- A is willing to try 3-some
- Asking you to find another girl.
- Girl cannot be someone he knows
- Can have FFM but cannot have MMF.
- He has 3-some already.
- He is playing hard to get.
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I did not confirm this, only hear based on what he said. Thats y i m here to listen to some opinions..
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He did shared with me b4 tat it has always been his fantasy to try 3Ps, he jus wan it to b a one time thing.
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hhmm, tis I dunno. But he did shared tat if he wanted to eat A, he would long ago eaten A, but he dun want. Saying sth like if its A & him alone, he cannot do, got no feel for it.
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i did not confirm this, only hear it from him.
- Actually a week b4 he broke the news saying that he alrdy tried the 3P session, we were talking on some topic..i think we were saying that we have not met for very long le, then he said that he wanted to feed me.
- A is willing to try 3-some
- Asking you to find another girl.
- Girl cannot be someone he knows
- Can have FFM but cannot have MMF.
- He has 3-some already.
- He is playing hard to get.
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Originally Posted by
Ravenzou
Then in that case may be u can try screwing his mind. he is looking for a new FB but throught u. Some people don’t have the luck in getting a FB but those who got it keeps thinking of getting a new ones.
hah..then he can go F spider
well, if i can & had the chance to, I will definitely screw his mind out b4 saying sayonara to him.
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Originally Posted by
acidicavex
Tot it already started?? Especially now she out of moderation can have 256 pm
haha..ooh, no wonder i see an increase in my inbox..haha
ooh, btw i m not looking for FB here, some asking if i m looking for replacement or wat…nonono. I came here asking for opinions, like those genuine cases..how did they started theirs & all..paid or non-paid ones. Can give some feedbacks & all..
I m not into 3P. Like mentioned earlier…its becoze he claims he did it hence I m dropping him off..to me, yes..he hasnt been treating me well..giving me the hot & cold treatment..today i m treating u well, tmrw i m treating u bad etc..can still tahan abit
This 3P thingy is the final straw tat broke the camel’s back..enough is enough..
Like wat i hv described..in actual life, is there even possibilties tat you can hear frm ur own grp of guy frens that tis so & so fren (female) is those super open minded for things like tat?
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Originally Posted by
heineken
forget about him lah. dont waste time liao.To get a BF here is a litter difficult but can try. Good luck.
yah..trying to forget abt him, i will b allrite after awhile. I believe i will
i knw..seeking bf here is like looking for a needle in a haysack..tats y i never find mah..haha
hhmm..i think i will start some storytelling here, some wan to knw how it began..i try to write as interesting as i can
I joined the coy last year in Sept & I knew him, S (my fb). He was seated behind my cubicle but we were in different team, I was from Marketing & he was from Sales. When I joined, I was introduced to all the teams (we were seated on the same level- my coy has a building by itself: 5 levels in fact)
Then I saw J, I dunno why I just have this kind of love at 1st sight feeling..
(Btw, J was the person I liked alot & I did mentioned tat to S).
Sometime in Dec, out of the blue S started talking alot to me..we seldom talk as our teams does not have any work related to each other.
S dropped me a message out of the blue “Hey, you look different recently. I wonder why?” as i just cut my hair shorter then.
When i walked to the back of the office to pass some documents to other colleagues..he dropped me a message “y u keep smiling? so happy ah?”..
I think tat sort of open up some conversation with him..Coze frm the time I joined in Sept till Dec, as our work is not related we do not need to communicate with each other. Even during lunch, he will be lunching wit the guys. While I will lunch wit the girls (my team almost all r ladies). At work we will be like those hi-bye kinda of colleagues.
Through that few “opening” msgs, we somehow became friendlier, we will msg & now we have started to talk alittle more. During weekends, time to time will msg as well. Then once in office, he suddenly called me out & I turned back, he asked what I did the evening b4 & I shared with him that I met my grp of frens for dinner at a Mexican restaurant in Holland V. We ended our conversation then & he send me a message shortly “So when are we gg out for dinner?”..I then suggested we can arrange for lunch instead wit the guys..He suggested dinner instead as lunch is very rushed…end up we arranged for dinner wit the 2 of us.
As i mentioned earlier, J was the one tat I liked..During dinner itself, S suddenly brought up the topic like what are the qualities I am looking for in a bf, trying to sound me out. Saying that the company got so many guys, even if none fit the bill..who is the one that fit closer to my criteria? He then began to list a few names..when S named J..I was like smiling, I think my expression betrayed me, coze I really do like J alot.
S said that he is jealous, he asked if I got any suitors at the moment & say if I were to rank number 1-3..will he fit in? I just told him tat he is probably no 2..anyway he says he dun wan to b no 2.
S did added that J is not that good as I perceived him to be, even if I dun end up choosing him, S still hope I will choose no 3.
[hai..i continue the rest later]
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Originally Posted by
Ahxi
sister as in biological sister or close friends….
big difference…
My sister as in biological sis..coze I did mentioned I hv a younger brother & a younger sis to him..
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Originally Posted by
dresden
he suggesting your sister? what kind of guy is that?!
My sis came as a “last” resort…
1st attempt: He said he heard frm his guy fren that one of their female fren A is those ok open minded type, as I tot he was joking abt it..so I told him I m ok to join in. Which he later rejected the idea saying he dun wan to find pple he knws.
saying sth like he alrdy knw A is those ok type, if he wants to eat..long ago eat le. But if he & her alone, he cannot do, got no feel…
2nd attempt: As he mentioned he did not wan to do wit pple he knws, he kept asking me to cast afew of my own frens..like to test them out & stuffs.
3rd attempt: Bluff him said tat none of my frens in mind, even telling him tat I have “asked” one female fren of mine..she rejected the idea. I told him we can engage FLs instead, he rejected the idea said dun wan.
4th (last) attempt: He then suggested my younger sis..my sis is married wit a kid alrdy, i knw her character, confirm will not be successful deh.
He even asked me to convince her to try, then said sth like lifetime experience.
I bluff him saying tat I have alrdy “asked” my sis, she is not into this thing..
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Originally Posted by
Jevv
My sis came as a “last” resort…
1st attempt: He said he heard frm his guy fren that one of their female fren A is those ok open minded type, as I tot he was joking abt it..so I told him I m ok to join in. Which he later rejected the idea saying he dun wan to find pple he knws.
saying sth like he alrdy knw A is those ok type, if he wants to eat..long ago eat le. But if he & her alone, he cannot do, got no feel…
2nd attempt: As he mentioned he did not wan to do wit pple he knws, he kept asking me to cast afew of my own frens..like to test them out & stuffs.
3rd attempt: Bluff him said tat none of my frens in mind, even telling him tat I have “asked” one female fren of mine..she rejected the idea. I told him we can engage FLs instead, he rejected the idea said dun wan.
4th (last) attempt: He then suggested my younger sis..my sis is married wit a kid alrdy, i knw her character, confirm will not be successful deh.
He even asked me to convince her to try, then said sth like lifetime experience.
I bluff him saying tat I have alrdy “asked” my sis, she is not into this thing..
Lol. Ask him to bring his own sister in if he has one.
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Originally Posted by
Xgenre
Hope you don’t find this post harsh but since you are looking for answers, let me share my points of view.
Did you confirm this or did you hear this only from what he says? I think A might never have agreed on 3-some. A is just a name he use to bait you into thinking about 3-some. He used A to test if you are willing to consider 3-some. You said ok so he moved onto point 2. A and A’s friend might not even be real people.
He just wants another pussy. Pretty or not also never mind. Never see your sister before also never mind. After you agree to try 3-some, then he open his mouth to ask you to find another girl mah. Step by step logic right or not?
1 tell-tale sign that A does not exist as a real person or A is not that type of girl who agrees to 3-some is if A really exists/agrees to 3-some, then the 3-some would have happened by now. Guys won’t take long to organize a 3-some if he has really found 2 willing partners.
But the girl can be someone you know wor. Sad to say this again, he sees you as a pussy, a disposable piece of tissue. He can dump you and go back to acting like a goody-goody boy in front of his real friends. If he has a 3-some with a real friend and you, he still needs to deal with his real friend after dumping you leh. You say correct or not?
Means he wants to enjoy being centre of attention but don’t want you to enjoy being the centre of attention. He wants you to please him but don’t want to please you.
As in point 1, did you confirm this or only hear it from him? If A can be an imaginary friend or someone who didn’t say she agrees to being in a 3-some, then the same applies for A’s friend. All make up stories.
He knows you got low self-esteem. He knows you are not very clever. He knows he can twist and turn you like a string around his fingers. What he is hoping is that you will panic about losing him as a FB and really go out to find him another willing pussy.
He is NOT playing hard to get. He is sian of bedding you already. He doesn’t care about losing you as a FB. He does not care about his harsh answers to you. You are now just slightly better than him masterbating himself now. He has no reason to stop having free sex with you mah. Got pussy better than use squid, got squid better than use hands.
Even if he really want to stop being your FB, he will also think of the best way to dump you right? If he say stop, you will feel like a used piece of tissue. Then he still got to see you at work. The smarter way is to treat you like shit and then let you feel so terrible until YOU say you want to stop the FB relationship. Then at least you have some self-esteem back because you are the person who say stop. It is you who don’t want him. Next time meet at work you also won’t feel like used tissue mah.
I think you should move on and grow wiser as a person. Many guys talk about FB relationships but how many guys are willing to fuck the same pussy over a long period of time even if the pussy is free?
Sorry if my answers make you feel terrible. Hopefully you will only feel terrible for a short while. If I never explain so clearly, I think you will feel terrible because of him for an even longer period of time. If you want to thank me, you can always buy me a cup of coffee. No need for you to bring another girl along ah.
Coffee no need 3-some.
Hi,
I m someone who is very frank & I m ok with pple being very frank with me..I can take it, no worries
He mentioned he alrdy tried wat he wanted alrdy, a week after he mentioned abt his female fren A.
I think he himself knws I care abt him, coze most of the time is..I will msg him 1st asking him how is he & so on. He did mentioned that he is the 被动 kinda of person, so ok I mean I dun mind taking initiatives.
As I was overseas (i did nt tell him i was overseas b4 tat), he told me tat he wan to feed me now..I said I m busy, mayb next week. He then asked y it cannot be now? Where m i? Why so busy? Now is I want to feed u but u dun wan..
aft all these, I then told him tat I m overseas…He was like LL, ok..
we r not longer colleagues, he & i have alrdy left the company.
Trackside: In fact back in May, I did told him tat I do not want to continue this r/ship anymore. I knw he has a gf, hence citing tat reason for not continuing it.
I think I did mentioned tat he seldom looks for me, thinking tat his urge got satisfy elsewhere (probably his gf)..he then replied tat he is very busy at work as he have just joined a new company in March, he told me he only hv urge for me.
I said tat as he seldom looks for me, I dun wan to always b like the one keep asking for him, i dun wan to b so desperate, he then said he is desperate for me..Coze b4 tat he did told me to go on birth control pills, its the case where he kept asking..until the point that he decided to stop asking me.
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Originally Posted by
Xgenre
Hope you don’t find this post harsh but since you are looking for answers, let me share my points of view.
Did you confirm this or did you hear this only from what he says? I think A might never have agreed on 3-some. A is just a name he use to bait you into thinking about 3-some. He used A to test if you are willing to consider 3-some. You said ok so he moved onto point 2. A and A’s friend might not even be real people.
He just wants another pussy. Pretty or not also never mind. Never see your sister before also never mind. After you agree to try 3-some, then he open his mouth to ask you to find another girl mah. Step by step logic right or not?
1 tell-tale sign that A does not exist as a real person or A is not that type of girl who agrees to 3-some is if A really exists/agrees to 3-some, then the 3-some would have happened by now. Guys won’t take long to organize a 3-some if he has really found 2 willing partners.
But the girl can be someone you know wor. Sad to say this again, he sees you as a pussy, a disposable piece of tissue. He can dump you and go back to acting like a goody-goody boy in front of his real friends. If he has a 3-some with a real friend and you, he still needs to deal with his real friend after dumping you leh. You say correct or not?
Means he wants to enjoy being centre of attention but don’t want you to enjoy being the centre of attention. He wants you to please him but don’t want to please you.
As in point 1, did you confirm this or only hear it from him? If A can be an imaginary friend or someone who didn’t say she agrees to being in a 3-some, then the same applies for A’s friend. All make up stories.
He knows you got low self-esteem. He knows you are not very clever. He knows he can twist and turn you like a string around his fingers. What he is hoping is that you will panic about losing him as a FB and really go out to find him another willing pussy.
He is NOT playing hard to get. He is sian of bedding you already. He doesn’t care about losing you as a FB. He does not care about his harsh answers to you. You are now just slightly better than him masterbating himself now. He has no reason to stop having free sex with you mah. Got pussy better than use squid, got squid better than use hands.
Even if he really want to stop being your FB, he will also think of the best way to dump you right? If he say stop, you will feel like a used piece of tissue. Then he still got to see you at work. The smarter way is to treat you like shit and then let you feel so terrible until YOU say you want to stop the FB relationship. Then at least you have some self-esteem back because you are the person who say stop. It is you who don’t want him. Next time meet at work you also won’t feel like used tissue mah.
I think you should move on and grow wiser as a person. Many guys talk about FB relationships but how many guys are willing to fuck the same pussy over a long period of time even if the pussy is free?
Sorry if my answers make you feel terrible. Hopefully you will only feel terrible for a short while. If I never explain so clearly, I think you will feel terrible because of him for an even longer period of time. If you want to thank me, you can always buy me a cup of coffee. No need for you to bring another girl along ah.
Coffee no need 3-some.
I do appreciate your insights..i mean when I came here looking for some opinions, I sort of wanted to share wat has happened too..at least I dun need to bottle things up. I m someone who prefer to vent my frustrations on my problem..once I m done, I can move on alrdy. Because if I were to bottle things up, my mind will jus keep thinking abt it, no outlet to release
Sometimes u jus have to 拿的起 放的下
I told myself tat…
the only thing I m alittle upset abt it is..if only it (sex between us) did not happen, at least we r still frens..can b on good talking terms & all
Tis is sth I do regret, but then life still goes on…
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Originally Posted by
iconsam
Yes I have heard such things from my friends. I did ask the girl and we had a mff with her friend once. Since then we have been fb until she had to leave the country for work. But it is rare for a girl to want mff.
U mentioned it is rare for a girl to want mff, but u got it