Why after her decision??!! The problem is not your marriage but you. What has this got to do with her decision. Do yourself a favour and just go for the classes. Is it only you who is in so much self denial or are we all wrong. Go read this post I found for you and hopefully you will understand what women in general are talking about people like you.
http://weddingideas.com/forum/forum_…=1868&PA GE=1
Personally I don’t think you are a bad person, just lost. There is no point in self reproach if you do not change. Period!~!!! Go to IMH website. They will have anger management courses. If they don’t they will refer you to one. For your own and your future wife sake, just do it. if you love yourself(not your wife) go. I am sure many will support your decision and we will hope for the best for you.
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justwanadoit
thanks bro. but i think i will consider counselling after her decision to accept me back or not.
but I still cannot imagine I am one of those wife beaters that newspapers talk about, how can it be?
Shucks….is my fate sealed? i dun wanna to be wife beater leh.wtf. oh man…really feel like…sigh
You need to tighten up your explosion behaviour and control you emotion let-off, as it will surely lead into a severe consequence later on. Your future wife muz be equally appalled by your second slaping incident. Inside her, she might still love you, but such incident could leave her a deep internal scar, which may make her re-consider her future with you now. Let her have a cooling period at this moment. Take care, go easy.
You are a wife beater fullstop
Guess it boosted your ego big time when you hands met flesh huh?
Guys like you are not meant to be married
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Landlord
Why after her decision??!! The problem is not your marriage but you.
Bros Landlord is right. To prove tat u really wan to change, seek counsel, it is the root of the problem. Maybe she see u changin, there is a hope.
But doesnt mean tat if she choose to leave u in the end, u no need to seek counsel anymore. If u dun solve tis problem every of ur wife-to-be will face the same problem again……
I know what I write here may not be pleasant to you but it will save you from prison in the future…
If you gf before marrying you is capable to make you so angry that you had slapped her twice, I will bet a million dollars that you’ll beat her up in one of your quarrels after you marry her and it will be police case and you’ll end up in jail..
You can’t even control your temper now, before you marry her.
After she has become your wife, your tolerance level will be even lower, and she will make you more angry, you’ll even feel like killing her in the future…
Save yourself! I think they cane wife abuse in Singapore….