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Originally Posted by
niccck
its true ma.
he who hesitates, masturbates
on the other hand, if u no fb or bf, will u be satiafying urself? or are u the kind who dont have sexual tension?
hhhmmpphh…
i can curb/control my tension deh..no worries
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Part 2:
yah, I was talking abt the 2 guys J (the one i liked) & S (the fb) previously..
during the dinner itself, I kept asking abt J. I even told S, saying tat since they r frm the same team, he shld knw wat kind of guy is J. In summary, S just mentioned that J is not someone good. S did said tat J is someone petty & etc..& if he were to share more abt J, my impression will not b tat great of him afterall so he said he will not say any further.
I even told S that I hope he can be the bridge between me & J
anyway till to date now, thou I have not spoken to J, the impression of him is still that sweet😘 I have alrdy left the coy & wit tat…I have also learnt to let go of my feelings for J. during my last week in the company, I came to know frm my other ex colleagues tat J alrdy has a gf..hai, so sad
I mean if there is another chance again…i really do hope our path will cross somehow again, hopefully tis time its tat both of us r single..coze I have never forgotten tat feelings I have had for him, tat love at 1st sight feeling..haha *praying*
Anyway, me & S did went out for afew dinners tgt & all the time I am probing news abt J..S just kept mum as to all details abt J. S knws I m looking at J secretly in ofce whenever he walks past my cubicle (coze S sits behind me).
When I decided to leave the coy, I hv also decided to put away tat feelings away for J. Our path just dun cross, I have tried to create watever chances I could on my own. I mean even if we are not gg to be attached as bgf, I will still feel very happy to be his friend..whether or not, it will develop into a r/ship..hv to see fate liao.
I went overseas after i left the coy in late Jan, spending my CNY abroad..
S kept in contact wit me still, messaging me while I was overseas..& he invited me over to his place to 拜年, since I did not do any visiting as I was away…I told him ok.
I returned bck to SG on 初四 of CNY, we had dinner b4 heading to his place. When I reached his place, I then realised its only the 2 of us. I swear I did nt knw tat b4 hand..I was like surprised la, but told myself not to worry as he is a fren wat. I was intending to watch tv in his living room & so heng, his celling fan spoilt cannot turn on..really so heng lo. I am someone who cannot tahan stuffiness deh..
So he was like “let’s go my room, i can switch on the aircon & u can watch tv there”..i was ok..big big mistake man.
There we r in his room, he went for his shower while I sat on his bed watching tv. He came out of his shower after, & sat on the other side of the bed..we were chitchatting for awhile talking abt general stuffs, tv programs & etc (nth sexual)…then suddenly he held my hands.
U may ask..can push away his hands or wat. I did..but he continued to grab my hands again..i think it was like the 3rd attempt of him trying to grab my hands & the rest were history..I would probably say tat it happened coze we were alrdy on good talking terms & we could click well, & a little is also on my urge (i think so ok
) coze prior to tat, I was single for a yr plus le..
yeap..tats how it started..
Anyway, the day aft tat, I msg him tat wat we did the night b4 was a mistake..as long as we dun make the same mistake can liao, & he also have a gf.
He even qns me leh..saying wat it was a mistake?? He said sth like it was not a mistake & not a moment of folly kind of thing (??) he even said “yes i have a gf, anyway this period tat I have spent with u, u have never made me feel like someone you like or would consider coze you keep talking abt other guys”
Quote:
Originally Posted by
unsung80
Most woman would be able to control it well, man and woman are wired differently. But there is always exception.
hi
yes la, man & woman r wired differently..rmb man got 2 heads : 1 small 1 big.
Heng, I only got 1 head
sometimes can think without gg thou my other “head”..haha..
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Xgenre
So.. you can make the same mistake once?
Just joking with you ah..
hahaha..i rmb u!! u r the one tat gave me those opinions b4 rite
of coze lah,
lesson no 1: never make the same mistake twice..
meaning to say, can only make the same mistake once..haha