Sorry everyone - I haven’t made any post in this space of late. A couple of things have happened over the past few weeks.
My business trip to Hong Kong had overlapped into Christmas and Ada had flew up to accompany me. While enjoying the wonderful sights + great weather, I have popped the question to Ada, to end her relationship with her boyfriend.
Yes, I know that I’ve first dips. Ada loved me and my relationship with Ada was there before the entrance of that kid. Ada’s only using that kiddo as a cover, since our relationship is underground (for obvious reasons); but it just did not feel right. I do not want to build our happiness by crushing another man’s hopes and dreams. I have met that kiddo before, honest young lad but this is a race where the good guy will not have a good ending. With the end of 2013, I just wanted both Ada and myself to do the right thing - “release” this lad and hope that he will find someone who can genuinely and sincerely reciprocate his devotion.
Ada had a good thought about it and agreed to do it at the very moment when we touched down back at Changi. It was cruel but do remember… this guy is rather daft in the head (Ada had dropped numerous hints before and he just refused to ack them), this confession has got to be “right-in-the-face” kinda thing.
Basically, Ada asked him to come and pick her up in the airport and when he arrived at the Arrival Hall, he saw Ada coming out of the gate, with her hands tightly interlocked with mine. I can see that he was crushed, but it had to be done - 长痛不如短痛. Ada brought the kiddo to a corner and confessed the truth, I loitered around in the background in-case he turned violent towards Ada. Ada made her point and left with me (prior to this, I’d arranged my driver to come and picked us up). I was glad that the kiddo was civic-minded enough to let Ada leave in peace.
***Point to note - I did genuinely felt bad for that lad, but I will rather he get the idea crystal clear into his head now, than waste n+ years for something that will never happen. I know that it seems twisted at the present, but its really for his own good in the long run.
NYE was rather SOP - we both spent it with our respective families separately. Ada did mention that since she does not have a boyfriend now and I cannot accompany her all the time (work commitments and family obligations calls), she could literally be bored to tears. We are currently toying “adopting” a sugar baby - someone of whom can both be a proxy “sister” for Ada (friends with benefits), keeping her company and also at the same time, be “invited” into our exclusive circle of sexual “exploration”.
Seems fun and exciting. Am really looking forward to 2014 now.
Its been a while, the past couple of months was hectic - tons of work and too much of a fun. Either way, things have sort of settled down once again - got my promotion, another pay rise, wife got another toyboy, Ada & I have finally settled down on a sugar baby (it took Ada quite a while to get the right one - we’ve been through a couple, before Ada confirmed the ideal candidate).
Stay tune on this page - i will be updating shortly on this front. Till then, good night everyone and stay safe.
*p.s* Ada has a little GOOD NIGHT for you all
Hi Everyone - Apologies for the year long hiatus. Things have cropped up but have since being sorted. Ada and I are still together - ever loving and strong.
We intend to continue where we left off. Sammyboy Forum is really the place where we can wash our “dirty” secrets out in public (with anonymity of course). Our names have been changed - details mixed around with some false names (Singapore is after all, a very very small place). Some of you will continue to hate us for what we have done (and are still doing); whereas some of you will empathize with us - we are really just victims of our own destinies. We cannot change the world, so we just try to be true to ourselves and live around it.
For the benefit of the readers here - we strongly recommend you to read through the past 7 pages of our chat - this should bring you up to speed on what we’ve covered earlier on (before the hiatus).
Please do let us know if you feel there’s any improvements we can make. Nope, we will not be disclosing our identities. We have too much on the line. I’m married with kids and she’s currently engaged with someone else. We will try to do the best we can, but there’s a very distinct line which we will NEVER cross over here. If you like what we are writing, do show some encouragement by giving us some apples or leaving positive comments behind. Thank you.
(hugs and kisses from Ada. I’m a guy - i don’t kiss fellow samsters. =-P)
Disclaimer: This is not a sexual fantasy story. Its real and true. There will be sexual contents - we will try to make it sensational - but the bulk of it will be our love story - one of which we hope will never end. If you find this boring and not to your liking, you are most welcome to leave. You have been warned.
Previously:
Holding each other together, we hugged for what seemed like an eternity. It’s going to be dawn soon, I’ve better send Ada home. We tried to salvage as much as we can and clean up the “crime-scene”, but one things for certain – the passenger car seat upholstery is gone and the dashboard has a plenty sweet-smelling scent – a visit to the workshop is inevitable. Ada must have been very tried, ‘cos as I was driving her home, she had fallen asleep in the seat.
As the sun rises over her background, I recalled that it was the most beautiful sight I’ve ever seen – the sun beams bouncing off her angelic face, her silky black hair flowing down like prairie grass swaying in the gentle summer breeze – I knew there and then, with a resolute as firm as a rock, that my heart has been given totally to Ada. I will love her and nobody else till the ends of time.
I dropped her off and walked her back home. On my way back, my mind was confused. Prior to Ada, everything was so carefree and easy-going; now with Ada, things have changed. For the 1st time in my life, I’ve tasted fear. In the past, there was nothing for me to cherish, hence nothing to hold me back; but now, I’ve realized that I loved Ada more than I love myself. I cannot continue to live my life as a vagabond, I need to set my priorities right, I need to be that strong column that Ada can rely on…
I think I have a plan…
the trick now……..
is how to put that plan into fruition………..
It’s time to shed a bit of information about myself. My paternal family was blessed. Our ancestors were important officials during the Qing dynasty and had acquired large swaps of land back then. Through the civil war and Japanese occupation, the family still managed to retain a sizable portion of our inheritance with dubious controversies on the “means” we took to survive. Our ancestors always feared that Karma will hit us back. It did. It came in the form of the Cultural Revolution. As wealthy land owners and alleged “汉奸”, we were top on the witch hunt. Many of our family’s members were rounded up, sent to labour camps and/or murdered.
Our patriarch, in his wisdom, sent his remaining sons to various parts of Asia – in hope that our bloodline will survive through the persecution. My great grandfather was the 8th son out of 13. His dad gave him a portion of the family’s dwindling gold and sent him on a boat to West Malaysia.
The year was 1967.
He arrived with his family (my great grandma and grandpa) and worked tirelessly hard to become a successfully plantation owner. The “exodus” was a success. Our patriarch was sacrificed but in his legacy, he has seeded our families in Taiwan, Hong Kong, Malaysia (East and West), Thailand, Indonesia and Australia.
Leveraging on our extensive family network, he quickly established a successful trading enterprise across the East Asia region. In the early 1970s, this was considered a huge achievement but alas! Disaster strike again. Malaysia implemented the cursed NEP policy – it sounded great on paper but in reality, it’s just huge racial penalty (i.e. governance, economic, education, finance, social and political) on all minority races to benefit the Malay bumiputra.
Having inherited the foresight of his father, my great-grandfather realized that the days of securing our business fortunes in Malaysia is over – he predicted that NEP will be the first of many rots that will eventually bring down Malaysia – he then made the logical choice to move the family and our core businesses to Singapore. He never lived to see it happened and our “2nd” exodus was led by my grandfather.
Over the years, our family’s businesses have expanded greatly and has dabbled into many other different industries – kudos to the late Mr Lee Kuan Yew, for leading the solidification of Singapore’s foundations, we are now, really reaping the fruits of his labor.
Wait a minute! You must have been wondering why I’m ranting my family’s history on a sexual forum. Right?
There’s a reason for that. My family’s background is both a blessing and a curse that has come to plague Ada and I. The karma of being 日本鬼子的走狗 had not end. I am still paying the dues of my forefathers’ crimes.
My grandfather has aged and my father had taken over the reins. A huge load of responsibilities has been entrusted on his shoulders – our family’s honor, extended families’ well-being, our business partners and valued employees (and their families) – are resting on him to make the right decisions to ensure our survival. As his only son and among my cousins, one of the brighter few – it’s a common knowledge among the families that I’m 2nd in line to the “throne”.
From the minute I was born, my life has been engineered to ensure that I will be given the best education money can buy. I was expected to conform to our family’s strict values. Friends and acquaintances were vet to ensure the “right” exposure. We are a traditional Confucius family – any flamboyant showmanship will be frown upon, the family will go into depths to ensure we stay out of the media – thank god for Singapore’s “neutered” paparazzi.
I was expected to meet and marry a respectable lady. One of whom will support destined “responsibilities” and bear the heir to the family’s succession line.
Up till the point when I met Ada, I never had that feeling of meeting Ms RIGHT. Yes. I’d flings before – girls were never too hard to come by – I did come from a respectable school, admirable grades, fashionable dress sense (yes. I’d my personal stylist), good physique (kudos to my ECA – swimming), nice car and cash – take all the above, coupled with sweet talk and empty nothings, it’s only a matter of time before one will serenade a lady in this “Disney Princess” fantasy (no idea why girls dig this though) and very often, into the bed as well. But after all the romance and fantasy “honeymoon” died away, there will always be this empty void seeping in – it’s almost like one being thirsty as hell after a good game of football and no matter how much drinks one drank, one’s thirst could never be quenched.
That all changed when I met Ada.
The feelings that I’d for Ada was pure. She did not knew that I was privileged. She loved me for who I am – if I had gone penniless, she will still stand steadfastly by my side. No words could describe the feelings we had for one another.
We did not have sex but I was satisfied --- because she was satisfied. True love is all about giving, without expecting any reciprocation.
I’ve tasted it and it was SWEET. I knew there and then, with a resolute as firm as a rock that my heart has been given totally to Ada. I will love her and nobody else till the ends of time. I’ve found my Ms Right. My family will be happy for me. “Happy Ending”…. here I come!!!
I was 21 and how naïve I was.
…
The phone rang. Ada was calling me.
Me: Hey baby. You just woke up?
Ada: Ya lor! So tired last night. Ko’ed till 4pm then wake up. But since exams are over, now’s the time to hibernate and nua
Me: Na bei! And I’m still in my army camp, serving my National “Slavery” sentence
Ada: Dear. Don’t swear leh. I don’t like to hear people swear. It’s ok lah. Another 2 more months you will ORD lor!
Ada: Any plans after you ORD?
Me: I had a plan. Well…. It’s technically not MY PLAN. My parents want me to study at the London Business School. My grades secured me a place in their business degree program. The plan is for me to finish my undergraduate there before moving over to the Columbia Business School to complete my MBA.
Ada: Wow! Really? That’s very far away from here.
Me: Bo pian! It was already decided since the day I’ve gotten into Sec 1. How about you? What are your plans?
Ada: My plans ah? I hope my grades will pull through and get me a place in JC lor. But haiz… It’s likely that I will purse the poly route instead.
Me: Hey! Don’t like that leh. You are my 学生 leh. I’ve faith in you and myself (as a good teacher =P) that your grades can make it one lah!
Ada: No lah. It’s not about the grades. My dad seemed to have got into some trouble. When I came back this morning, he was quarrelling with my mum. It sounded really bad.
Me: Oh dear! Why is he now?
Ada: After the quarrel, he just left the house and has not returned back.
\*Suddenly there’s a lot of loud noises in the background, sounded like people shouting and banging the gate over at Ada’s side\*
Me: What’s happening Ada? \*anxious\*
Ada: Ma’s outside, let me go and see what’s happening. Talk to you later. Love you. Bye.
Me: Ada? Ada?
Me: ........... ADA!
\*phone went dead\*
To be continued.