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Originally Posted by
DashinGuy
Take the advice of all bros here, and dump the girl before it becomes too late. Trust me, your marriage is a lot more valuable than this one-time thing. And you will be starting a family7 soon, so you will need to spend more time with your wife and baby. The guilt of leaving them or neglecting them will drive you mad bro, so please endure the small sacrifice now, for the greater good you will enjoy in future.
Its just not worth it.
I totally agree bro…
SO my advise is… Wana Drink MILK DUN BRING THE WHOLE COW BACK HOME LA!
bro, give up the young girl… go for a more stable family.. wat the girl can give u, u can achieve similar satisfaction using your hands, with no troubles after that.. but what your wife can give you (a stable n loving family), it takes lots of time to build…
Everyone is telling you not to leave your wife and you can be sure I’m also going to do the same. But I’d suggest you never reveal this affair to your wife at all as some things are better left unknown.
The other things I’ll advice is don’t tell the syt you’re married which will break her heart for she might not be able to take that and do something stupid. Just tell her in a nice way that both of you are not compatible or whatever method you know that will not cause her devastating effect.
I can’t tell you what to do. My friend also had a similar experience but had a slightly different twist. His wife wasn’t pregnant and his gf was actually the wife (pretend her name is June) of another man.
My friend (pretend his name is George) got acquainted with this man (pretend his name is Philips) in business. Philips found George to be very trustworthy and reasonably well to do. Philips suffers from ED and has severe heart problems and his lifespan is limited. Philips offered June to be George’s GF so that he will take care of her.
George fell in love with June but he had a wife at the same time. In the end, he managed to convince his wife into allowing him to keep a minor wife at the side. The story is quite long but I have shortened it.
If threadstarter can persuade his wife and gf to let him have the best of both worlds, then his worries and frustrations will be over for now. As most ladies will not agree to polygamy, I think it is useful for him to be transparent with his gf and end the relationship before the hurt gets deeper. Be prepared to compensate the gal some money if it helps.
leave the syt loh bro..no matter u really love or dun love her just take it as a fling and forget it..
if u sit down and think carefully you will still leave her voluntarily wan..wife and child more impt..pls dun make the crucial wrong turn of yr life nw..