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Originally Posted by
ben2011
Thanks bro for the songs…. i am sorry for the late reply as i am jst discharged from hospital..
Thanks bro for yr songs…. i really love and appreciate it alot…..
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Bro… i do agreed with u as girls advance faster than men as they do nt need to serve ns….
but i am always thankful for yvonne who is always there for me throughout the worst times i have….. making sure i will cut down on drinking…. really remind me of those younger days when she tell me to quit smoking….
Hence i will drink coke whenever i meet my brothers ar the pub….
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Originally Posted by
Protossterran
wow…nice story here bro. Meaningful enough to make me read 40 over pages at 1 shot with tears.
Perhaps Yvonne is your real wife but life trolls..
Both went on to marry a spouse who are less fit.
Both spouses cheated.
It shows gals mindset change to date older guys at the age of changing over period between studies-NS-work. Many bros lost their 1st GF that way.
Throughout so many years no sex with her too.
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Originally Posted by
lovebj83
Can relate to ur story Very well Bro.
I’m year 83, last few years of our era.
And lived in balestier.
“Dua boy " era. Used to always sit at 82 86 talk cock sing song with Whampoa bros.
Cannot reveal anymore liao, If not kena exposed id lol.
Gd to c another brother here…. best wishes to u…. huat ah …
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Originally Posted by
kuasimi
Bro well done.. one of my old time fave songs…. it really explain the brotherly bond between brothers… Men apart from kam cheng… value and honour brotherly ties…..
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Originally Posted by
CoolDaze
Bro Zerofighter, I started reading your stories since yesterday. I’m very deeply moved by the love you had with Yvonne. Really sad to hear about your marriage issues.
After reading your stories, it made me want to share mine too.
I was born in 1973 (guessed that I’m older than you by a few years), my primary school is Ping Yi Pr Sch. I had a crush with my classmate through those years. Even until she went Tanjong Katong Girls School. I remember that every morning I will stand under a block in Bedok South just to see her from far waiting for bus 31. I will only leave for school after I see her boarded her bus.
I guess puppy love make us do silly things.
I did tell her that I like her during our secondary school period but she rejected me. Too bad I lost contact with her over the years. Once in awhile, I will hope to see her again just to know how is she doing.
First love is always the most memorable…. bro i am born in 1974… a year younger than u…. those foolish things which we do for love is really bring a smile to my heart at times… feelings which is so zhen…. and unforgettable…
Just want to share this song here…..
Hope that u guys will like it.
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Originally Posted by
ben2011
Good to see you back!!
Hope you are fine bro.
I am what I am
Great to c u…. my bro…. i am better now. Just have to remain strong and fight the battle. Thanks bro for the song. How have u been…
Thanks bro for yr comments… appreciate it….
Love by itself is a gamble… from the very beginning… i am aware of the education gap netween me and yvonne. That is the reason which hold my feelings for her…. however events slowly unfolded and we r eventually together…..
The fact is i progressed slower than her is evident and can fully understand her insecurity….
The only regret is this relationship is nt fruitful…
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Originally Posted by
papy
1st of all your story is very well written and I can feel your pain and dilemma….
there were a couple of stories that are so well written in SBF yet I have nvr taken the effort to register and comment well…… I’m here…..
Just my thoughts and I didn’t want to burst your bubbles but I had to say this.
I feel that your love with Yvonne will only be a dream fulfilled if you took the effort to look for her after you ORD, that is your part sadly you held it close to your heart and nvr release until lately or for this matter too late……
while if Yvonne really loves you she wouldn’t leave you just because of loneliness……. while you are in camp, not that you have a choice……
In order to love such a woman, you will have to give up a lot of things…….
a selfish person I would say…… you deserve better for your loyalty and the capability to love………
Love is hard to judge but if logically I really think love should be reciprocated becos love is between 2 beings for this matter and not for selfish gains which you have portrait Yvonne in this story…… for loneliness she left u while you are In camp and now while her husband is not around and that probably he is having nice time with women while entertaining………
Still I think she isn’t an ideal woman to be around…. not loyal and is afraid of loneliness……
Love doesn’t seem so important to her nor something she can’t live without…. but loneliness she can’t live without…..
Sorry if I misinterpreted Yvonne’s character, I just thought you deserve better……. loyal and selflessness is a gem these days…… or to my own context……
Hope you can find your peace………..
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cr8tiv3
Bro I really can relate to your life story and it has certainly triggered my tear ducts while reading.
I’ve been thru the nineties ah beng era and reading your story did bring up old memories. I am from a neighbourhood school too and my ex was a st nicks girl in the special stream. As those days there were no mobile phones, she would sneak out of her house after her parents slept to call me using public phone. Ah memories
I really hope u can find peace and joy with your life and your 2 kids.
Yup… bro… these r indeed sweet memories…. which is worthy to be remembered…. best wishes to u and yr family too. .
Bro.. i am fine. Now clearing leave to spend more time with the kids and taking care of the baby. She really bring this family bundles of joy.. though it can be quite tiring at times. Having to go through to square 1… feeding and baby cries at the middle of nite again. But it is worth it as u can see her growing and her innocent smiles.
Bro how have u been too? Time really flies, we have know each other for slightly over a year now.
Wishing you a Merry Christmas in advance. God bless you and yr family.