So, I got up and told her to lie down on the bed. Instead, chris went into doggie position and signaled for me to enter her. Due to her prolonged bbbj, my rod was harder and bigger than usual, thus making me fill chris up more than usual as well. chris started thrashing around as soon as I was in her and even encouraged me to go faster. But this time round, I guessed with my fatigue plus my desire to want her to enjoy the session, I managed to control despite my strokes being hard and fast.
We changed several positions but chris seemed to enjoy the sidewinder position as well, which we seldom used. So, I kept her in that position until her bed again, was wet with her cum. Finally, I couldn’t control as well and cummed into her warm lovehole as well. After I shot my load into her, instead of going to the toilet, chris quickly took a pair of panties from the wardrobe to wear. I knew that she wanted to keep my cum inside for the nite. We then proceeded back to the living room for a smoke.
During the smoke break, chris told me that she would understand if I had to leave as work was important to me. Thanking her for her understanding, I went back into the bedroom to change. When I came out, chris had already got a container for the remaining soup for me to bring back for my colleagues. Well, my colleagues loved them actually.
After bidding her goodbye, I went back to the office to fight whatever fire came our way that nite. The next thing I knew, my admin manager woke me up at 9.30am in my office, telling me to go home and sleep, or at least go back, have a shower and a change of clothes before coming back to the office again. So, after calling chris to tell her that I was too tired to go breakfast with her, I went home to get a shower, changed to a new set of clothes and went back to the office.
The following weekend (which was last weekend), I decided to stay over at chris’ place, making love to her before bringing her for breakfast and then sending her to work, come back to her place to continue typing my encounter and posting here on sbf, and then met her for lunch, come back to her place again to continue typing and then picking her up after work to go for dinner, then come back to make love again, then chris decided to try her hand in telling the story as well, made some more love and then went to sleep. Sorry, I have decided not to go through the love-making sessions as they just seemed similar to what I have described in the earlier posts. They were nothing spectacular nor were they any different although we still enjoyed it very much.
During the weekend, chris initiated the love-making most of the time. I suspected that since OC was coming back soon and that chris was thinking that she very well might not feature in my long term plans, thus she wanted to get as much good memories possible from our time together. Although it was sex, I could certainly feel that she was sincerely in love with me and had no other agenda besides enjoying her time with me. The better these 2 women treat me, the worse I felt and made my final decision even more ruthless and heartbreaking!
Yes, bro surfer, u r right on in your PM. Thanks for seeing my anguish just from my words, but I guess I fell long before u could activate your early warning systems for me.
On Sunday nite, after picking chris up from work at 7pm, I brought her to a nice restaurant for dinner. Normally, I couldn’t do that as she knocks off much later on normal days. After dinner, chris insisted on going home, giving the excuse that she was tired. But it was not to be as she took four shots from this old man that nite!!! (I m just as disbelieving as u) The last shot was sheer torture to me but she just wanted it and I just couldn’t bring myself to reject her. With the two shots I surrendered to chris that same sunday morning, I surrendered six shots to chris that very day! I had to go back to my younger army days (donkey years ago) to top that! now would be a good time for me to do the bloody durex sex survey to help bring up the pathetic sg stats!!!
For the first time in my life, I was afraid that chris might ask for more. So afraid that I made the excuse that I had to go home that nite to prepare for work the next day. And so, off I went, but not before chris told me that she would give me time to think through my decision before OC comes back to town. So, that would mean that she would not see me until I had made my decision and I actually agreed with her!!!
so here I m, with slightly more than a day before OC comes back to town.
Bros, what should I do? Who do I choose? Suggestions r very much welcomed. I have specially come into the office at 7am, so that I could finish the story and so that u guys out there, experienced ones especially, to tell me what to do, or at least point me in the right direction. Please help. Thanks a mil in advance.
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ml1138
Wah!!! bro I feel sorry for you and also happy in a sense that the cat already out of the bag and that you OC and maybe future OC are very understanding as well as your parents.
Well I think your first priority is to tackle your ex gf JONE.
The rest we will leave it to you and you will have to weigh by yourself who gives you what and which one lack in term of comparision.
God Bless You All and hope all of you ends well.
Good Luck…
yup, OC and parents very understanding, i m thankful for that.
for joan, i dont bloody care… people can fuck around with me and i will still take it with a pinch of salt, but touch my family, i will unleash my own hell for them. i wouldnt have gone ahead with the mass SMSing if she didnt try to psycho my mum…
thanks for wishing me well but i dont think it will end well. but thanks anyway. my first camper who followed my story all the way.
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yinyang
Dear me, are you in some hot soup. Thought you were lulled into some blissful lead time before Chris’ ultimatum. Now it’s wrath from south of DMZ border.
Really small world, this red dot we live in. Your crisis is not so much your ex, but your toss up choice. Wish your kimchi was spared heart burn news. Yet she was so stoic so far.
hot turtle soup, but now i m the turtle…
OC is calm and composed, as always… but i have no doubt she felt hurt.
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surfer888
Sensed it much earlier but just did not want to kaypoh.
for once, wanted u to kaypoh more and u didnt.
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surfer888
IMHO, you should’ve denied it flat out, regardless of whether it sounds stupid or makes her stupid. The truth is sometimes the hardest knock to take.
what’s done is done. first time getting 2 serious ones. had my fair share of playing the field but always the case of at least 1 of the 2 was only in for the money… for that i screwed up, due in inexperience…
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Hahahaman
This is surely a migraine for you, Bro! This problem cannot chap 1! All depends on you. Cheers
agreed, my migraine… really having a migraine now. i have to go get my ponstan!
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McMuff
bro axl
i am assuming that your education level is quite high and physical needs aside you will need someone close to your intellectual level to stimulate your mind as well.
when we meet a girl initially it is quite easy to get emotionally blindsided cos of the newness of the relationship and this feeds our adrenalin to think that we are young and in love again and this feeling will last forever. but 3 months into it i think you might get bored and realise that there are some traits of the girl that you dislike and cant stand and start to look around again and the whole shit will start again.
i am saying this based on the assumption that Chris intellectual level is different to yours while korean gf’s is closer to yours.
it sounds pretty harsh but i think its for the better if you stick to your current gf. good luck!
bro mcmuff,
just spoke to my parents for 2 hours and they have the same points as u. OC’s educational level is much closer. she understands my frustrations at work and could even help with solutions. chris could listen and emphatise, but never understanding.
i have to decide whether i was blindsided by a new relationship here but likelihood is high. moreover, chris belongs to the level of women (in terms of looks) without a doubt, out of my reach. never even dare to dream and it just fell on my lap.
last thing my parents pointed out, who do i know of the 2 would be more likely to be with me, for better or for worse. OC will help me save money, will question my spending especially my big ticket items and will still be calm even when everything else is not. chris, thinking back, didnt even asked me not to splurge on her, especially when i spent a bomb (to me lah!!!) on her watch. hmmm…
but most importantly, my parents could feel OC’s sincerity towards them. a filial person will not be too wrong. sorry about the rambling, still cant think very straight. could only read and reply but my mind is still all over the place.
thanks very much for the help.
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yinyang
AXL, we feel for you. Water under the bridge, but I tend to gravitate towards surfer’s comment. Not that she’s stupid to ignore tell tale signs. What she don’t know (other than your dalliance with floozies), don’t hurt. Blissful ignorance.. until you toss the proverbial coin.
Still, brave man as you came clean (why am I not surprised, true to your nature).. at expense kimchi’s heartburn. Yet she was so (admirably) stoic.
Would have very preferred to PM you instead, but as you bared yourself here… Don’t mind me saying this outright (or stating obvious) -nobody’s better qualified to choose path at your cross roads now.
Just my wistful thinking. Life before this new entry was uncomplicated, and thought this was a ex (or pre)-marital do. My sympathy, pal. Wish I was more help. Is there anything we can do, you know where to reach us. Even it’s some listening ear over escapist pint
i also didnt know what came over me. just didnt want to lie to her cos she just didnt deserve to be lied to… and damn! OC is too smart to be pulling wool over her eyes. she is too observant. but a stupid move nonetheless to be confessing…
it has to be my choice, i know… with all the inputs, i think my choice has become very much clearer. my parents r right, force the wedding bells and be a good boy from then on… already extended my invitation to surfer. u want to attend???
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Clit_LickeR
Migraine shoudnt be taking ponstan. try getting a Doc to prescribe ‘Cafergot" (hope i got the spelling correct…)
thought u only know how to chark people… didnt know u r a doctor. paiseh hor…
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Clit_LickeR
I trully agrees and understand this… i also kena before (few times in fact)…
so now… finally snapped out of these craps and Retire for good… no more Tirak-shits…
finally, a serious (for your standard lah) post from u! thanks. need to join RSC liao…
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McMuff
hey there -
since your relationship with chris is pretty much based on fleshly pleasures if you take that away i think there is nothing much else to root the relationship unlike what you have with koreangf.
agreed… there is something else but yes, not much to base a relationship on.
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and since we all know that staying together is more than just siokanning and things like compatibility, frequency, money, personality all play a part in keeping it together, i think the logical thing to do is to remain with whom you have.
yup, more on mutual trust and of course, the reason was to see whether we r really suitable for each other.
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of course it is easier for us from the outside to comment but in your situation it would be tough to make a decision. but do it nonetheless. the initial few days probably sucks but once you pull through you will feel the relief.
u sure only last a few days??? but will do it nonetheless.
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though i think the tough part will start now since your OC’s trust in you is zilch and you have to do so much just to win it back and anything that causes her suspicion will bring you back to square one. better put more effort on that bro if you think the relationship is worth salvaging.
OC turned a blind eye before. will tell her pre-marital jitters. one last fling before giving up for good. but yes, it will be difficult. just have to let her in into every aspect of my life, at least for the moment.
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i hope things turn out well for you. i think those who chiong whilst in a r/s will often be in a situation similar to you - i think by writing to you i am also reminding myself to avoid a situation like this. take care!
haiz… why must i be the sacrificial lamb here? but avoid putting in the emotions, but take the bonkings… it was good while it lasted.
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p/s - korean girls make good gfs! i had one during my uni days and she refused to let me wash dishes after dinner and she will do every fuck thing while i just relak like a king. nice…..
i was kindly informed of that by an esteemed samster here too, before OC and i got together. maybe he can come out here and own up. and u r right about doing the chores at home. so much so that i got a part-time domestic helper. cos she had to work, come home and yet had to do all those stuff, and refused to let me help her.
thank you all for your valuable advice (posted here and via PMs) and wishing me luck. i too, would like to wish u guys all the best in your lives. cheers.
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surfer888
Here’s one that experience does not help at all. Basically, only 2 choices, follow the heart or head. I’ve made my choice (no hints on which) and have since regretted but then again, it could go either way.
i feel for u… and i should have learned from yr case.
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surfer888
The ang pow with the Burger King Discount vouchers are waiting.
macdonald’s can or not? dont have any burglar king near my office leh…
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solidwoody
There is only 1 thing I can say. Men do not realise the good thing they had until it is gone. For you AXL, I think your heart belongs to your OC. But your dick belongs to Chris.
you r right… i took OC for granted.
but to be fair to OC, in terms of sex, she is comparable to chris.
but have to admit chris looks much better lah, even though OC is already above average.
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Mulch
but i just want to reinforce the fact that your current OC is one amazing chick.
bro, long time no see…
yah, i know. she damn “zhai” while i down here still “ka lang ka boh”!!!
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McMuff
last one from me -
the amazing thing about being in love is - your otherhalf will most likely believe you in whatever you say, mainly because self delusion has kicked in and they cannot believe that you will do this to them so it has to be for some justifiable reason that you did what you did.
so if you come up with a credible story and stick to your guns high chance she will buy it.
thanks, would do just that. will pray hard that it works.
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just like if i catch my gf whom i love dearly in bed with someone, if she claims that she was drunk and thought the guy was me, i will be half inclined to believe her, however stupid it might sound.
u have a big heart… i dont. my salutations to u for that but i certainly dont hope that it happens to u. all the best of luck to u too.
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surfer888
Nothing to learn. Each case presents its own merits… not comparable. As I’ve said, experience means zilch here. Going through a bad marriage doesn’t mean that the next marriage would be better.
but at least it could pre-empt me not to put my heart into it mah… now thinking back, i still have to settle chris today!!! sianz…
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It depends if this week’s edition of the Sunday Times comes with it.
with more friends like u, OC (hopefully CO soon) and i will have to live on discounted fast food for the next 2 years…