I had been chatting on Seeking for a while. Although the success rate isn’t very good, still I had to finish a subscription cycle before deciding whether I wanted to continue.
I had been chatting with 2 ladies, one a young lady, let’s call her Betty, and an older one in her 30s, whom we shall call Fran.
I had been chatting the 2 for a while now, but hadn’t really planned on meeting them. What I didn’t particularly like was that their photos were rather heavily edited, or else she refused to show her full face.
On a site like Seeking, usually that’s a red flag …
One fine day in the midst of this chatting, Betty suddenly mentioned that she and Fran were friends and they both realized they were chatting with me. Somehow or other the talk shifted to the possibility of a 3p session. They quoted me a sum and told me to think about it, promising all kinds of interesting scenarios
The idea of that 3p session kept floating in my mind. The quoted amount to me was high, in the sense that I was essentially paying an amount I would not have paid them individually, as they didn’t really piqued my interest. After all would I pay that sum for a lady in her 30s and a girl whose pics were so heavily edited ? In all probability, no ….
But as things would have it with looking for somebody to meet, whenever there is a drought of people to meet, eventually the frustration grows. I kept thinking of the off days I had that came and went without meeting up anyone. And spending long moments on the site sending messages with poor responses added to the frustration.
Eventually I decided to give the session a try.
I guess I’m naturally a cautious person, due to many experiences over the years.
Even on the actual day of the session I was feeling uncomfortable about it. It was to be held at a residence, which made me think up all kinds of scenarios about blackmail hidden cams etc
The lady Fran who arranged the meeting kept asking me about the payment and this added to the stress.
All this while Fran kept saying her friend Betty was Grabbing down as well
I contemplated for a while downstairs, before finally going up.
When I went up to the unit, the person opening the door was wearing only a kimono like top, nothing underneath that, and panties. But she looked old, in her mid 30s. There was another person sitting behind a corner whom I could not see clearly.
When I walked over to her, I could see she was much younger, perhaps in her 20s and she had rather sharp features. Fran the older lady tried to make small talk and when the younger lady replied I could tell she wasn’t local from her English.
She said she was Korean (hmm) so let’s call her Kim. She was wearing just a T-shirt and panties.
I walked around the apartment, in case there were cams or someone else in the room. Fran kept asking for payment and that made me more cautious. In the end I paid her about two-thirds the amount as advance pay. I was persuaded to shower first but came out of the shower dressed as well.
We entered the bedroom which consisted of just a thin mattress on the floor. Well okaaaay. We chatted awhile before they asked if I wanted to continue
After some hesitation and small talk we proceeded to the bedroom with the thin mattress on the floor. The 2 ladies proceeded with their action.
I must admit, for myself, that 3p in reality is always not as shiok as what we see in AV. For one it’s certainly not as sensational as I imagined. Perhaps it’s also partly the fact that both girls were not those I’d be thrilled with. Fran was older than what I preferred normally, although Kim was younger and better looking. I’d would have enjoyed myself better just taking her on alone.
Kim also didn’t allow pussy play, which was something I enjoyed. Kim did mount me whilst Fran licked me, but I preferred frenching Kim whilst Fran blew me rapidly. Fran also mounted me, looking red in the face as she did so, but we ultimately went back to me frenching Kim whilst Fran blew me. The combined sensation soon led to my exploding violently into Fran’s mouth.
Upon my release into Fran’s mouth, I was rather disappointed when Kim dressed up to go off. I was of the impression that I could come twice, since theoretically I paid for 2.
Also by this time, the conversations I had with Kim made me feel something wasn’t right. For one, Kim said that she was no longer on Seeking, yet I was sure I’ve seen them both on the site. When I asked how she and Fran realized that they both knew me, she was utterly clueless about what I just said.
I came to the conclusion that the second person I initially was supposed to meet ( Betty) was a different person. And that Kim had switched a partner (Kim) without telling me. That pissed me off a little.
I later confronted Fran and she slowly admitted that I was right. She also reluctantly agreed to let me come again, agreeing to blow me again
Try as she did, I simply could not come again. I think without the sensation of frenching at the same time, having a much older lady blow me simply wasn’t going to make it. In the end I agreed to stop. I can’t fault Fran since she did try hard.
I also slowly realized that maybe Fran had contacts for such lobangs. I don’t believe her story that both Kim and Betty were her “friends”. I mean, just how many friends does a person ordinarily will have, whom you can ask to join you in a 3some.
Perhaps Fran had lobangs for this. And true enough, she started showing me pics on her phone of her “friends “ who could do this. So, from a not so great encounter, I managed to find a lobang of sorts. Hopefully it’ll mean there will be opportunities to try different persons in future, without having to resort to apps and ads.
And you know how it is with life. When you have a dry spell without finding any contacts, suddenly a flood opens and you have lots of opportunities. Why do I say this ?
In addition to Fran, suddenly one of my past SBs reappeared on Seeking and we managed to hook up again. Hoping to meet Coraline soon !!!
How irritating is it to have a couple of people lined up to meet, but not being able to find the timing to meet with them.
Damn …
Well none of the meets from the Sugar sites have panned out. (I actually have 2 subscriptions on 2 sites which I’m not planning to continue)
Ironically and as I’ve stated, my latest encounter still came from a response to my Locanto ads.
This person, let’s call her Wyn, contacted me recently to ask about my ads. And as per usual, the discussion went on Tele and we discussed for a while. We discussed rates, what we were going to do and finally, where and when to meet.
Apparently she works in F&B and has limited off days. As I myself also had shift work and limited off days, the question was more of when and where we could meet, rather than if we SHOULD meet.
It seemed like finding a mutually agreeable time and place was difficult. We contemplated a quickie kind of meet but that wasn’t really appealing to me because, if there were delays or someone was late, it would affect the quality of the meet.
After what seemed like a very prolonged period of discussion we finally agreed to meet. However another snag popped up in the discussion, when she told me she wasn’t keen on budget hotels, or “love hotels” as she calls them.
She suggested using BnB to find. By this time I was rather weary at whether we were going to meet up, so I told her sure, but if you want to meet at BnB then she would have to book it. To my surprise she actually agreed to do so and contacted me shortly, saying she had managed to find a place at a central location.
I realized the location she selected was still a hotel, but at least it wasn’t a “love hotel”. I agreed to reimburse the hotel costs. At the very least if the meet didn’t go ahead it’s only for the cost of a relatively inexpensive room and I must admit, I haven’t yet met anyone who was enthusiastic enough about meeting to go ahead and search for and book a room on her own accord.