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Originally Posted by
hellwarrior666
In your case you’ve spent sometime living with your korean gf hence you know her habits and how she behave when she is at home. you even bring her to see your parents and they like her as she is a filial woman. To be fair to chris the time you spent her is mostly outside and you’ve never lived with her. Furthermore you’ve not brought her to see your parents (which i dun think its appropriate at this point) so how can you tell they will not like her?? Bro its not the qualifications but base on what you analyse I think you are being one sided. I hope you are not offended by what i said but i really hope you make a choice you will never regret. Good luck to you!!
no offence taken, bro. u have a very valid argument.
i really wish that i would have to qualify and compare them. i always believed that when getting a life partner, that person must not only be your first choice, it has to be your only choice. u r right that only i myself would know what i want.
end of the day, chris to me, is still a question mark but OC is an open book to me and a very forgiving one at that.
so my ultimate qualification, who will stand by me, through thick and thin. i have had my fair share of failed relationships and they just dont stick around. when i was younger and just starting in my career, they left me for someone financially more stable. when i was more established but have to travel quite often, they left me for someone who was around. thus my insistence on someone who will be there for me.
dont think i want to go through a relationship having to worry whether she will “zao low” (run away with another man) or not. to me, nothing more important than that. with that, OC is my choice, actually all along. just that i was blindsided with the prospect of having a trophy gf…
thanks for taking the time to post your comments. it was much appreciated. cheers.
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Originally Posted by
surfer888
I’m just not sure if you can keep your pants up while settling this.
actually, i did manage to keep my pants on. but she was crying quite hard. luckily, there was not too many people in the restaurant at 3.30pm in the afternoon. still insisted that she would be satified with a meet-up every week and once in a while, i go pick her up for breakfast.
tempting! but rejected…
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2 Years??? Wah… that’s asking too much. I still need some coupons myself… now giving free apple pie leh
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Originally Posted by
surfer888
You have some BK or Mac’s vouchers? Consolidate into one Ang Pow… afterall he’s looking for 2 year’s worth.
since i know that u have additional commitment coming soon, may i offer u my heartiest congratulations!!! and instead of u giving me ang pow, u be one of my bros lor… then i will end up being the one to give u ang pow… hmm… i still dont have someone to help plan my stag party and since u r so experienced in that field, u r the best man to do it liao!!! like that u get to cheong for free, earn some money, get free wedding dinner and u still get to keep all your vouchers!!!
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Originally Posted by
icesmoke
Bro, i guessed more or less you have already decided who to choose. I know its not gonna be an easy decision but once you chose, move on, dont regret and please dont get yourself into this situation again. (Haha, who am i trying to kid, if got chance to screw a gal like Chris’s description, all of us guys will fall head into this trap first and think about problems later)
yes, chosen liao. called OC in seoul and she forgave me when i told her that it was actually a fling only and that i have broken off from her already, after paying her a sum of money. she commented, “told u so, they want money only lah!” think i will be expecting stricter house rules when she comes back but at least, she didnt want to leave me. hengz!!! once confirmed OC ok, then go and break it off with chris.
actually, if u put me back to the first nite at SJPH, same situation but knowing the end result, i will still bonk chris, period. once in a lifetime, a stunner walks into my life, if i give up the chance, i will live to regret it for the rest of my life. even worse, right?
The only bad thing to come out of this, is that the story will be ending soon. That is unless you gonna post your encounters with your OC,(provided you chose her) just kidding . Take care
cannot post raunchy details with OC lah… everything has to come to an end. as for any other true stories, unless u want the interesting stuff that happen at ktvs, no more liao. for fiction, i cant make up stories very well.
but thanks for your support throughout. sorry for taking up your time at the office but dont think it will happen again…
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Originally Posted by
yinyang
Give yourself credit. Came to your own senses (with some help from home). What a day of reckoning this has been. Red summons, else I gatecrash
credit i wont dare to take. i will take a sigh of relief…
red summons or brother gang? i would need a respectable man to be our alibis leh… last heard u specialise in that role…
will talk again. too much for a day. need to catch up on my sleep…
cheers all.
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Originally Posted by
thomas88
Agrees with bro AXL……you can have some fling outside but OC must always still be number 1.
fling outside, OC always number 1 and also be very careful. strands of hair in the car, your hp and SMSes, your clothes all likely to give u away.
cheers.
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Originally Posted by
thomas88
Hahaha now we’re into C.S.I. investigation…..
yah lah!!! stupid show with so many stupid spinoffs made everyone smarter!!! OCs now know where to look for incriminating evidence already!!!
haiz…
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Originally Posted by
yinyang
Small mercies
telling her what she wanted to hear, as advised.
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Never say die. Me too (if only in your shoes)
never surrender!!! that is just me, the asshole… but at least i m not hypocritical like the samster who zapped me. (if char bor i will understand lah) where got good men in sbf one? only a lot of hard men mah…
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Need alibis and surety myself.
nice to hear that u need to report strength now…
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Originally Posted by
hellwarrior666
good that you’ve chosen whats best for you. wish both of you will walk thru life together happily and also hope you learnt what you are supposed to learn in this life story of yours. All the best bro!!!
thanks for your time. will try my best to be good, at least for a while lah… kekeke…
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Originally Posted by
TamKorSang
I guess all of us stand with bro AXL in his choice. That seems to be the only sensible thing to do.
i will be the first to admit that no matter what i did, someone would get hurt. my choice only reflected my selfishness to think for myself. i m sure OC will be with me, for better and for worse. for chris, i didnt give her enough time to prove that she cared. but trust me when i said i spent an obscene amount of money (to me lah!) on her during that period and she didnt not raise her red flag at all. my choice would have been very much harder if she did, just once. but she didnt at all, just content with lapping it all up. end of the day, i was being judgmental but pls understand my concerns when i just broke off with a gold-digger. last thing i wanted was to have another one of those…
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Nonetheless, my heart goes out to Chris. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not judging. Just that I’ve done my fair share of sin and broken my share of hearts.
my heart goes out to her as well… to be honest, i felt she was sincere about the relationship too. it’s been a long time since i have hurt someone like that but i m sure she will get over it. but 1 thing to compliment her is that when she was with me, she will still get flies calling her to ask her out and she would reject them outright, telling them that she already had a boyfriend. burning her own bridges, not many can do that. i have to give her that.
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Go forth and sin no more?
OC by now, would have raised her own red flag on me… thus would probably be subjected to some ground rules set by her from now on. so, at least for a while, i would.
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Originally Posted by
tomvoyeur
I also support Bro AXL……n the fact that Chris is still up for grabs…..Oops, reveal too much liao…
huh? tot u support chris? she available also useless to u! chris is not interested in hot studs who specialise in picking up girls at SJPS one lah…
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Originally Posted by
kewlest
lol
good luck bro AXL
support ya all the way!
wah lau eh, bro kewlest, laughing at my misfortune leh… but thanks anyway… kekeke…
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Originally Posted by
yinyang
Err, speak for yourself…. me, die hard 1 (and that’s cream of crop)
creme de la creme, eh?
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Academic question, but you wouldn’t know if she stood the test over time.
precisely… well, quite a few minor incidents that i didnt mention, the most obvious being my present car. chris was only basking in it,telling her friends and stuff while OC was questioning me my intentions and reasons why i needed it cos it was quite pricey… guess i just went with the one who didnt mind getting into my bad books for my own good…
with that, this will be a decision i will never regret…
cos i believe beauty will fade, love will deminish, but long-running feelings for each other will eventually take over in the marriage for the long run. i could see myself growing old with OC, i could see myself having great sex with chris, but not beyond that, period. i m ruthless to people who did me wrong, but this is the first time in a long, long while i m ruthless to someone whom i did wrong to. and i feel very bad about it, worse than anyone else could imagine.
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Didn’t miss the small print (after parole)
parole? meaning the rolex watch the prison got those guys to wear on the legs ah??? seen that once in real life… does that work like a GPS tracking system??? hope OC dont go find out more about GPS devices….
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Both Tommy and I are available..but probably useless to her
to be honest, think u stand a better chance cos she doesnt like young men very much at all… cos she intimidates them…
oh, to the other samster who zapped me this morning, u asked me to tell OC thanks… hmm, think u got the wrong person, cos OC doesnt do losers…
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Originally Posted by
surfer888
Good for you to keep your pants on… its kinda wierd having a BBBJ during a breakup with the giver having tears streaming down. Trust me on on that… really wierd feeling.
aiyoh, as expected mah… was still telling me she wanted a goodbye bonk… decided not to reply her message… last nite alone, i got 16 SMSes from her, the last few asking me to fetch her from SJPS. hiaz…
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It never ends and in fact gets worse if the sex continues. Basically, you’re opening up yourself for more sex, confusion, frustration, irritation, anger… possibly in that order.
if i bonk her again, sure no end to it!
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Wah! Offer like that very difficult to resist… now throw in Chris and difficult becomes impossible.
dont want!!! later if u suffer or cause yr divorce, then i really cant live with myself…
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Afterall, wasn’t this what it was all about? Get you to drop Chris so that the rest of us bros have a chance.
by all means, pls go ahead… but if only the guy is able to give her the happiness she is looking for. but definitely not u…kekeke…
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Originally Posted by
surfer888
Very very lucky. My heart goes out to her. Now, remember to keep the details away from her… unless of course she has a fetish for it.
she didnt ask much just now when i fetched her from the airport. just asked me how much i “paid” chris off and whether my ex-gf still bothered my mum. told me that from now on, if going out, must tell her who i m going out with and be subjected to spot checks…
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Hi Fives! I would too! In fact, every fling that I have regretted in the end, I would still go through again if given the chance to start afresh. Only difference is that I would thread about more carefully and cut them off faster and cleaner.
great minds think alike, but fools dont differ…
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No way is any straight man going to give up a chance with a stunner despite the mess it brings about. Milk every opportunity but always sell in time to realize gains. Don’t want to get caught flat-footed when doing a contra. Bound to regret if you let the chance fly past.
who doesnt know about that? but still cum inside what…
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Originally Posted by
surfer888
Number 1 evidence often overlooked… the smell of perfume lingering on the seatbelt.
learnt something new today…
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Originally Posted by
surfer888
More likely a chastity belt with fingerprint & retina scanner.
so must cut her finger and dig out her eye ball before i could eat outside again, isit? u r evil…
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Originally Posted by
tomvoyeur
Support Chris??? She treats u like a trophy bf like u treat her as a trophy gf…No hard feelings but a long-term relationship cannot sustain itself on such things….
i dont know can sustain or not lah… but guess i have to make a choice and i made it lor…
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Btw, I m not a hot stud that pick up gals la….Thats Stoney!!! Dun get mix up next time ya!!
u self declare one… sometimes, dont whether to believe u or not…haiz…
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Another fierce competitor making his intentions known…..Nudge nudge…
bro yy always very subtle but never underestimate his ferocity…
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A good wife is one that care abt ur finances as much as hers…..
my good wife must be one who will question when i splurge… cos i cant control…
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Intimidates?? Glups….Think I better leave her for the wily fox - Bro YY for a lesson on subjugation….
someone who makes on average about 7-8k a month, go out party, drink like crazy and she can pay for bottles all nite long… only shameless scums can be thick-skinned enough to hang around her. intimidating enough for any self-respecting man or not?
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Another competitor??? Welcome to the brigade of Chris’ fan club huh….
surfer is only in for the bbbjs n CIMs…
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Originally Posted by
yinyang
Undeserved flattery. Wily fox I’m not, only horny wolf (in sheep’s clothing?!). So pity I can’t handle vixens, kekekeke
so fast already using the “underestimate me please” strategy on your competitors liao ah???
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Originally Posted by
ml1138
So Wish you and OC the best of Luck and live a happy and ever lasting marriage.
thanks, i need all the luck tonite when i propose…
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Only sad thing for me is, I have to dismantle my tent and put it in the store and don’t know when I can use it back again
thanks for your support, my No.1 camper…
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Originally Posted by
d(^_^)b
Wild fire or not no one knows except for bro AXL himself. But nevertheless though how much everyone votes for OC, we still have to give our respect to Chris for willing to try fightin for her own happiness even though she knows that her chances are never / not yet there.
The road ahead is long and winding, but everyone is entitled to make their own decisions. Right or wrong, only time will tell.
yup, i respected chris for her tenacity… she really pulled all the stops. but i can only say 相逢恨晚. but i m sure this is the right decision.
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Originally Posted by
SBF 密探
nice encounter……
thanks, u r just in time before the thread dies a natural death…
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Originally Posted by
One Wish
Good story you written….can see that you are one lucky guys…
lucky only if i pulled out earlier… but lucky that OC forgave me… thanks for the appreciation.
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Originally Posted by
TD042
Really rare encounter…..have rate the thread for FULL STAR!!!
But it only increase by one star…kekkeke
haha… think the zapper really dont like me very much… too bad, he didnt have the balls to put down the real reason why… cos 2 days back, i notice the stars and it read 5 stars, 3 ratings. so he/she rated it as 1 star.
but he too late liao… story ended liao…
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Originally Posted by
surfer888
If you did fetch her, can bet she’ll either be drunk or pretending to be drunk.
not possible… was on full silent mode cos i slept very early last nite. only saw it when i woke up to go for my run this morning.
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Believe me, it’ll be worse than before. She lost once and would not want to lose again so easily.
since u r speaking from experience, of course i would believe u.
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No need lah… I don’t have much of an appetite for backdoor action anyway.
ok then…
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Definitely cannot afford the Cartier. Even the price of room service meals would make me squirm. McDonald’s delivery and Baby-G good enough for her?
i dont know, maybe if u r good looking enough lor. think u have to ask her yourself… for me, i dont have the looks, so have to make up for it some other way mah…
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Hate the spot checks… what does she do for that? Blow your Breathalyser?
that kind of spot check ah??? doesnt that look like OC is getting the short end of the stick???
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That was just my balls thinking.
great balls think alike, but dicks dont differ.
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Keep wet wipes in the car.
got wet wipes, but all used up to wipe didi leh… kekeke…
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You owe me a coffee for that coz I spat mine out when I read this. Nearly choked as well
go ask from dan brown… whenever i see/hear retina scan, i would think of digging out the eyeballs in his angels and demons novel…