Here’s a story that happen last year. I fell for my boss who was trying to seduce me (saying “I can hug you, kiss you…”). I confess I also like him, but I didn’t want to do anything with him because I am attached. He always send me home after work if we work late. One time, he force his body close to me and I cannot move because I am already leaning on the door. He rub his arm against my breast. I just kept very still. He send me text message after that to ask me, do you secretly feel that you want me to make love to you?
I just joined the company and very fresh. Don’t really want to leave so no choice. I keep reminding him that although I do like him too, I don’t want to commit to him. We texted a lot outside work and I lock my phone to prevent misunderstanding. Sometimes when we went for lunch or tea time, he touch my hand or my backside and feel the material underneath. He always walk behind me when there’s other people. Maybe looking at me from behind. I feel so… easy to be taken. One night he took me home in taxi when we work late, and he rubbed my breast. I was very very stiff cos I didn’t expect. He didn’t do anything else since I put my bag between my legs.
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Originally Posted by
Botakhead
Your story and thread title dun seems to fit leh, seduce meaning how?
He force himself onto you is very different, touching you and making you feel shiok is another matter, so you want to give in or not is also another matter.
No big deal if you are married, attached, got bf, got fb, if you’re fl or whatever, he want to have sex with you only, do you want to have sex with him?
I guess it is not straightforward matter. I know it is not right and I don’t want to go further, and I keep telling him to control himself, we can still be good friends since we can chat very well. But he keep telling me he miss me. So far I just make sure I never go out with him alone at night. Day time sometimes no choice have to go for work appointment or discuss work. I try not to show any expression on my face when he touch my private parts. Sometimes it is quite hard because I am horny and my husband is not at home and actually he is also not interested in sex, he says he has no drive. My boss getting more persistent. In the lift if there is no camera, he squeeze my breasts or fondle the nipple over my bra and smile at me. I just look away, turn my head to one side. In the car (my car) after appointment once he even rubbed my pussy and asked me whether he can just take a look. I didn’t answer him and he stuck his file between my legs and rubbed it hard against me. I said don’t want and he stopped that time. :/ In actual fact secretly I don’t think I will reject his advances if he take advantage of me. So I just try to keep away.
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Originally Posted by
eddtan1
Well, do you TS? Since your hubby only want sex once a month and max half hour. Maybe you could try to have another outlet
Once in a blue moon when I really cannot tahan anymore I look for a male masseur, but very hard cos of safety reason. I have patronised a Indian masseur in a budget hotel, he even lick me, and a Chinese man in Orchard road.
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Originally Posted by
Slide2Despair
Anymore Action from your “Boss” ?
It happen every few days. I can’t get away since it’s same department and I am directly under him. He told me to give him just one chance and have a date with him one evening. I never agree. Only lunch time I have no choice, have to accompany him. He will ask me personal questions like how often I service my husband, and tell me not to be so shy since it’s a natural human action especially for women who are married. Last month he told me in the lift, just reveal myself to him once and let him enjoy and he will let me go. I didn’t answer and he kiss me on my lips and squeeze my breast, and he rub the nipple area with his thumb. I flush and did not dare to look at him. He put his hand at my private part and rub me but I struggle and he laugh at me and let me free. He told me to get my work and sit at his desk to finish it.
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Originally Posted by
Laolucas
Wow… sis, I think either you file a sexual harassment suit against the company and your boss or get your boss to reward you with a big fat bonus to make all his advances worth your while.
It’s not going to be good for you psychologically for you on the long term as you may have a phobia of male bosses in the future.
I was thinking of resigning before but he seem to read my mind and warn me not to do anything funny because he will make sure my hubby and colleagues know about my deeds. His table shows his family photo with wife and two young kids. He is a family man image. My hubby think all along I love my job (which I do) and I have to explain why suddenly resign. My boss say he only make one simple request and will give me fat promotion and let me go since he is interested in a new girl who join a few months ago, so he say he will definitely release me.
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Originally Posted by
IamZapped
Sis
In actual fact do you mind have sex with your boss?
To be honest I am afraid he will manage to get me when I vulnerable. I dint want affair. From experience I know it’s very messy. Esp for girls.
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Originally Posted by
tualampar
We must look at everything from both sides. Is your boss seducing you or you are seducing him? Maybe you have been sending him signals that your needs are not fulfilled, so that’s why he is being “encouraged”.
Let’s not say who is seducing who. Why not go for win-win. Enjoy it and enjoy your promotion, enjoy your extra $$$. No need to pay for male masseur to lick you. You get paid n still can enjoy it.
Because he knows I have feelings for him. That’s why. I told him to control himself and we can be friends a long time. But he didn’t…
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Originally Posted by
FartPartner
How about an instalment on an oversea trip? It adds another dimension to your story.
Too dangerous. I don’t even agree to go out after work… I am afraid lose control.
Sorry to be no reply for so long and thanks for all your advice. My boss keep pressuring me. I said I should quit to make it easier for everyone and he told me he need me to finish off his work first and why am I running away from him. I told him he knows I like him but I just can’t, but since he cannot control his feelings I need to be stronger. One morning he call me to go to his house before work to pick up some files for office. He stays in a semi-D. When inside his house, he talk to me about work in his living room. Then ask me to go to the back porch outside the kitchen area. He lean me to the pillar and fondled my chest. Told me to give him one chance since I am thinking to leave him. Then pulled off my dress over my head although I resist his hands movement and bit by bit took off my underwear and all. Ask me don’t worry too much and lie on the floor face up and he did it. After he finish he went to one side to smoke. He watch me get dress and told me to take taxi back to office….