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Originally Posted by
haikim999
Also,do u have a lookalike pic of Serena?
Hmm good question.
What about I share the actual pic of the Serina ?
Imagine my frustration when she finally messaged me to say she couldn’t meet today.
I messaged her to ask for a reschedule, but she wasn’t very responsive.
When she finally replied a day or so later, she actually asked for a new rate, which was double what we had originally agreed upon !
I only managed to read this message of hers the next morning.
You can imagine my frustration at that point in time. Not only did I not get to meet her after all that anticipation, but the frustration and anger when I saw her new, doubled rate !
I kept messaging her asking for a discussion, but throughout that day there was no response from her …..
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Originally Posted by
haikim999
Well, if that’s convenient for u, I guess we would be all ok with it
look forward to seeing her pics!
“All” would be ok ? Or just yourself?
Sure it’s convenient for me, but not sure if the girls themselves will like it. What do you think?
Imagine my frustration when she finally messaged me to say she couldn’t meet today.
I messaged her to ask for a reschedule, but she wasn’t very responsive.
When she finally replied a day or so later, she actually asked for a new rate, which was double what we had originally agreed upon !
I only managed to read this message of hers the next morning.
You can imagine my frustration at that point in time. Not only did I not get to meet her after all that anticipation, but the frustration and anger when I saw her new, doubled rate !
I kept messaging her asking for a discussion, but throughout that day there was no response from her …..
Some guy messaged me with a contact number here.
And when I replied asking for an intro, he replied with “you have girl?” From what I gathered from his posts, he is into couples exchange or swapping.
When I asked for a proper intro from him, all he replied was that he messaged many people.
I find his approach downright abrupt and rather rude, considering he messaged me first.
I rather not deal with people like that, sorry
I kept messaging her asking for a discussion, but throughout that day there was no response from her …..
When finally she responded, she accused me of being clingy, but all I wanted was for a discussion with her!
At one point, she even accused me of implying that I insisted on a meet, for if she didn’t it would mean she was only after money !
At some point during the argument though, she finally let out that she asked for a doubled rate, because she met someone who offered her about that amount.
My feeling was, any arrangement she had with someone else was between them, for we had an ongoing agreement. But her point was that ours was a per meet arrangement with no obligations, and it was up to her to set a rate each meet.
I had hoped so much that our sessions, being so enjoyable, would at least persuade her to discuss but nope.
She insisted that to her, emotional connection was important, but it seemed to me that, to her, she was just going after the highest bids. So ironic !!
Some guy messaged me with a contact number here.
And when I replied asking for an intro, he replied with “you have girl?” From what I gathered from his posts, he is into couples exchange or swapping.
When I asked for a proper intro from him, all he replied was that he messaged many people.
I find his approach downright abrupt and rather rude, considering he messaged me first.
I rather not deal with people like that, sorry
I kept messaging her asking for a discussion, but throughout that day there was no response from her …..
When finally she responded, she accused me of being clingy, but all I wanted was for a discussion with her!
At one point, she even accused me of implying that I insisted on a meet, for if she didn’t it would mean she was only after money !
At some point during the argument though, she finally let out that she asked for a doubled rate, because she met someone who offered her about that amount.
My feeling was, any arrangement she had with someone else was between them, for we had an ongoing agreement. But her point was that ours was a per meet arrangement with no obligations, and it was up to her to set a rate each meet.
I had hoped so much that our sessions, being so enjoyable, would at least persuade her to discuss but nope.
She insisted that to her, emotional connection was important, but it seemed to me that, to her, she was just going after the highest bids. So ironic !!
The Serina incident affected me badly. In the end I realised that, emotional connection means nothing, nothing at all in this circle we travel in ..
Coraline was of great help, trying to advise and console me. She let it be known to me that, Serina did not care at all about how I felt, nor was the feelings I felt with Serina, mutual.
I am grateful that at least Coraline was mature in her thinking and gracious. At the very least, she had integrity and understood that an agreement was an agreement.
I resolved to increase Coraline’s rates when next we met, to the best of my ability, and told her so. What impressed me a lot was that she left that decision to me, and was understanding about it and did not want to pressure me regarding this.
She really is a wonderful wonderful person.
At one point, I messaged Coraline for advice too, till it became sort of a 3-way conversation at one point, with me forwarding messages from one to the other.
After protracted discussions, Serina did apologise and admitted she could have handled the rate increase better, but from then on, the arrangement was as good as dead.
i don’t understand how, an arrangement as good as that, could have come to such an abrupt end. Couldn’t the rates increase be discussed? I understand that she might have wanted more, but is there no room for compromise or even an understanding how the increase could be handled ?
The incident really left me utterly disillusioned.
Emotional connection sounds good on their profiles, but really really means nothing at all …..