Bro Wanz, what is that you want out of this relationship? Or can it be treated as a form of relationship? What is your status? Given the limited info you had given, 1000RMB will not get you anywhere. Which city are you talking about? What kind of cashier pay 1500RMB? If you are looking for sex, there are aplenty, if you looking for love, look elsewhere. End of the day, there are no free lunch, especially in China.
Illusions commend themselves to us because they save us pain and allow us to enjoy pleasure instead. We must therefore accept it without complaint when they sometimes collide with a bit of reality against which they are dashed to pieces.
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Tr|pp|ng
Dear wanz,
Firstly, you’ve been misinformed on the “er-nai” fees. 1000-2000 rmb will get you nowhere to be honest. The going rates are at least 5000 to even 30000 rmb. And most of them would even “Tau chiak” when you’re not around.
Exactly….Taiwanese , Honky and Japanese expatriates are well known to keep mistresses in China….n t “going rate " is more than RMB10000 /mth…
in Guangzhou….there is a place (cunt remember the name) where most of these mistress stays (put up by foreigners )…it is a “open” secret…
On 1 of my trip to Guangzhou …met 1 FLs (at KTV)…stayed with her for 5 nites in a row….she did not asked me to “yang” her …instead she had been calling me almost everynite n oni “charged” me for 3 nites ….. My collegue’s incident was different …on t first nite …his FLs tried her lucks n request for a house and propose RMB 8000/mth to be HIS…..
The story here is “don’t let your DICK dictates you !”…be “street-wise”….
Please help me to up the points, man. I got zap till left 6.
This delayed posting thing is really inconvenient.
Now bros here, thanks for your comments.
Firstly, I am not in love.
Secondly, I use her for alot of sex. The lowest $ invested per lay for me.
Thirdly, I kind of know the art of bargaining in china quite good.
Fourthly, I dun care if she fuck some body else.
Fifth, there are rich gentleman who pay rmb10-30k per mth for er-nai.
Sixth, there are street-smart who pay rmb2k per mth for er-nai.
Seventh, how can I lose? Just stop pay rent and dump the phone card.
Eighth, I can easily get another maybe 200 lays from her b4 I get tired of her.
Ninth, it is not FOC lays. It is more like damn cheap per lay.
Now for bros out there who had experience yanging MM here in china, pls comment. You can criticize me for all I care. I will not get offended.
I had never had so much sex in such short time even with my current sillypore gf when on holiday. Of couse, there are other mm here but never so much.
Now, abit about china.
Do you know that young girls when first come to the city to find normal work, get paid about rmb600-800 per month with food and accomodation provided?
So rmb1000 per month can be an amount they are ok with to stay together if she like you, no need to work, with food and roof above the head.
If you hang around the touristy area, you will never really understand china.
I don’t.
Bros out there who have experience with yanging prc mm, pls comment.
The comments here are basically on the negative side on this.
I dun really mind.
Any other funny suggestions or opinions?
Sorry for not saying thanks to bros here who up me.
Now I am out of the post delaying thing. Damn cool, man.
Thanks to machoman for your points.
Thanks to another bro here who find me sincere.
Your points are indeed very useful.
I am holding back yanging her for a while.
Very busy and overall rather many -ve comments here.
I will ‘research’ into this issue with the rich gentlemen here who spend alot on their er-neis.
Bros here who find this issue amusing, kindly up me a little cos somehow I may get zap for whatever I say or not say in the very future. Or else still kena this post delay thing. TIA
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shengge
You still don know why?
You basically waiting for the worst to happen, what else?
最便宜的将是最贵的。
Personally, I don’t think this is funny, don’t ever under estimate what they will do.
Good Luck!
SG
Hi there shengge,
Not being dispolite, do you mind if I ask if you have ever yang mm in china?
Someone here hates me for keep begging and zap me a point. Kind of wierd.
I think this thread has been kind-of-useful.
Will update here if there is any new dev on the yang thing.
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Pokimon1
Thanks bro. My philosophy in life:
“You may not be able to help everyone, but if you can help one at a time you have done your part as a human being.”
Hi Pokimon1,
Thanks for your comment for someone who has been there. Admire you as a kind soul.
But seriously, to survive and do well here in china, one tends to need to be ruthless or in another word bastard. There are millions who are in dire need of money. It would need a philantropist to do serious work here. Actually rich ppl are aplenty here but are afraid of donating money as there are way too many cases where the money is being mis-used by the charity org. Abit like 100k of charity org like our beloved peanut org, nkf. Lee Ka Shing now donate by asking the local ppl to raise money 1st to do the work. When the work is done, he then pay. He got cheated by his fellow lao xiang in Chao Zhou way too much and he is rather piss. Even the locals do not trust that the local charity gambling org actually help the poor or do the necessary charity work as claimed.
And there are mm out there who toy with men’s feelings while getting paid for doing nothing much. They understand that they can work in proper jobs for little money, long hours, lousy cramp hostel and not much freedom. So they choose the easier way out. I am not realy toying with their feelings, just drive a hard bargain to avoid being toyed.
I had been climatised here in china to be more like them. If I do things like a typical sg, I may not survive competing with them. It may seem like bastardly behavior to a sg but it is just simply biz as usual here.
This thread is meant for Yanger who has been there and done that to share.
I am fully aware about the possible shit that can and will be thrown at me but I am also aware about the possible exit strategies.
Heard too much rich yanger’s story already, especially tw.
Would be good to hear more about low-budget yanging activities.
Bros here finding this thread useful, pls contribute a couple of points. TIA
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wanz
Hi Pokimon1,
When we want to drink milk, we go to the cow, drink the milk and leave till the next need arises. For you, you think it is easier to keep the cow and drink as and when you need, so now contemplating to be a cow farmer. But then being a cow farmer is not easy, especially a low budget one but still you refuse to give up and sought advice here penning for a supporting hand to push you through the last hurdle.
Think about it, nine out of ten advise you to drink and forget while you inisisting for the words that you want to hear before you make the decision, what does that makes us to you. Also, everyone has a different experience, different folks different strokes, what happen to us does not mean will apply for you. Some have deep pockets, some are veterans, some armed with glib tongues, some look like Andy Lau’s younger brother, so what makes you so special or makes our words so inspiring to you then? Think about it all and you may find answers to your questions.
It is rather common for sg and westerners to react this manner, to view things in black and white only. 2 extremes.
There are many shades of grey here that can be exploited.
The locals, tw & hk have less tendency to think this way and tends to do better.
There are many in-betweens from milk buyer to cow farmer.
Retailer, wholesaler, distributor, factory…..
Most have stakes in the cow but may not own the cows.
All have a role to play and in it to be benefited.
I hope to learn from these in-betweens or even a cow farmer who pay dearly for their cows. What I know for sure is that a pricy cow may not produce the most benefit and a competitively priced one may not be that bad after all.
I do not think that I am si bei a sai to have such kang tau. Actually any bros here can have such mm. I had seen how the locals guys go after the mm and I learnt from them. They have their ways and their ways are definitely diff from what foreigners like us would normally do. I also learnt from bros here who are damn lao chiow in china advising me and thus give me an insight into the brains of these mm.
For bros here who are piss off because I seem to be ignoring their advices, I can only say sorry. I am just trying to get hold of as much info as possible to make a better decision or be ready for shit coming up.