Hi bros/sis, thanks for the many support you’ve given in the past month or so. The funny comments that i read on my thread/PM sometimes tickle me, the serious ones i’m thankful for you being able to relate to my story, the advertisers… well u shd probably pay me some fee for using my thread or at least upz me lah!
So sorry that my story is still on-going with no clue as to when it may end… some people prefer watching a 2 hr movie and some prefer watching a 50 part serial. I know i can be very lor sor if i want to hahaha… don’t blame me if it’s not to your liking k! Will continue soon!
cheers
Notwithstanding we’re in the modern era, at the back of my mind, i wondered if i could still be butchered by a raging jealous husband chasing me with a chopper. That scene kept replaying in my head, over and over again…
Somehow, my relationship with Danine progressed to another level from that day on… She really didn’t seem to care about being secretive when she was out with me anymore. We’d go out in the broad daylight and she would initiate holding hands, at times introducing me as her bf to some of her friends that we bumped into (those hi-bye frds whom do not know her husband).
This was the start of a new chapter, we were like a real couple and it was what I’ve always wanted. Danine knows this, and she was doing everything she could to please me. Sometimes it even felt like she wanted our relationship to be found out by her husband. She would meet me almost everyday and go back home late constantly, spend her weekends with me. Perhaps it was easier for her this way rather than to say it out in words to him…
Me: How’s everything with him?
Danine: we haven’t spoken much lately
Me: doesn’t he get angry when you…
Danine: I think he is trying to avoid the topic… And I just don’t know how to talk to him about it… I feel guilty when I see him like this… Fact is, he’s done nothing wrong… (Sobbing)
Me: he knows that you’re seeing someone?
Danine: yes he should know, caught him checking through my messages on my hp the other day
Me: funny lei, he nvr call me… How abt u? Do u really know what u want?
Danine: ever since we broke up the other time, I know I can’t do without you in my life… But now… I can’t bring myself to hurt him…
I know it wasn’t easy for Danine, I felt bad about the situation too. Someone had to be sacrificed in this relationship. Love is selfish I guess.
To be continued.
During the past months that we’ve been together, Danine and I didn’t really talk about her “bf” much… afterall, it was really just all about us. Danine never liked mentioning about her “bf”. Maybe she didn’t want to make comparisons, or it could be she didn’t want to add in more lies to cover the initial one that she was actually married… I never did ask her why. Well for me, I didn’t want to remind her about anyone else when she was with me just so that we could truly enjoy each other’s company.
Later on into the relationship, we were probably in self denial and decided not to have the topic of her “bf” altogether. But the day came when we couldn’t live in our fantasy world anymore. I came to realize that she was married and her hubby too found out about us. Thinking back, it was just a matter of time wasn’t it. So for the first time, Danine and i spoke about her hubby in detail. What was he really like, their common interests… the feelings that she felt for him… even down to the point about his relationship with her parents, siblings.
So here’s the chapter on Danine’s “bf”.
If I were to give him an anonymous name, I’d think Leonardo or Leonard suits his character pretty well. Not Leonardo Dicaprio from Titanic, Leonardo from teenage mutant ninja turtles (if you did not watch TMNT cartoon series when you were younger, you may not get it). Leonard was not those suave romantic types, he was a more stable matured type of dude. Faithful to his family, contented… the typical Mr Nice Guy type of character.
(To be continued)
Ps: Happy Chinese New Year to all! Gong xi fa cai!
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alyo07
It makes me LOL so loud.
What’s the difference you agreeing at her to know she married, even though you know she had a BF. Is the same right ? Screwing other person’s partner is wrong.
Well, at least for me it is.
This is just my opinion but with a bf, she’s single (and available) as she still hv the right to choose her partner. To me marriage is an act of commitment. To some others, marriage could be sacred. I do apologise that i’m screwing someone else’s gf but i feel that it’s vastly different (being single or married) so let’s just agree to disagree here bro. Cheers.
So where was I… Oh ya, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles!
Leo, the ninja turtle that Danine married. (Ok, I must admit I’m still feeling a little sour abt him)
Without bias, Leo was this kind of dude. Tall, athletic, matured and responsible. They met each other while they were in JC, where I understand he was active in most sports… Yaabbaaarabbbaaa… But for one thing that I knew, I knew he loved Danine. I think Danine got his virginity or sumtin, he always did what she wanted, bought her stuff that she fancied, ate what she liked, watch the kind of movies or TV that she prefers… Got along great with her parents and sister. He was this stable dude that most conservative parents would want for a son-in-law. An asshole totally. Her parents and sister hated me for coming into their life.
He once texted me this: Fxxk you, you ccb kia. Don’t let me see you!
I texted back: So much for first impressions. I guess we can’t be friends.
He texted back with threats asking me to meet him. I’m pretty sure there’s a million things that he would like to do to me, none of them good I suppose. Here’s a man raging with strong emotions, thoughts of losing his wife, his soul mate, his life companion that he loves so much… with jealousy clouding over his better judgement, he may just go crazy on me. But that’s when I realise that it’s just a thin line between love and insanity… I actually agreed to meet him instantaneously.
(To be continued)
Oh man, my previous set of readers are gonna hate me. It’s literally 15 years and I still haven’t completed my story. My apologies… if you guys are still around! Different priorities came into my life. My daughter. And I just took a break from writing, but never thought it’ll be this long. She’s turning 6 this year and have this angelic face just like her mummy.
Nice to see some familiar bros here! Since you guys like anti climax, and also just in case I don’t finish up my story again… You won’t need to wait another 6 years for this, I’ll go straight to the part where a number of you may be interested to know the most.
Spoiler alert
Sorry to disappoint, but Danine and I broke up not long after I met up with her hubby. It had nothing to do with her hubby said or do that day that I met him, though it was an exciting day full of drama. I went to meet him alone but her parents and Sis were there, her hubby’s brother was there as well… we might as well just have reunion dinner and play blackjack after that.
Oh yea, there was also a scene where Danine threatened to commit suicide when her family all dissuaded her from being with me.
Well to summarise in the short version, there was just too much going that kept us from being together… Her parents and her sis that are very very close with her hubby, their hse together, our friends, my family. There was no fairy tale ending between us.
We never actually said “break” but somehow, one day, we just never kept in contact. I did think whether if she’d call or message me one day… but weeks, months passed with no initiative from her so I guess she didn’t like drama as much as her family and neither did I.
It was roughly 6 years from the day we broke where I met her by chance on this fateful day. We walked past each other in town, she was in office wear and seems like she was otw to somewhere and I was with a male friend. I turned back to look at her and she still looked the same… sweet, pretty, with her chestnut long hair flowing to her back untied. She stopped to look back at me. We gave each other a familiar smile as if to reminisce on what could have been and moved on with our lives.
That day was 26 October 2012. The day before I continued my story.
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soggypanties
TS, very curious to know how you got pass that month plus being apart from her? I would imagine it to be torturous 1st few days followed by emotions raging from the loss and sudden missing of pleasure. How did you distract yourself and cope with your urges during that time? This is something I’m sure most bros wanna know so that in times of a major fight we don’t go running back begging like a wimpy boy.
Bro, just try not to don’t think about it.. nothing is important unless you make it important to you. You can bury yourself in work, focus on your hobbies/passion, adopt a healthy lifestyle and go gym, jogging, swimming etc. During this period I think the worst you can do to yourself is to be a slut and just go for any rebound relationship, if your feelings are true towards that gal, it doesn’t help you emotionally and you’ll probably just end up hurting the gal you rebound with.
It was roughly 6 years from the day we broke where I met her by chance on this fateful day. We walked past each other in town, she was in office wear and seems like she was otw to somewhere and I was with a male friend. I turned back to look at her and she still looked the same… sweet, pretty, with her chestnut long hair flowing to her back untied. She stopped to look back at me. We gave each other a familiar smile as if to reminisce on what could have been and moved on with our lives.
That day was 26 October 2012. The day before I continued my story.
Right after Danine and I “chilled’”, for me it was mostly just work and hanging out with friends. Whenever I missed Danine, I just made myself so busy till the thought passes… I didn’t want to rush into another relationship and whatever emptiness I felt, I just refocused it onto something else.
Xmas came, and some of my friends (Gary and Serene, Ryan and Charlotte) planned for a get together and we had planned for a Secret Santa gifts exchange at Gary’s place. They were all attached to each other and to them I was like the odd one that seemingly had no Gf for ages since my last one months back (they didn’t know about Danine).
Try to digest this cause it’s kinda complicated: I got to know Gary, Ryan and Serene from my workplace. Charlotte is Ryan’s Gf (From another industry, non sales related). Gary was in the same team as Danine and Sharon, I’m from another team. Ryan was also from another team, but in the same team with Serene (Gary’s Gf) and they had a new colleague that just joined them… an ex SQ girl, her name is Ann.. Which I will go into later (pun not intended).
Basically there are over 30 teams in my workplace… It’s a big organisation, but we all got to know each other because of sales recognition and social events, we often travelled for customer appointments and if we were around the same area, there’s a high degree of certainty that we’ll go for coffee and chat. Through time, the 5 of us just clicked and became the best of friends, hanging out all the time.
Ryan: Hey Serene, how about inviting our new colleague over for Xmas, her name is Ann right?
Serene (with a cheeky smile): My new BFF ah lol, you sure you forgot her name?Ok sure… if Charlotte doesn’t mind!
Charlotte (playfully pinching on Ryan’s lap): Don’t worry, Ryan will have no chance when I am here… Right dear?
Ryan: Ouch ouch, thinking for my bro Damian la!
Me: Worry for yourself bro… see la make Charlotte Mei Mei upset! Guys, it’s been some time since we last chilled at Gary’s, let’s just have it amongst us and drink ourselves silly.. it’ll be fun!
Serene: What if Ann wanna come har? You anti social ah Damian?
Me: Cmon babe.. It’s gonna be awkward if you guys try to push us together lol
Gary: Don’t force our bro la haha.. He is the legend hor, my female colleagues always ask about him..
Ryan: True that bro, respect that aura when he comes in for appointments, saying “hi guys” to the girls in the team that pop by to peek at him and they actually love it wth..
Serene (Cheeky smile again): One of them was Ann? Damian…
TBC