doesn’t seem like there would be much complication for her boyfriend..
It’s been some time since I last met Mabel aos so we were going to meet for lunch at Katong on a Saturday at 1pm.
130pm - Mabel was nowhere to be seen -What’s new?
134pm - Text from Mabel: OMG SORRY HAHA I WOKE UP AT 10am then went back to nua.. overslept. I’m coming over now!
145pm -
Mabel shows up in a fairly loose white T-shirt, almost showing the smooth round of her shoulder, I could see her dark blue bra strap hanging at the edge of her shoulders. Luckily the shirt isn’t so loose that it would drop, I would have kicked her home. Kakhi shorts that covered half her thigh. Flipflops, again -Rolls my eyes at her sloppy bed attire with a forced smile
Mabel: Soo sorry, you order anything you want okay
It was a cozy Katong Laksa stall. Table’s not too large. We queued together and ordered together. Some eyes were on us, some group of army boys were talking amongst themselves while staring at Mabel. Totally checking her out. *I will take it as a compliment that you think you’re dating. Thanks.
She was busy grinning and glued to her phone. I caught a glimpse of the name Henry, wasn’t jealous or anything, rather I smiled in relief, happy for her. Accidentally caught her downblouse and turned away immediately.. but the image was burned into my memory. A feast for the eyes, her smooth skin, ample cleavage, held together by a loose bra with ample support and a slight gap.. JUST ALMOST making her nipples visible ALMOST. *Calm down boy. She’s your friend dude. OI.
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M: Okay so extra chilli and what else?
Mabel: You know me so well haha. And Iced Lemon Tea!
M: Didn’t you say you just had cramps yesterday, complaining about how your mood went from 100-0?
Mabel: So what?
-Proceeding to order:
M: 2 Large Laksa, 1 Hot lemon tea, 1 Ice Lemon Tea.
Mabel: So hot you still drink hot lemon tea ah?
M: No, the iced one is for me, hot one is for the woman in her period.
Mabel: Walao. How come like that.. ughh. Fine la. Thanks. -She pouted a little, went back to grinning after looking back to her phone.
M: Yeah so you were saying you’re meeting Henry tomorrow?
Mabel: Yaa, we’re sponsored by Mark Pte Ltd to watch movie at Gold Class GV! Gold class leh!
M: Hope you have fun and-
Mabel interrupted me: So which girls are you talking to, see see leh! -She waved her hand demanding my phone
M: Okay fine -She remembered my password, unlocked and her eyes gleamed with joy as she was reading my texts *How shameless is she, not even pretending that she didn’t know my password
Mabel: How come you didn’t flirt with them one?… Waa I think this Jenna and Ci Hui quite into you leh from the way they reply. You got their instagram?
M: Yes mom, I wasn’t really interested in them you know. Yeah have Instagram -She ignored my comment and proceeds to scroll like a gossiper market aunty
Mabel: Wa Jenna quite proper looking, like guai guai one. …. Ci Hui not bad her boobs bigger than mine, the face quite cute, I think maybe cuter than Adelene leh.
M: Sigh..
Mabel: So which one do you prefer? Jenna or Xuan Xuan? Or Pauline.. or Ci Hui.. you so playboy!!
M: I met most of them, I’m just friends with them, nice girls. Xuan Xuan has her own relationship problems about a guy she likes. Pauline is getting over a guy who said he’s into her but hasn’t shown real commitment..
Mabel: So now you’re a relationship consultant too! You can run new business! I help you get clients okay? We share share!
M: Right.. -Mabel went on happily and checked out all the girls I matched with and talked to. *Really 三八 (Gossiper)
Mabel: If you need help, let me know, let them meet Mabel, I will be your spokesperson to testify you’re a really nice guy!
M: Yeah… okay. -I wasn’t particularly into the whole dating scene yet
The time spent with Mabel was about her asking how much I like each girl that I matched with. About if I am still thinking about my ex. Which honestly I am not nor am I particularly interested in any of them. It seems like my mindset has changed over time. Some sort of tiredness of commitment into relationship.
Next up is a recap on a meeting that I missed out mentioning.. Pauline.