hi everyone, I’m new here and I’m posting to seek some advise…
call me stupid but I just lost my job and got cheated of all of my money by a man. I was introduced to this forum through a common friend.
I am at my wits end and do not know what else can earn me some money to feed my family while I find a new full time job. I’m currently part timing but having problems arranging time.
I’m actually already in my early 30s, sadly speaking belong to the big size side, a uk 16.
I have no idea if FL is legal or how to go about it and if I am too old for it or are there FLs whom does not have sex but other services instead.. I have not tried this before and would never do this if I had other ways out but the situation is a little complicated so after a friend shared this site with me I decide to try and see if this is a 出路 or just another 死路…
just a little information about me.
I’m 33 this year, 162cm, 8xkg, size uk16.
I used to work in the counselling industry but I lost my job due to personal reasons and have been trying to meet ends meet since..
please feel free to give some advise or pm me or email me at
[email protected]
thank you everyone.. and I’m sorry if this is a wrong place to post.
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watever1
If you are holding a class 3 license, please go and drive for Uber/ Grab.
No i dont hace a license.
Hi all thanks for the messages and advises.
I am looking at alternatives instead of FL to be honest. I grow up in a christian family and went to church only until last year. But FL is one of my last options to consider.
I know i am not of very good calibre and cannot ask for good price and am old too.
Just a little information.
I worked in the counselling line and specialise in marriage counselling. But i lost my job because of one client, its complicated and also 邪门 stuff is related so i do not want to eleborate too much on it openly. I do believe my client husband is a member here so.
And just as luck would have it i thought lost my job could finally relax and enjoy life a little at home, but my ex invested all my money and lost it all (at mbs). Needless to say its history.
I currently took up some translation job as well as freelance counseling, meeting some old clients outside or phone counseling. but its hard to arrange time as i have family committments that required me to be home sometimes. The idea of fl came up and this site during one of my session with my client so i was desperate enough to come here and try.
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Originally Posted by
Angeline1716
Sis,
can be like me - washing cars?
how do I start?
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Originally Posted by
pirateinsg
Please you can still try to find some jobs out there to sustain yourself first
I’m currently still following up with some old client for counselling outside. and a walker for ubereats (if some members here wants to ask if I can WALK, yes, I can walk for hours and I can jog on the threadmill for an hour too.) am also looking for more home based jobs as my current situation is abit complicated.
firstly,
thanks all for the bashing and also those for the encouraging comments.
I don’t look down on FLs. I respect them. and I also understand that I am not cut out for this trade. but reading the comments still hurt anyway, I’m only human so I am sorry if I am being overly defensive.
I’m also thankful to the person whom gotten my WhatsApp, and started encouraging me to go gamble away whatever I earned yesterday, telling me I could change 100 into 500 by gambling.
as well as the person whom did gave me a helping hand.
thanks all for the advices up till now.
my current situation is a little tricky at home, and its nearly impossible for me to work full time. which is why I’m doing these ubereats and tuition assignments or translation jobs.
and further more before I lost my job, I started my own online business. which explains why I have no savings (prior to being cheated away of all my money). and I also spent a bomb on facebook adverts but for some reason these adverts only bought me weird people from arab or the Philippines instead of local crowd though I choose my target audience.
perhaps those thinking of using facebook adverts could take this lesson from me.
again I appreciate all inputs. and yes, I am at my wits end now. but still, its ok if people wants to continue judging me for my size or looks.
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Originally Posted by
comm
How much are u earning from uber eats
Online biz do u have stock ? If u have stock then just faster clear stock by cutting the price
Uber eats to be honest maybe only $30 for few hours of walking. Got uber fees and all.
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Originally Posted by
purepulp
Hi TS, you mentioned something about translation. Are you a good writer? or have written professionally? If yes, please PM me.
Have pm u.
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strikeback4
TS if you still have any remaining stocks and wish to continue your e-commerce business, you can PM me for advice
Will pm u.
Thanks all for the advices once again.
Im not sitting wallowing in self pity and doing nothing.
As for my online business its service oriented but not a popular industry and probably not a good idea to make it public here.
thanks all for the replies.
will check out honest bee.
as for the last comment.
heres my reply to you. I actually typed out a very mild and long reply but I wifi was cut off so I couldn’t send here.
have you been dumped or hurt by some plus size girls? if you did and became obsessed w hurting others, I’m sorry for you. seek help if you need.
firstly, yeah my online English sucks, I gotta admit to that. and basically my Chinese has always been way better than my English, I belong to those that get As for Chinese without studying.
secondly, I think you didn’t read my post. I said someone got my number from here, and apps me, encouraging me to gamble my last cent away so I could make it $500 from $100. did I say I gambled my last cents away? btw, I do occasionally buy 4d and toto if that’s wad you meant.
thirdly, thanks for googling for the photos. but the first lady, nope I don’t look like that. I think u gotta understand there are many definitions to uk16. looks wise shes cuter than me. and the second photo, again, wads the connection to me? I’m not looking for a bf eh, and I don’t want anyone like that either. btw, everyone has e rights to decide wad they want so wads wrong w her request? hmm, maybe u r hurt and u do get some satisfaction from body shaming people. that’s fine. hurt people hurt, ive been in the counselling line long enough to know this.
also, I wanted easy money so I got into this state?
(those whom are not interested to read on can stop here, don’t waste brain cells.)
I did not invest in the advance funeral industry thinking I can make easy money out of it. this is not like some beauty spa or whatever shit. please get your facts clear before concluding that fat people = lazy.
and no one expects to lose their job all over a sudden and getting into debts.
also, yah in some aspect I gotta say I’m dumb. spent a bomb on fb adverts thinking it can bring me some local clients but it bought me all weird people from arab instead. I gotta admit I didn’t do enough study on fb adverts because I’m not an active online marketer.
FL as my initial way out?
Hello. you know me before I posted this thread issit? or are you the idiot whom gotten me into this state? cannot be, hes 164cm. hmm unless you are lying about your height behind the screen. after reading through this forum, I don’t think there is a need to learn how to be a FL, and I don’t think its easy money either because of people like you that is out to hurt.
Am I sitting here doing nothing wallowing in self pity? Right, if you think so, then I am.
Why do I say you are against me? because I posted a thread asking for advice. you insulted me for being worst than a cat50 (I had to ask around to know whats that btw), I thank you for the humiliation. instead of moving on, you even spend the time to go google for photos to further crash me.
hey, does it make you feel better to see me beaten? I sure hope so.
thanks
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Originally Posted by
comm
Tbh ur physical stats are worse than a cat 50 … thats why we are all encouraging u to choose a non fl route…
maybe u can start a new thread title so we can move away from discussing about fl , and more about normal part time ad hoc jobs
Where can i start a new thread
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kate0808t
Where can i start a new thread
I know am worst. Perhaps not even fit to be alive.
Thanks all for the advices.
On a side note does anyone know what is a good way to get fundings for small businesses.
I consulted someone whom claims to be gathering funds for businesses but he wants me to pay one lump sum for his service first. Am only looking for small investment amounts.
Sorry if this is the wrong place to ask.
Theres a death at home.
Allow some time for grief.
It would be ironic to say i now do believe in the existence of black magic and theres no escape. Pastors and cell groups will now tell you these are illusions and coincidence or that you are under the devil influence.